well i like this guy in school because he is the whole package i like the way he looks and the way he thinks, when i see him in the hall way or corridors in school before i ignore him and act as if i dont see him, then lately ive shifted my views and just decided to smile at him and say hi whenever he says hi to me, but i dont let it get to the point where we can actually talk. we talked a lot before when we were still classmates,but i sort of lost the connection due to varying schedules
he texted me yesterday and asked me i i wanted to join him and his friends for a drink and then maybe we could have a dialogue, or a talk
is he just being friendly?or when do guys say that if they want to talk to you that you that you mean something more?
2007-01-15 15:22:53 · 19 answers · asked by haringmarumo 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Means he wants to feel you out. He may like you or may just want to hit it. Right now, it's just a drink.....I'd join him. He may have cute friends too
2007-01-15 15:27:22 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is most likely that he has an interest in your personality and wants to get to know you. However, as you may know some GUYS are only out for some action, if you know him well enough you need not worry but if you are unsure about his character BEWARE. And when he says "a drink with a couple of friends" what does that mean? will it be you and him and some of his male friends or will it be a mix of both men and women. ALWAYS THINK CRITICALLY!!!!!
2007-01-15 23:30:39 · answer #2 · answered by Paul G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's interested in you. That's what u wanted, so why try to read too much into it at this point? Get with him and take it from there. It usually doesn't hurt to talk, & how else does anything ever start?Maybe you'll both be interested enough to text each other after that.
2007-01-15 23:34:58 · answer #3 · answered by nomutilation4me 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Who cares, go out for the drink. It may or may not end up in either a friendship, or more than that. What can you lose? nothing. But you will gain either a friendship, or a boyfriend.
2007-01-15 23:26:18 · answer #4 · answered by Donovan G 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it's just an " ice-breaker" and he just wants to talk and be around you. He is also most likely trying to see what kind of person you are and the type of personality. Good Luck.
2007-01-15 23:28:19 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't make any assumptions. I have asked females to join me for a drink when I didn't mean it to be a date or anything. But you never know, maybe he wants to get to know you more
2007-01-15 23:27:13 · answer #6 · answered by elcidiv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well it depends from person to person, as for me when i say i wanna talk , i just talk that's all, what i think is you should go and find out for yourself,then you will know something about boyz, just go, it appears that you like him so why this second thought, just go with the flow girl.
2007-01-15 23:37:12 · answer #7 · answered by hdil 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
FIRST OF ALL...WHY ARE WOMEN OUT THERE THINKIN TO MUCH THIS DAYS...?? hahaha jk...anyways stop thinkin you might have some fun wit this guy...the way you describe this guy it sounds like he only wants to talk and hang out, dont be to forward and everythin should be all right...have fun..
2007-01-15 23:30:44 · answer #8 · answered by Darksied 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if you havent really talked before, i'd say he wants to get to know you a bit better, and more than just friends
2007-01-15 23:26:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's texting you and wants to drink, he wants more. But be careful WHAT he wants may be ONLY sex.
2007-01-15 23:26:48 · answer #10 · answered by Jason R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋