Well in middle school i guess i was pretty cool. i know this sound really lame but i was best friends with like the most popular boy in middle school. alot of people didn't like me, i really don't know why though. then when i got to highschool me and that boy stoped hanging around eachother so much. i still have friends, but i feel like they are just class friends. i feel like i come off really clingy, and that people think im annoying.
i try to be myself, and i really am myself, but i don't think people like me for me.
yeah i hang around that "popular" group, yeah lame, but i think they don't want me around, when i do hang around them.
i know im not ugly, like at all.
but i know im not gorgeous...
what can i do?
do i have to change myself, to make friends?
2007-01-15 16:31:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
try going into the differnt sort of groups around. there are soo many t choose from. being popular isnt the greatest thing ever. you dont need to change yourself if you believe your being who you really are. try being yourself aorund other people. who cares if they arnt the "popular" clan. normally people who are popular dont stay popular for long, sorry to say. go see what else is out there...life isnt always revolving the popular people. on the contrary.
2007-01-23 11:16:56 · answer #1 · answered by Em 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you do not need to change yourself for anybody. if they dont like you for you forget them. they should want to hang out with you just because they enjoy your company . you are so young and you will meet so many different people as you get older. i know how you feel. when i was younger i went through a very similar thing. but that "popular crowd" i broke away from was the best thing that actually happened to me. i stopped being a follower and became a leader. i did my own thing and whoever wanted to come along could. friends need to there be there for eachother. and if your doing your part and they arent doing theres forget them. make new or even more friends. you dont have to be around the same crowd all the time. do your thang ;)
2007-01-15 16:46:15 · answer #2 · answered by ashley 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, you're fine with your original personality- never change yourself to earn friends. All you have to do is be nice, pleasant, and agreeable. People like personalities that are easy to be around. And you really don't want to come off clingy, it's hard to get friends when you seem desperate. A lot of people get sick of little puppies that follow them everywhere and try to talk to them every second of the day. Good luck :D
2007-01-15 16:38:27 · answer #3 · answered by pussycat4073 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do you live in memphis??? well anyways dont try to be everybody friend be yourself. and if people like u for you then they will be your friend if not dont worry bout it. i know how u feel only it wasnt a boy it was a family member and she turned on me.dont ever change yourself to make people like you. dont worry bout if people dont like you. cause if you keep worrying about people who dont like you and who like you you r not bein u. im in the 10th grade and i had to learn the hard way you cant please everybody and sometimes you have to forgive and move on.thats what im learning to do..... try not to think your to good for everyone else like about the comment you just made i know im not ugly.(no affence) i was cool or popular in middle school to and then i went to overton high and i was popular then i went to RHS and all hell broke out and i wasnt popular but i have learned i cant please everyone. try hangin out with people who r not. not saying nerds but people who seem nice,and i bet they will accept you for you
good luck
2007-01-15 17:24:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't change who are. If they don't like you for you. that's their loss. When you graduate, you won't even see these people again. (Unfortunately you may see some! lol!) Highschool is short period in your life (even though it doesn't seem like it at the time.) Remain true to who you are and don't change for anyone.
2007-01-15 16:41:49 · answer #5 · answered by luvmuzik 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't change yourself. if you change who you are they probably will think your a poser or something along those lines. just forget them and invite some of your "class" friends to hang out. sooner or later you'll meet someone.
2007-01-23 06:30:47 · answer #6 · answered by kk~jones 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont change urself for getting friends.. Friends are those who like you as you are.You have to just be casual and caring when yo are among your friends.Listen to what they say.
2007-01-15 16:41:50 · answer #7 · answered by ALMIGHTY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget them be yourself and if you think your spending to much time with them go do something by yourself or with other people
2007-01-23 09:34:00 · answer #8 · answered by cold skiing 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋