I really like him...a LOT! I can't seem to find anything to say to him without it sounding awkward. He doesn't go to my school, but I see him every Wednesday at Youth Group. I am really shy and have trouble talking to people...expecially him, meaning that I've never done it before. Please please please help...I really want to talk to him. Thanks for your help. :)
2007-01-15 15:15:35 · 7 answers · asked by em<3 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i used to be way shy too, but you just need to know what you want and go for it. adoring him from afar isnt going to get you anywhere. catch him when he's alone and ask him "how are you?" not, "whats up" because the classic response to that is "not much", and then your convo dies. Talk to him about his interests, ask him about his school, sports he plays/watches, what he does in his free time, what he did over the weekend, etc. as long as one of you is talkative the convo should get going pretty well. dont be scared, youll be fine.
2007-01-15 15:25:24 · answer #1 · answered by idbangrobertplant 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm very shy and I know its hard to open up, send him a note or tell him when hes near u. U could say I really like u I'v been trying to get my feelings out to u for a long time.
2007-01-15 23:23:46 · answer #2 · answered by evil_Rinoa/kairi562002@yahoo.com 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to sound like a jerk but here's a novel idea....say this:
"Hey, I like you a lot and would like to spend more time with you...."
I don't know but if a girl told me that and I had any feelings for her at all, I would not be able to resist.
2007-01-15 23:22:49 · answer #3 · answered by jason a 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be yourself. i know it sounds corny, but if you arent then he will think you are a different kind of person then you wont really be right for eachother or happy together....talk about stuff you like to do and ask questions about him
2007-01-15 23:20:36 · answer #4 · answered by karla 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be super outgoing, hell love it. just walk up to him and say hey wuts up. thats a great convo. kick-starter.
2007-01-15 23:21:13 · answer #5 · answered by gwmice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
gain some confidence and talk to the guy, trust me u can do it!
2007-01-15 23:19:20 · answer #6 · answered by bandi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well what do you really like and what does he really like? you have some common ground so let it expand
2007-01-15 23:19:15 · answer #7 · answered by musicislife808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋