my husband has been having alot of dreams lately about having an affair on me and being with other woman and he is also having dreams about having other girls pregnant and he also dreams about being with one of his friends sisters
2007-01-15 15:11:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, If he is telling you about these dreams I don't think you should be worried. Obviously, he loves you or else he wouldn't let you in on his nightly dreams. I'm not sure why he's having dreams like this but I'm sure you have nothing to worry about. If you like, tell him your feeling a bit insecure or maybe even jealous about those dreams of his. He'll most likely make you laugh or say something very loving to reassure you....communication is the key to all great relationships. Good luck!!
2007-01-15 16:17:26 · answer #1 · answered by blufiah_tam 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dreams are just dreams unless he acts them out. I am very happily engaged.. soon to be married.. and from time to time I have dreams involving other men from my boss at work to my guy's friends to the neighbor to ex's to strangers. He can not control what he dreams about so don't hold it against him. Some say dreams are the windows to the sub conscious mind and that dreams reflect what you truly want in life but many people dream of their deaths... does that mean they really want to die ? Just keep in mind he is with you, wakes up to you and comes home to you so why worry over a dream ?
2007-01-15 15:19:45 · answer #2 · answered by jenny 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think that if your husband is telling you about this to begin with he maybe having dreams but he's not seriously thinking of cheating ... at least not yet. If he has these encounters on his mind then i would think maybe he needs a little attention ... you know ... kick it up a notch !! It's so easy to get caught up in everyday life and forget the things that keep us connected.Those special intimacies and fun times we share with our spouse.If he was intending to cheat he would hide it from you and go on to look for an opportunity.If you don't get on board he might do just that.
2007-01-15 15:27:28 · answer #3 · answered by uncle louie 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would be very suspiscous of this. I don't believe he is having all these "dreams". What I do think is this is his way to gauge your reaction. A way to test you to see what you would potentially do. Or to hint that he is not satisfied in the marriage. The next time he tells you he is having another "dream" I would just ask him if there is anything you need to know, if he is happy and satisfied with your relationship.
This just doesn't sound right. It sounds more like a premonition. beware.
2007-01-15 15:23:47 · answer #4 · answered by gg55 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
daydreams?
must be daydreams, because i can not focus and control my dreams in such a way
last night i had a dream that i was dsetroying the world with a superarmy of clone soldiers armed with laser guns
the night before i was dreaming that i was at work working
the night before that i think i was in a field filled with flowers
and i do remember a few days ago i was rescuing a girl from a tall building, i remember i jumped out the window with her over my shoulder and then i went swimming
2007-01-15 15:45:53 · answer #5 · answered by zether 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wow...this is a hard one...and I know it's probaly hard for you to hear from him...only you can really know where he's comming from on this...Is he trying to tell you that he wants something new sexual wise...is there something missing...It's natural for men to dream of other women and crap but wanting to get other women pregnant...I would seek counseling before he starts cheating on you and really does get some other girl pregnant....
2007-01-15 15:24:06 · answer #6 · answered by getembigger_85027 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hunny make sure they are just dreams last guy that told me that was telling me that as a hint..
2007-01-15 15:19:48 · answer #7 · answered by taz and me 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Keep an eye on him. ask him: WHATS GOING ON? do you want that to happen so bad thats why you keep dreaming about it?
And tell him: TOO BAD THAT I HAVENT DREAM ABOUT SHAGGING ANOTHER MAN..MAYBE JUST NOT YET.
he is so not nice to keep telling you all of his bullsh*t dreams, you should tell him that!
x
2007-01-15 15:45:34 · answer #8 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
At least he's sharing.
And, since he's sharing...ask him what's going on in his life.
2007-01-15 15:54:42 · answer #9 · answered by limendoz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does not sound good..
maybe it is a warning of things to come.
2007-01-15 15:14:28 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋