MY Boyfriend bought me an engagement ring, but 2 weeks prior said, i want revenge on you, & will not be satisf
ied until i get it. what does this mean than why would he ask 2 marry me?
he is a ex con. has hit me in the past. his mom slept with a knife under her pillow when he was living with her. his sister said, he is just like his estranged father whose mom left when my BF =was a baby when she was 8 months pregnant cuz he tried to kill her and the baby, so she fled across state lines. his father made his mom work 2 jobs, while he went to the bars and spent her check. can something like this be genetic? but he never met his dad.
2007-01-15 15:15:52 · 17 answers · asked by newport l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You know he's psycho, still you're going to marry him? .....You're crazy!!!!!!
2007-01-15 15:19:35 · answer #1 · answered by Bibi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Listen I dont even think its a wise idea for you to stick around and find out... That doesnt sound good.. He can hurt you real bad or even kill you from what I am reading. When a man's mom doesnt even want him at the house or has to sleep with a knife that right there should be your eye opener.. If he said that I highly doubt he will go through with the marriage.. You must of done something that upset him and now he wants revenge.. That isnt a good thing sweetie. Be careful and keep your eyes open.. God Bless
2007-01-15 23:20:45 · answer #2 · answered by boricuba_ma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So did you say yes? I think that he will get revenge on you, you already know for a fact that he is willing to hit you. So his revenge could really be anything, he isn't afraid to physically abuse you so he will not think twice about emotionally abusing you either. It is never a good sign when someone says that they want revenge against you and won't be satisfied until they get it. Look deep before you leap. It's a lot harder to get out of a marriage then it is to get out of a relationship.
2007-01-15 23:28:01 · answer #3 · answered by nena b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you keep asking this question invarious forms . How many times do you need to hear from people dont marry the guy. Or do you like the drama as each time the story gets bigger and better. Invest in writing a novel it might be worth more to you
2007-01-15 23:47:42 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG! Are you serious?! Run away!! Run away!! Do not pass "GO". Do not collect $200. Just get out of this relationship. Any guy who hits you, threatens you, and then asks you to marry him has serious, serious issues, and you do NOT want to get in the middle of them.
2007-01-15 23:21:20 · answer #5 · answered by jeffs_wife_ali _&_adams_mom 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Forget about the family history. Your so-called boyfriend has threatened you, he has been physically violent before, what more do you need to know? Get that restraining order already!
2007-01-15 23:19:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why the hell does it matter "what way" this guy is going to hurt you. Did you read what you wrote. This guy is stone cold loser! This guy sounds like a psychopath and you must be none too bright to stay with him. RUN!
2007-01-15 23:21:29 · answer #7 · answered by morahastits 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I told you. He will marry you. Then he owns you. he can then do whatever he pleases with you and to you and when you finally have enough and call the police they will take his side because they are men. Then you have to have lawyers, guns and money. You are stuck until DEATH do you part.
2007-01-15 23:19:24 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are even CONSIDERING marrying this loser? What is wrong with you? I hope you don't vote, because the rest of us don't need to be affected by your bad choices. Good luck!!
2007-01-15 23:21:52 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've pretty much answered your own question. This guy is unstable and dangerous. Get away now and never look back.
2007-01-15 23:19:26 · answer #10 · answered by suzanne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look if you're really in love with this guy you should do what you think is right but just know that you might be going into something dangerous
2007-01-15 23:24:21 · answer #11 · answered by alma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋