i was with this guy for almost 2 years and i realy loved him, he left me in victoria to go to the army, and i waited for him for 8 months then we seen each other after 8 months. we have broken up now but we still see each other, i seen him at a night club on sat-day night and he took me home to his house and we ****** now he tells me he don't wanna see me because he is dateing some one .. wot should i do to pay him back for makeing me look like a idiot ?
2007-01-15 16:42:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
forget about it, you're the one who let yourself get tricked. Plus he got his and you got yours, women like getting ****** too.
2007-01-15 16:46:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
OK, you trusted him. I was in the Army at about that age. If you want the truth, he's probably just gonna party for the entire time he's in, then get out and get serious. That's too bad for the relationship, but for your own satisfaction you should call him and meet privately for lunch,, and ask him if he knows what he is letting go. This is really for your satisfaction / closure. If he says yes,, then that's it, move on. If he thinks about it, he may change his mind. btw though,, it does take two to tango.
2007-01-15 16:54:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one can make you look like an idiot except yourself. Take responsibility for your own actions and then go out and find someone who appreciates the wonderful person you really are. Chalk it up to experience, let it go, and don't be vindictive. It sucks up your energy and you will be miserable your whole life long if you spend your energy 'getting people back.'
2007-01-15 16:47:26 · answer #3 · answered by XOXOXOXO 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Nothing!!
You need to move on & get over him no matter how it hurts
time will heal your pain & you will be pleased with yourself if you act in a propper manner
Keep yourself very busy
help out a charity or someone less fortunate than you & go out with your friends & join a sports club to maybe
but please keep your dignity & don't make a fool of yourself
2007-01-15 17:48:42 · answer #4 · answered by ausblue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex girlfriend did that to me...without the seeing each other and screwing part. Just let it go. I still have hopes, but i don't dwell on them. I'm going on with life, and that's what I would suggest for you to do.
2007-01-15 16:50:47 · answer #5 · answered by JEHLERS 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should have said "no" If you two had broken up, what did you expect. He was used to getting what he wanted and you let him do it. Chalk that one up to a mistake and move on with your life without him.
2007-01-15 16:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by Dyan 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
The way I've read your question,Your the one to blame for your own stupidity for seeing this guy again.Gluten for punishment.You let him use you again.Shame on you,Once bitten twice shy my dear,TWICE shy,Meaning you've learnt from your first mistake not to see him again.Don't blame him,Your at fault.Get over it and move on.
2007-01-15 16:52:59 · answer #7 · answered by Eat My Shorts 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im sorry for what happen to you, but revenge is not the answer
that will do nothing. but you just need to move on, but as they
say what go around will come around and he will get his down the
road trust me. they all way do.you not a idiot, you trust this guy
because you love him.
2007-01-15 16:50:40 · answer #8 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him you're pregnant, does your father own a shotgun?
2007-01-15 16:46:48 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
ohhh thats hardcore!!!u should like key his kar our somtin if ur that kinda person i mean.
2007-01-15 16:48:01 · answer #10 · answered by antzmyboy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋