2007-01-15 16:50:10 · 8 answers · asked by mz.chrisb 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Geez. Thats really tricky. If the feelings are mutual, it could develop into a fairy tale. If it isnt, you could risk losing ur best fren coz it can get very awkwad. I wish i can help you, but im oso in the same boat as you are. In the past, ive successfully convinced myself to let go of my feelings (better to have a best fren forever). But recently, its deja vu again. Worst. Ive actually encouraged him to ask another gurl out. And now he likes her just as well. *sigh. Dun make the same silly mistake like i did alright. Check for his body language to test if theres a possiblility that he likes you too. Or ask him casually if theres a possibility that you two could be more than friends. Heck. If your bold enough, ask him straight. If he says no, hold ur dignity high and laugh it off. You can always pretend that your just asking for fun.
2007-01-15 17:08:27 · answer #1 · answered by akazukinchacha27 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's easy just come out and tell him all of the things he is to you. Be honest with him because dating is always hit or miss. He might just feel the same way! Try following my 5 biblical principles to tell him even more of the other things that makes you feel the way you do! Ask Yourself does he?:
1. Does he love you for who you are (inside first than out)? The Bible says: *“Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil, but rejoices with the truth.” 1 Corinthians 13:4-6
2. Does he honor you? Will he do things just to make you happy? Will he try some of the things you are interested in or maybe shares some of the same interests and hobbies? The Bible says:
* “Be devoted to one another in brotherly love. Honor one another above yourselves.” Romans 12:10
3. Cherishes your body, mind and soul? Doesn't go to far on these things until your ready? The Bible says: * “Your beauty should not come from outward adornment, such as braided hair and the wearing of gold jewelry and fine clothes. Instead, it should be that of your inner self, the unfading beauty of a gentle and quiet Spirit, which is of great worth in God’s sight.” 1 Peter 3:3-4
4. You trust him to the fullest? He is your best friend and you are his? The Bible Says: * “ Love always protects, always trusts, always hopes always perseveres.” 1 Corinthians 13:7
5. You communicate well? He understands you like he could be your twin? The Bible says: * “ Do not let any unwholesome talk come out of your mouths, but only what is helpful, that it may benefit those who listen.” Ephesians 4:29
To Sum it up: Stick to 1. Love 2. Honor 3. Cherish 4. Trust 5. Communication and I promise if your relationship is based on these things you will know what its like to find true love! And Yes! I have used my principles myself and I am convinced I have found my soul mate! But to find her I also used these same principles to weed out my soul mate from the relationships that just didn't work. In addition, letting God and Jesus Christ lead your heart, mind, body and soul also aid in the weeding process.God Bless!
2007-01-16 01:12:34 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont right away show them u like them, omigod, do u want to scare him off.
I know u would rather have him ur friend then to lose him at all.
So play it cool, act as you have been acting.
Gradually flirt with him. You can tell how he feels by his responding actions.
Actions speak louder than words, so play up the flirt, then when jis actions are stronger towards u then usual, ask him out.
2007-01-16 01:07:21 · answer #3 · answered by Purple Haze 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have the same problem :)
i have been told it is better to just say it, fast like pulling of a band-aid :) I know i am too scared to even think about telling Angelia that i love her, but it's better to try then to be old and alone one day thinking what could have been :(
2007-01-16 00:56:29 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
give me some feedback on this song i wrote. i plan to perform it for my girlfriend's birthday. let me know what you think! thanks!
here it is:
Its just one of those days
When you don't wanna wake up
Everything is ******
Everybody sux
You don't really know why
But want justify
Rippin' someone's head off
No human contact
And if you interact
Your life is on contract
Your best bet is to stay away ************
It's just one of those days!!
[chorus]
Its all about the he says she says bullshit
I think you better quit
Lettin' **** slip
Or you'll be leavin with a fat lip
Its all about the he says she says bullshit
I think you better quit talkin that ****
(Punk, so come and get it)
Its just one of those days
Feelin' like a freight train
First one to complain
Leaves with a blood stain
Damn right I'm a maniac
You better watch your back
Cuz I'm ******' up your program
And if your stuck up
You just lucked up
Next in line to get ****** up
Your best bet is to stay away ************
Its just one of those days!!
[chorus]
I feel like ****
My suggestion is to keep your distance cuz right now im dangerous
We've all felt like ****
And been treated like ****
All those motherfuckers that want to step up
I hope you know I pack a chain saw
I'll skin your *** raw
And if my day keeps goin' this way I just might break somethin' tonight...
I hope you know I pack a chain saw
I'll skin your *** raw
And if my day keeps goin' this way I just might break somethin' tonight...
I hope you know I pack a chain saw
I'll skin your *** raw
And if my day keeps goin' this way I just might break your ******' face tonight!!
Give me somethin' to break
How bout your ******' face
I hope you know I pack a chain saw, what!!...
2007-01-16 00:53:24 · answer #5 · answered by Rotten Egg Farts Smell Delicious 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
boy that guy gave you a good answer lol...just be there for him and let him realize that you are paying special attention too him (not to much just enough)
2007-01-16 01:09:00 · answer #6 · answered by Bob 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ask him out most guys love to be asked out.
2007-01-16 00:55:21 · answer #7 · answered by sheets0681 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just hang out with him a lot , that usually does it !
and well also tell him that you do ! you're sweet ~
2007-01-16 00:57:48 · answer #8 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋