She broke up withme. We didn't speak for 2 months. Saw her recently and we hooked up and I haven't heard from her since. When she dumped me she said she wanted to still be friends. When I saw her the other night she said she missed me and all of that but I don't understand why why she is doing what she is doing, by hooking up with me and then not talking to me. What is she doing? What am I supposed to make of all of this? I would prefer a girls opinion but any advice would be helpful.
2007-01-15 15:28:21 · 9 answers · asked by Confused 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would venture a guess that she's got somebody else around and she's only doing this because she hasn't taken the time to figure out what she wants or "unbond" from you. In my opinion, the other guy keeps her company while you're not around and you're probably filling in for the other guy when he wasn't around. So, she plays games with your heart hoping to find an answer for herself. Don't make anything of it, some chicks are just crazy. I'd leave her alone and move forward with your life.
2007-01-15 15:34:24 · answer #1 · answered by That Guy! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've done this myself to guys in the past prior to being married. It's self confidence booster. She doesn't really want to be with you, but that fact that she doesn't want you and you're still willing to be with her gives her a boost. It's a head game....move on. She's wasting your time.
2007-01-15 15:41:06 · answer #2 · answered by Julie A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's using you. If she doesn't want to deal with you unless you two are "hooking up", then she's using you just to "hook up". Have some dignity and just stop falling for her tricks!
2007-01-15 15:32:05 · answer #3 · answered by Victoria Love-Williams 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give up on her! I think she is searching for something & can't locate it, but if you would love her unconditionally & be there for her, she will come back to you. She will see that you still care about her and she won't search no more, cause you never gave up on her.
2007-01-15 15:40:56 · answer #4 · answered by scolburn1961 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
be a man n forget about her...move on...dont let her know you will always be there like a loyal dog...please you givin us a bad rep...for real dude move on, or tell her to her her feelings straight then to call you...in the mean while...move on.
2007-01-15 15:34:45 · answer #5 · answered by Darksied 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
either she doesnt know what she wants . are you are just to easy for her to pick up and drop in an instant!
2007-01-15 15:32:39 · answer #6 · answered by sassy4you 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about her--love yourself
2007-01-15 15:32:23 · answer #7 · answered by heynow 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SHE'S PLAYING THE ''I CAN MAKE HIM DO ANYTHING I WANT'' GAME.
DON'T ENCOURAGE HER,
2007-01-15 15:31:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's confuzing you
*playing with your mind
2007-01-15 15:30:43 · answer #9 · answered by kiss the cook 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋