I have "friends" who are ignoring what i say because they are mad at me, because they heard rumors that i DIDN'T say! WHAT SHOULD I DO?!!!
2007-01-15 15:23:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Move on....who wants friends who would take someone elses word without hearing you out........
2007-01-15 15:29:44 · answer #1 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry to hear that.
Do you know the source of the rumors?
You might have a chance by confronting the person who started them (if you know for a fact who it was)
If not, you might want to tak to each of those friends individually (some of them might want to talk to you but are afraid of being ignored by the rest of the group too). Tell them that you did not say the things that you have been accused of and that you miss thier friendship...
and that if it were the other way around, that you would stand by them!
It might not work instantly but over time they might get the chance to think about it and come back around !
in the meantime, whatever you do, hold your head up.
This 'challenge' will only make you stronger and will help you the next time YOU hear an unfounded rumor!
GOOD LUCK
2007-01-15 15:32:15 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had the same thing happen to me similar, but the friend just knew I had called her mom and told her mom on her, but I would not do that to her. She just wanted to be mad at me for a little while longer, so she made it up & was trying to make me look bad to all her friends. I tried to tell her that I didn't call her mom & she didn't believe me. So. the best thing that I ever did was to give the whole situation to God & I left it there in His hands and guess what? He fixed it! She came to me & said she was wrong & didn't mean to say that. God always works things out when we can't do them ourselves.
2007-01-15 16:21:58 · answer #3 · answered by scolburn1961 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let them think they're right sopner or later they will realize that they shouldn't be mad at you for something stupin like rumors
2007-01-15 15:34:48 · answer #4 · answered by atlzprincess4lyfe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should have a talk with them. and tell them the truth. if they dont listen to you they are not good friends. cause a friend would hear you out.
2007-01-15 15:33:00 · answer #5 · answered by alma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you can do is tell them and it's up to them to believe you. just leave it alone if your friendship meant anything to her or you it will work it self out good luck
2007-01-15 15:30:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe they aren't really your friends...i the were maybe they would trust you, sit down and honestly tell them the truth....true friends will listen
2007-01-15 15:28:41 · answer #7 · answered by dukezone9 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋