Being serious here - I am bi-curious and am very attracted to straight guys (just don't like the fems). How do I approach them? Flirt with them without getting killed!!? A bi friend of mine says he blows straight guys "all the time." I don't buy it. It can't be that easy. Any suggestions??
2007-01-15 15:25:02 · 6 answers · asked by Jason R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
LOL, I bet there are plenty of these so-called hardcore straight right wingers who have plenty of fantasies along these lines!
Okay, here's where you're going wrong... you are having gay feelings towards part of the population who do not! There are plenty of bi/gay men who act straight (in appearance and personality)- you just have to look. Maybe sign up to some groups, meet some new people, go to some clubs.
If being straight is a pre-requisite for your attraction, then you're going to gather cobwebs around that mouth of yours! ;-)
2007-01-15 15:42:44 · answer #1 · answered by midsojo 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Many people mistake sexuality as being black and white. But the truth is, it’s better explained in levels. For example, we can say that 1 is extremely straight, and will refuse to even hug a guy, 5 being purely bisexual , while 10 is flamboyantly gay and is not afraid to walk in the streets wear skirts and makeup while holding hands with his boyfriend. Of course this maybe be different for guys and girls. Girls tend to not have a big problem with expressing their lesbian tendencies while guys are often more reserved because they are afraid of a reaction. If this guy initially said know, he may have been shy because he wasn’t sure if you where serious or not. But as you slowly let him gain that confidence, what made him first seem like a “level” 1 or 2, he actually may be somewhere toward 4, a 5 or even a 6. Society often pushes these middle levels back toward straight, but they can be coaxed out. My boyfriend claimed he was straight, I mean, I guess he was, he was dating me. However, there were occasions where he had awkwardly admitted that he had accidentally kissed his best friend in the lips while they were playing chicken and he got this tingly feeling. I told him to not worry, although he maybe be more or more toward a 3.5. He just laughed it off, but it’s completely possible! Me as a girl? I’d say I’m about a 3 myself. I still like guys much better, but kissing a girl won’t kill me. Anyway, my point is. This guy may sleep around with random girls because he likes it, but he also doesn’t mind guys. This old fashioned method of tagging people “Straight” or “Gay” doesn’t always work. Another reason why he may do this is because he was raised in a religious family and feels ashamed, so he sleeps around with random girls to “man up”. ANOTHER reason might be that he’s just experimenting. He’s figuring himself might, maybe he’s a 5 and he’s trying to figure out if he’s more of a 4 or a 6. OR he may be straight and just enjoys the feeling so much that he doesn’t really mind, because he is confident in his sexuality. You’d be surprised how many homophobes turn out to be a little gay. So yeah, that’s my verdict. Hope it helps. : )
2016-05-24 20:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No! And your friend can't tell a straight guy from a curved one.
2007-01-15 15:37:58 · answer #3 · answered by Darren 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask your friend to tell you how he does it. If he's telling the truth and he's SO successful, then you should be able to use his trick as well.
2007-01-15 15:30:08 · answer #4 · answered by Victoria Love-Williams 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ah no thats why were are straight not gay
2007-01-15 15:28:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if enough alcohol was involved, and if I wasn't married, then probably
2007-01-16 08:45:08 · answer #6 · answered by mike j 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋