What was the meanest most rotten thing your mother inlaw ever said or did to you?

Question

Also, what was the kindest most generous thing she ever did or said to you?

Answer 1

Technically,she wasn't my mother-in-law, but .... her son and I had split up before I found out I was pregnant and it was on again/off again until we permanently split. She and I had always been close and remained that way after the split. With that said, she called me several times and I wasn't home so she left messages on my machine. After the fourth one, she called and said that if it were her son calling, I'd jump at the phone for a chance to f*** him. I was extremely hurt. She didn't remember doing it (she had been drinking) and I never mentioned it to her (to her husband, yes and he explained). It took a while for me to get over that.

The nicest? Her son used to bring different girls home to meet her. She got really upset with him about it and told him she wouldn't allow any more girls in her home. As far as she was concerned I was the only daughter-in-law she would ever recognize by him. It really showed me how much she loved me. Unfortunately, they had a big blow out about it and he said he wouldn't speak to her again. She died not long after that and they had never talked. I felt really bad about that, but he shouldn't have been such an @ss.

Answer 2

The meanest thing my mother-in-law ever did to me was to help her daughter have 3 affairs on me. she would "volenteer" to take the kids for a weekend while i was away at work. Then she would hire a sitter and meet my wife with her lover to go out some place. The mother in law knew the whole time what was going on. And yet, she would come to my home and be all nice to me and eat at my table like nothing was happening. should i mention that i am a contractor and all the work i did on her home at no charge? not even for materials. I was used hard by both mother and daughter. I took her daughters child as my own and supported them for 9 years (my wife never worked)

The nicest thing she ever did was help her daughter move out.......good bye and good luck to both!

Answer 3

The rudest thing she ever did? When my husband and I first got engaged I thought I was pregnant. We didn't know for sure if the baby was his, since we have always had a very open relationship and when we got into a fight and considered spliting up she called me a no good whore who used her son to get what I wanted.

After we worked things out it was akward, but she and I are good friends now, we tell each other everything! The best thing she ever did for me was come to my house and take care of me when I fell ill and my husband was away.

Answer 4

She threw a fit while I was in the hospital because I didn't want her to gossip to her co-workers that we just lost a baby. (No one even knew we were pregnant yet.) She did not offer any comforting words throughout the situation and then complained about me because I didn't want to go to a bingo just weeks after our loss.

The best thing she has ever done for me is give birth to her son. Of course, she had no idea that I would end up with him so I guess that wasn't really for me. LOL!

Answer 5

Meanest, threw a hairbrush at me when I was late for work and rushing to get ready.
Nicest, held my hand during the entire 34 hours of labor with my son. Then she brought me an entire strawberry pie!

Answer 6

that's a solid concern we did no longer talk an identical language or one individuals might in all risk be in penal complex. I lived with my 80 plus year previous mom -in-regulation on and rancid a pair of situations at 6 month long stretches. sort of like going to penal complex. She incredibly did care approximately us yet she became raised and lived in jap Europe and became super low-fee. one concern she asked my husband some situations which i found out lots later became, Why did no longer you marry a Hungarian women. stupid concern to assert in case you think approximately he escaped Hungary and moved to the U. S.. Why would not your spouse talk Hungarian? perhaps simply by fact much less then 10 million human beings talk it and interior the U. S. you hardly if ever use it or pay attention it spoken. Why does your spouse wash her hair accepted and take a tub. i'm no longer even going to answer that one! My mom-in-regulation used to cover the suits so i could no longer turn on the nice and comfortable water because she theory it became a waste even however we paid diverse the fees as quickly as we stayed together with her. She's handed on now, sort of omit her yet in no way omit staying together with her. I do provide this however, she saved very almost each penny we ever sent her and left it for us while she handed on. She extensively utilized to purchase me very costly presents on particular events and understanding how low-fee she became it became sort of an honor that she ever theory that lots of me consdering i became in simple terms an "American."

Answer 7

Meanest... Stole $400 out of my ex husbands wallet one night when she was over for dinner then told the entire family that I took it and used it on drugs.. for a long time the family treated me as an outcast.
Nicest.... She helped me convince her son to grant me my divorce !!

Answer 8

I have a great mother in law and i think of her like my second mom... The kindest things she does for me are make me special ornaments for my tree and I love them!!!! She also remembers my birthdays. I love my mother in law and would not trade her for anyone!

Answer 9

her son and i needed another (2nd) child, like we both needed a hole in our heads.while she lived with us for 2 years and we paid her way 100% on everything.her bills were about 550 a month.
never said anything nice,oh except i am like 1 of her daughters,,,,,,,after her son and i divorced 6 years later.

Answer 10

Meanest: Say we weren't ready to have kids (not true)
Nicest: Give us a couch & loveseat