ok so here's the deal.. i'm 16. he's 19. we liked eachother and all that and so one day we were hanging out and he kissed me. then a little later i found out about his girlfriend from one of his co-workers. so i went and talked to him about it and he told me that she was cheating on him so that's why he kissed me.. so my question is this... what do i do now. i still feel really bad that he cheated on her with me.. does the fact that she cheated on him make it ok for him to cheat on her?? and this has happened to me before. do i forgive him or call it quits. i'm so confused. ayudame, por favor.
2007-01-15 14:24:16 · 16 answers · asked by got2volley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she is cheating on him and he feels the need to see other people the right thing to do is for him to stop dating her ..
As for you , you had no clue it was not anything you did .
Get over it and move on!
2007-01-15 14:30:59 · answer #1 · answered by Mark B 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There are better guys out there you need to call it quit. He used you just like the other guy, you are y young these types of things should make you stronger and more mature as you getting older. It is not OK to cheat on someone for any reason no matter what if a person cheats on you shows no respect for nobody. Yes you can forgive him but it does not mean that it is OK to date him. After that he probably won't ever take you serious.The kiss was nothing to him but probably mean something to u just forget it. All you got to do is forgive him and move on because you can do way better than that! Take care
2007-01-15 22:37:15 · answer #2 · answered by laurechery 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call it quits and dont do anything with him unless he ends it with her, if he dont end it he was jus using u to hurt her. also if he does dump her and says he wants u, be careful cause he could well cheat on u too and may have been lying bout her cheating first...
2007-01-15 22:29:31 · answer #3 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You guys are young....so I would chalk it up to him being angry with his girlfriend and wanted to get back at her for hurting him.
If you want to still be his friend it would be fine....but I would make sure there's no more kissing unless or until he's really single.
Give him a break on this one...he just made a mistake.
2007-01-15 22:31:14 · answer #4 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was u i would nottake it any further because it seems to me that the only reason why he kissed u was because his g/f cheated on him, if it ws more he would have told u about his g/f and the situation he was in with her, then it would have been on u to kiss him or not. but if u think u can handle this then y not start some thing with him. if he truly likes u.
2007-01-15 22:31:11 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
okay... so here's the answer.... he is using you. Think about it.... if he's so quick to cheat on HIS girlfriend 'cuz she has pissed him off..... what do you think will happen if he hooks up with you and then you have a fight? Hmmmm? Once a cheater, always a cheater. Good luck, Hun!
2007-01-15 22:32:10 · answer #6 · answered by quickgirl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call it quits. You dont want to be the other girl, or have a relationship based upon a lie.
2007-01-15 22:28:32 · answer #7 · answered by ImAGoodGirl0605 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Turn him in for having relations with an underage girl. That will teach that cheater!
2007-01-15 22:29:28 · answer #8 · answered by tko43078 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you only kissed you did not do anything wrong. Just leave him alone, and find someone your own age.
2007-01-15 22:35:28 · answer #9 · answered by Road 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it's never ok..it's so immature of him..he just trying to get back at her by kissing you..so he's using you..would u let him do that to you? call it quits
2007-01-15 22:29:21 · answer #10 · answered by me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋