all his friends say hes really weird with girls and that he hooks up with them but hes like never had a gf and so i wanna get over this obsession i have since he dosent like me.
any tips?
2007-01-15 16:21:57 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hi!,
I think in my personal opinion you should just try diverting your mind in to something else, it can be anything like perusing ur hobbies, pushing yourself to your work or studies, or even getting a new person in your life.
Its not going to be easy, i know from experience but its possible, just remember always he is not worth having you, and he is def not worth your pain . Because while you are still thinking about him, he is having loads of fun thinking about the new hot girl in the corner.
Hope i didn't get too personal, sorry if i did.
2007-01-15 16:32:16 · answer #1 · answered by Kiran 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One thing that I recommend especially if you're a young person is to find something worth obsessing over. Perhaps there is a college you want to get into or a sport you've always wanted to try and become good at. Perhaps it's a musical talent you haven't been applying yourself in and really taking advantage of. You can use this as something that will motivate you to do something positive that will not only benefit yourself but will help you attract the right kind of quality guy. Pour your energy into a talent skill or strength and see how far you can go with it. Take a dream and chase after it instead of these guys - you'll become a much more positive person for it - and you won't have time to think about him!
2007-01-16 00:27:04 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probably he's never had a gf because he's so much of a s l u t that all the girls see it on the first date and never take it further. Your first clue on a guy is always why hasn't anyone else taken him? there's always a reason. after all, don't you know that the good ones are taken? And thats of the older generation. So far, of todays generation, I haven't seen any worth having in the first place.
2007-01-16 00:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
find something else to focus on. Even if you got together with him the reality is not as great as the dream. It would eventually fizzle.
2007-01-16 00:25:12 · answer #4 · answered by Dovahkiin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey just find another canidate to date or like once u find someone in interest u will forget bout him fast
2007-01-16 00:34:41 · answer #5 · answered by brnhaven1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Infatuation is a terrible feeling. Ask yourself some questions:
Do you like him because of his personality, he's cute, he's nice, etc....
There are so many people in this world, once you start to get to know others, keep yourself busy with your likes, you will be able to move on.
2007-01-16 00:26:00 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way to get over someone, is to get under someone else!
2007-01-16 00:26:01 · answer #7 · answered by DORY 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Bang the crap out of someone else!
2007-01-16 00:25:33 · answer #8 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find someone new!
2007-01-16 00:25:22 · answer #9 · answered by DICKTRACEY 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋