i am kinda flat chested and this guy i know wants to hook up with me but i am scared that if he puts his hand up my shirt he might find out that i am flat...what should i do???
2007-01-15 15:12:05 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its okay dont be so self concious. if you like the guy alot let him learn to give you respect before you take it physically. if youre just wanting a 'good time' dont be shy, most the time if its a good time youre usually (or he is) pis$ drunk. If you just want to get to know him better, let him do it anyways and hope hes not a shallow guy. If he makes fun of u about being flat chested tell him his d!ck is small, it always wins =)
2007-01-15 15:17:02 · answer #1 · answered by WomanSoHeartless 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do you think he is that kind of guy to have a bad reaction? i.e. some jock who goes round staring at girl's chests and making sexist remarks about big boobs etc?
If so, keep away to start with. Listen to your instinct. Only a mature, nice guy should have access to your body.
You haven't mentioned how old you are. If you're in your teens, you'll be surprised by how many girls wear padded bras- and I mean, seriously padded. It's no big deal. Nipples are the biggest part of the fun, and having some flesh to grab is just extra. Rather than wearing some over-padded bra that may be embarrassing (now you see it, now you don't!), slip on something skimpy, like a lacey camisole, and wear a long necklace underneath it so that when he puts his hand up there, there is something hanging flat against your skin to give him wandering hand the illusion of more flesh. Also, try bringing one of your arms inwards slightly, to create more of a cleavage.
Wear a nice perfume, maybe some glitter powder. Make the best of yourself and you'll have him eating out the palm of your hand.
2007-01-15 15:20:55 · answer #2 · answered by midsojo 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
There are two parts to your 'question'...I'll answer them separately. Number One: Should you hook up with this (or any) guy? Depending on your (and his) age, this is an activity that is best left for a later date...let the relationship grow first, before you two do this level of explorations. Number Two: What should you do about letting others (men) know you're flat-chested? Unless you're heavily padding your bra or wearing VERY baggy clothes, it's doubtful that this guy hasn't figured out that you lack curves...however, FEELING this for himself is surely an activity left until after (as I said before) your relationship has developed beyond just getting to know each other. Slow down and chin up...be proud of who you are and you will find you attract the kind of guy who will treat you with the respect you deserve!
2007-01-15 15:22:20 · answer #3 · answered by Rev Debi Brady 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If you're that self-conscious about your body, you're not ready for "petting" -- let alone any of the more "advanced" sexual behaviors.
And don't fret over your boob size: if an honest and mature guy (a guy of good character) wants to hook up with you, it's YOU he's interested in. Sex is a bonus, and "small breasts" can be VERY sexy if the woman is "comfortable in her skin."
There's actually a lot of small-breasted women that do well in the porn industry ("Misty Mundae" comes to mind -- no pun intended). Whether big or medium or small breasts are desirable depends on what looks like it belongs there (i.e.: whether it is aesthetically pleasing).
2007-01-15 15:26:02 · answer #4 · answered by President George W Bush 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will never know until you try, amny guys have no problem with flat chested, as for me, its whats under the rib cage than on top,, but either way, Good Luck and I hope things go in your favor.
2007-01-15 15:15:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he breaks up with you because of your chest, then that relationship needed to be ended. He should like you based on who you are, not just the size of your chest. Find a gentleman.
2007-01-15 15:16:51 · answer #6 · answered by Stephanie L 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Unless you got sock under your shirt, he probably already knows. It's really not hard to tell. there is more to a woman than just her breast size. If he dont like you because the size of your breast, you don't need him. I'm sure, a lot of women with large breast don't want a man who only want her for her breast. Also, talk to another female like your mother see what they think, and if you are under eighteen I suggest you don't let and man or boy touch your breast. Your body is your temple, respect it and love it.
2007-01-15 15:31:21 · answer #7 · answered by VALENTINO 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he leaves you because your flat, then he never loved you. He only like you for your body. I'd say give him a chance. Maybe he isn't low like most guys
2007-01-15 15:15:38 · answer #8 · answered by Greg G 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
How about having some self-respect and not "hooking up" with some random guy?
Just how young are you, anyway?
2007-01-15 15:28:01 · answer #9 · answered by EQ 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
first of all you should be happy with who you are and not be impressed with all the hype of the world I am sure he knows you are not well endowed in your woman hood and if he is instrested with you hopefully he is for you and not your body just be carefull with your feelings some guys try to take advantage of ladies when they know they have a low self esteme of there apperence just to get a piece of tail so be in love with you before going to something elseand taking a chance
2007-01-15 15:22:50 · answer #10 · answered by freddy B 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋