Family & Relationships - 15 January 2007

I have a bf named James n he's in jail n he also dropped out of school so now i want it to be over should i wait to dump him when he gets out of jail or do it the next time i talk to him?The thing is i don't want him to be feeling like he is alone n nobody cares about him n i do but can't have bad influences in my life right now so no stupid stuff please..

2007-01-15 15:25:25 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Being serious here - I am bi-curious and am very attracted to straight guys (just don't like the fems). How do I approach them? Flirt with them without getting killed!!? A bi friend of mine says he blows straight guys "all the time." I don't buy it. It can't be that easy. Any suggestions??

2007-01-15 15:25:02 · 6 answers · asked by Jason R 1 in Singles & Dating

he is 26 years old and i have noooo clue what to get him other than little inside joke gifts. I want to give him somthing from the heart but i dont know what.

2007-01-15 15:24:52 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i am an angry person, and i get picked on by some people just so they can see me get mad, like they get a thrill from it, i even had this guy plan out where he would poke my ribs until i started punching him, and his friend taped it on his cell phone! how do i let go of my rage? is there anyone who can help me who has attended anger management.

2007-01-15 15:24:11 · 12 answers · asked by bambi 1 in Singles & Dating

Your supposed to buy you wedding party gifts which I understand and don't see a problem with but all the books I have got recently say the bride and groom buy each other a gift also. Why? Isn't it already a beautiful gift in getting married and dedicating your lives to one another? We are paying for our own wedding and I don't see the purpose in spending money on it?

2007-01-15 15:23:59 · 16 answers · asked by Debbie S 3 in Weddings

I have "friends" who are ignoring what i say because they are mad at me, because they heard rumors that i DIDN'T say! WHAT SHOULD I DO?!!!

2007-01-15 15:23:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

So me and my good friend got into a fight, a misunderstanding. He said sorry and that he misses the friendship... so I said, ok lets be friends again. I havent heard from him since then... any ideas of whats up?

2007-01-15 15:23:32 · 2 answers · asked by Bo B 2 in Friends

well i like this guy in school because he is the whole package i like the way he looks and the way he thinks, when i see him in the hall way or corridors in school before i ignore him and act as if i dont see him, then lately ive shifted my views and just decided to smile at him and say hi whenever he says hi to me, but i dont let it get to the point where we can actually talk. we talked a lot before when we were still classmates,but i sort of lost the connection due to varying schedules
he texted me yesterday and asked me i i wanted to join him and his friends for a drink and then maybe we could have a dialogue, or a talk
is he just being friendly?or when do guys say that if they want to talk to you that you that you mean something more?

2007-01-15 15:22:53 · 19 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Singles & Dating

ok, so in my school there are 8 programs in which you can be in and I'm in (lets call it) HTY. HTY is pretty good, I like my teachers but I am too quiet around the people in my program, kinda seems like I can't socialize wit them or make them my friends. I tried talking to them and being nice and all dat, but they just don't seem to want to do the same. I've known the same people for a little less than a year. So I was thinking about changing to another program that looks better and seems like I can get along better and make more friends. Should I stay or should I go?

2007-01-15 15:22:10 · 4 answers · asked by monkey#1 2 in Friends

2007-01-15 15:20:51 · 24 answers · asked by broadwayaprilandtiffany 3 in Singles & Dating

Im 13 and im having sex already isnt that way to young? i wanted to wait till 18 but i met this guy and he said he loved me and all that stuff boys say to get in a girls pants.so we ended up having sex more than 10 times in the last month.

2007-01-15 15:20:43 · 39 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife has had an affair and she got pregnant. She had the child as if it were mine. 5 months later I became suspicious and did a paternal test, the baby was not mine. I also found out just before this that she was having an affair. Will I ever be able to forgive her for this?

2007-01-15 15:19:11 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I fell madly in love with a woman. We were together for three years then she left. I don't really know why. To me, if your love was real then it is absolute. It has been almost four years since she has gone and I love her as much now as then. I have done things for her behind the scenes to help her still and even risked my life once. She will never know any of this as she is now on the other side of the country. Will I have to be this way till death? Please, honest advice only.

2007-01-15 15:19:08 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

lets say if your 18 and u wana run away and move out. into like a single and u have 2 friends with u. is that possible? logically? and ur planning on finding a job. also you have about 1000 dollars saved with ur friends. I live in California. well. we pretty much want our families to not know where were going and were gonna move out of city. Yes its pretty much a life death situation. is it really possible? or am I gonna end up being homeless? im 16 now. and ive had 3 jobs so far. legal jobs. how do you do it?

2007-01-15 15:18:27 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, i'll try to make this short. my sister (20) has a 3 month old baby and is living with the baby and her bf at my mothers 2 bedroom apartment. my sis works 20 hr a week and her bf works about 15. they both recieve checks from govt. hers 450 and his 300 a month. my mom is living on ssi of 700 a month (about 150 after all bills are paid). they do not give her a penny to help out and she is struggling. her car is broke down and its 600 to fix. she's been without one for 2 weeks now. she needed some pop from the store thats not too far away and my sis made her give her 2 dollars to go there for her. next time my mom wanted something from the store my sis wouldnt go get it and my mom had to walk in the rain. on top of it my mom suffers from severe depression. now tonight my sis's baby is in the hospital and she needed me to go get her bf from work and take him home, wait for him to shower, and take him to hospital. i was so angry cause she wont barely do for others. my fiance is takin hi

2007-01-15 15:17:39 · 4 answers · asked by notsurehere 2 in Family

Curious minds want to know.

2007-01-15 15:17:25 · 21 answers · asked by scott in minnesota 3 in Marriage & Divorce

MY Boyfriend bought me an engagement ring, but 2 weeks prior said, i want revenge on you, & will not be satisf
ied until i get it. what does this mean than why would he ask 2 marry me?

he is a ex con. has hit me in the past. his mom slept with a knife under her pillow when he was living with her. his sister said, he is just like his estranged father whose mom left when my BF =was a baby when she was 8 months pregnant cuz he tried to kill her and the baby, so she fled across state lines. his father made his mom work 2 jobs, while he went to the bars and spent her check. can something like this be genetic? but he never met his dad.

2007-01-15 15:15:52 · 17 answers · asked by newport l 1 in Friends

I choose a guy over my best friend so now we dont talk at all

2007-01-15 15:15:51 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I really like him...a LOT! I can't seem to find anything to say to him without it sounding awkward. He doesn't go to my school, but I see him every Wednesday at Youth Group. I am really shy and have trouble talking to people...expecially him, meaning that I've never done it before. Please please please help...I really want to talk to him. Thanks for your help. :)

2007-01-15 15:15:35 · 7 answers · asked by em<3 6 in Singles & Dating

I have access to just about anything, but I am stoned and lazy. What would you eat? Or would you just say to hell with it and drink another shot of Jager?

2007-01-15 15:14:49 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My wife and I have been married for 30 years. She is a wonderful person. Very faithful and moral. When dating, she had admitted to having sex one time each with 2 other boy friends. She seems very loyal, in fact she has never given me a reason to be suspicious. She has told me that she has no desire to even look at other men. However, she refuses to talk about her old boyfriends. This seems odd. What could be a reason why this is a problem for her? Or am I making too big a deal of this. Thanks for your input.

2007-01-15 15:14:24 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-15 15:14:03 · 12 answers · asked by ♪ ♫ ☮ NYbron ☮ ♪ ♫ 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm planning to someone i met from myspace. We're both of the same age, having same interests and all that... He has his pictures up and so do I. We've been constantly IM each other for more than 4 mnths now and finally decided to meet. Well our conversation is always about the usual stuff we did, our days and all that..... we did ask some personal questions at times but everything seems fine like any other ordinary conversation friends would chat about. i see no harm, really.. but with all these bad experiences i've heard from others, i'm doing lots of thinking about it...Do u think I should meet him? If so, please give me some advice.



Thanks.

2007-01-15 15:14:00 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Okay ive read other peoples answers for similar questions and they all refer to giving blow jobs or getting extra down & dirty or kinky.. Im sure for those who wrote those answers actually did get some sort of OBJECT aswell as those things.. ideas?

2007-01-15 15:13:27 · 4 answers · asked by WomanSoHeartless 3 in Singles & Dating

My now boss started out as my equal and we formed a friendship but now that my old boss left she has been promoted and now wants to end the friendship. Am I missing somethin' here?

2007-01-15 15:13:09 · 34 answers · asked by sweetpea7s 1 in Friends

I mean really, what more can you ask in a women, espacially if you look like either of there husbands

2007-01-15 15:12:40 · 4 answers · asked by The Brown Bomber 2 in Singles & Dating

http://i55.photobucket.com/albums/g124/m...

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These are pictures of me, DON"T ASK HOW OLD I AM!
Am I decent looking? How should I get more guys to like me?

This is also part of my friend's bet, don't ask, long story.

Any suggestions? Thanks!

2007-01-15 15:12:36 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am kinda flat chested and this guy i know wants to hook up with me but i am scared that if he puts his hand up my shirt he might find out that i am flat...what should i do???

2007-01-15 15:12:05 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am getting married soon! Yeah! But my friends that are married say that once you tie the knot the sex dwindles......Does it? We have been together 10 1/2 yrs off and on and the sex has always been great! We are comfortable and open. Will our relationship change just because we say "I DO" ?

2007-01-15 15:11:36 · 29 answers · asked by Debbie S 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my husband has been having alot of dreams lately about having an affair on me and being with other woman and he is also having dreams about having other girls pregnant and he also dreams about being with one of his friends sisters

2007-01-15 15:11:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce