I am getting married soon! Yeah! But my friends that are married say that once you tie the knot the sex dwindles......Does it? We have been together 10 1/2 yrs off and on and the sex has always been great! We are comfortable and open. Will our relationship change just because we say "I DO" ?
2007-01-15 15:11:36 · 29 answers · asked by Debbie S 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The kid thing doesn't apply to us (we already had 3) and then got fixed.
2007-01-15 16:12:13 · update #1
Being together that long and all is ok makes me think you will be ok. Yes roles change you become aman and wife not bf and g/f so maybe the chase is no longer reuqired. However married or not a relationship especially a long term one takes work. dont take him for granted and dont be taken for granted, work at your relationship every day and enjoy. If you get concerned re the sex then you initiate it, simple. Also communicate about your want including more/less sex etc and come to an agreement. Good luck
2007-01-15 15:18:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-05-24 20:10:12 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that it could change after you are married it depends on how you both handle it! Usually you show your best to each other while dating and after you are married things go a little down hill. But it is what the two of you make it! If you keep it interesting and keep it an open subject you should be fine on keeping the spark going. Over time some couples get bored with each other or take each other for granted in these cases you need to spark things up like go on a date again, or eat by candle light with romantic music, just what ever is needed to add the spark back into the relationship. I Wish You Both Only The Best! Congradulations!
2007-01-15 17:21:27 · answer #3 · answered by Ginny 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chances are that your sex life will stay about the same.
You've been togather almost 11 years and already married through common law anyway. Go ahead, make it official, and enjoy each other to the fullest extent of the law!! (LOL)
There is something 'finalizing' about promising to honor and keep someone in sickness and health til death do you part. Personally, I think it's the whole "til DEATH do you part' that does that.
My husband and I have been togather off and on for almost nine years, have two six year olds (yes, twins), and our sex life is just as great as it was before our 'i dos', so this sex-life-dwindling-after-marriage thing is a bit over rated if you ask me...
Congratulations! Best of luck!!
2007-01-15 15:20:09 · answer #4 · answered by Midnight Butterfly 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
That all depends on you and your bodies. A mans peek age is 17 and a womens is somewhere in her thirties. Sometimes the sex does dwindle for various reasons, and as you get older there might be medical reasons. If you keep a guided effort to keep it going though it could be a very good while before that happens.
2007-01-15 16:10:27 · answer #5 · answered by trhwsh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it won't. the only thing that can maybe change the relationship is when kids arrive! just give him the time he needs and everything will be ok. most parents think that kids should come first, when the truth is, that if you and your partner are happy they will be happy too. TRUST ME. I've been married for 14 years and have a 13 year old and a 10 year old. So there is no problem after saying " I DO" :)
2007-01-15 15:19:21 · answer #6 · answered by brenda_elena 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont beleive that crap.I was married for seven years and the sex was awsome.It was his little problem staying out of jail that broke us up but honestly there is never a more secure loving deep sex as married sex.Single people truly do miss out on it.I mean its a soulful sex a forever sex a well you get the point .Its a good sex .If they get bored thats because they started taking each other for granted.Sex after marraige for us was so much more fun and deep.
2007-01-15 15:24:51 · answer #7 · answered by butterflyspy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, my husband and I have been married for 8 years and we have 2 kids. We still have sex like we were horny teenagers. If you have been together that long and you are open with your partner than I don't see why it should change. Just because you friends sex lives have changed then they have the problem. Hope things stay the same and CONGRATULATIONS on you upcoming wedding!!
2007-01-15 15:19:08 · answer #8 · answered by newfiemomma 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You been to gather for 10 long years, And if it's great for this long, good for you both. And life will bring you so many things you even don't know. So why worry about far future? May be after saying "I DO" you guys will come closer then this. Every body and all relationship has their ups and downs. I think you guys can do it. Best of luck.
2007-01-15 16:14:18 · answer #9 · answered by butterfly 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In your case I doubt it. If things haven't changed in the amount of time tyou have been together I can't see why they would now. As a married woman of almost 31 yrs I can teel you for a fact that things only get better. Good luck.
2007-01-15 15:16:33 · answer #10 · answered by mother of Bridezilla 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋