Why do men say they like you, then don't care if women
like them or not? They force women to date them so they
can get to know them. And if women aren't interested and
say NO... Men get upset. Why? Why men don't understand
that? Just because HE likes you, you suppose to LIKE him
back? Am I a bad person if I turn him down????
2007-01-15 16:30:39 · 11 answers · asked by MFD 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Men think they know what is best for you.
2007-01-19 04:48:58 · answer #1 · answered by Jagger Otto 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't a bad person for turning him down. Your thoughts are a little mixed up, since a guy can't really force a woman to date him. But despite all that, the reason he's upset is probably because it hurt his pride some and maybe burst his bubble. He'll get over it.
2007-01-16 00:36:17 · answer #2 · answered by Laura Renee 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, your not a bad person for turning him down. It's your life and you need to choose who You want to be with, not just be with someone because they say they like you.
Alot of men are just out for sex to begin with, and if they get upset because you turn them down for a date, then they're not worth worrying about.
2007-01-16 00:42:24 · answer #3 · answered by au197_0 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if he is a nice person, then you should give him a chance unless you already have someone else in your mind or unless he is repulsive to you. If you think about it, rarely does a relationship start with both people mutually secretly in love with each other before one of them makes the first move. That's a fairy tale.
2007-01-16 00:35:29 · answer #4 · answered by The Answerer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. No-one is a bad person just for declining a date with someone. If you don't want to put up with their badgering you to date them, keep away from wherever they are.
2007-01-16 00:36:51 · answer #5 · answered by Alwyn C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No because guys put all there validation what there worth at a womens mercy. If u reject him that takes away his validation and sense of belonging. He becomes less unworthy. Find someone who knows who he is and isn't afraid of rejection.
2007-01-16 00:37:12 · answer #6 · answered by DVD 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it just means you are smart. its that guys have this thing called an ''EGO'' and that gets hurt when they get turned down,and then suddenly the guy who was chasing you will start saying nasty things bout you (how you are a flirt, ***** etc) ,same with women to whom guys don't respond(they go bout calling them a gay)
but WHO CARES ! don't you freaking go out with them !!
2007-01-16 00:38:48 · answer #7 · answered by spin spin sunshine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
because they want you really bad because thats how i feel tho i never had been turned down cuz i already kno but yea they juss like you so bad so bad so bad......You must be pretty then!! =P he likes you so bad
but u have the right to say no
2007-01-16 00:36:10 · answer #8 · answered by Tha best!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course NOT ---it's means you are smart and a girl in charge of her own life and who she chooses to date ---keep up the good WORK, never lose that 'mind of your own.'
2007-01-16 00:33:36 · answer #9 · answered by XOXOXOXO 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
how does anyone FORCE someone to date them?
i have never heard of that before in my life
2007-01-16 00:42:05 · answer #10 · answered by zether 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋