Ok well i went out with a girl for seven months. We had a nasty break up, and i hate her but i dont want her to have somebody and i cant get over the fact that shes out partying and i dont have anybody. So my point: is it bad to have a rebound girlfriend?
2007-01-15 14:28:51 · 27 answers · asked by Tommy T 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
by the way me and this girl arent getting back together and i hate her!
2007-01-15 14:34:22 · update #1
How will you get over your rebound if you don't have a rebound girlfriend? I don't see what the big deal is. It's OK to have any girlfriend for any reason.
2007-01-15 14:40:05 · answer #1 · answered by Sax M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why even think about the ex and what she's doing. Obviously you say it's over between the two of you so why worry about how much fun she might be having and go out and have fun yourself. I dont recommend that you find a girlfriend to occupy your time so that you won't feel that you are the only guy out there who doesn't have anyone. Would you want to be a rebound boyfriend for a girl who needs to forget about an ex she might be trying to put behind her? Don't use someone to fill a void that you have. Just get out and try to enjoy yourself. You don't have to have a companion to feel complete. And how do you know your ex is out having the time of her life? Ignore her and move on. There are plenty of girls out there and when you least expect it you might just find someone that you really want to spend time with, and not just someone to have around cause you feel alone.
2007-01-15 14:42:29 · answer #2 · answered by alymarie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok. first of all how old are u cuz only little kids do that. second of all that is the worst possible thing u could ever do in a relationship or even to a girl, any girl. u have to get over te fact that u broke up. and obviously u still like her if u get jealous from the fact that she is with another guy. i cant believe pl ask those questions. im sry im being bitchy but i seriously think that is so horrible to do to a girl.
2007-01-15 14:37:02 · answer #3 · answered by Agu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you hate the other girl, than the new chick isnt really a rebound. She would just be the new girl in town. Good luck and be safe. And dont worry about the old one! You've got your whole life to live.
2007-01-15 14:33:58 · answer #4 · answered by poemonkey1980 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you give yourself a chance with this girl? Like you said before you can't stop thinking about what happened. First a kiss now sex! Sometimes best friends make the best partners in life, especially since you already know each others likes and dislikes. If you totally feel that you don't want anything with her then you should tell her. Don't brush her off or ignore her. Tell her you true feelings for her and do it soon before you loose your best friend too!!!
2016-05-24 19:45:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i don't like to label behavior as "bad" or "good" i don't think anything is that black or white, or that binary. however i think it does make sense to be by yourself for a while, to sort out your own feelings, especially if you are looking to get into another serious long term relationship because it sounds like you need some time to heal yourself. i usually think of rebounders as quick flings. if you are very insistent on getting into a new relationship before you are over your ex-girlfriend, i think it is only fair to tell the new girl you are dating exactly how you are feeling, and the fact that you are still hurt/angry etc.
2007-01-15 14:37:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If a rebound relationship is definately what you're looking for, it's totally fine AS LONG as the girl knows she's in a rebound relationship. You have to be honest about it.
2007-01-15 14:34:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes n ur case this is bad, u say that u hate her which I don't believe becuz u say u don't want her to have somebody. Either u still have feelings 4 her or u r just a petty guy. If u broke up move on let her have her life n u have urs or can't u get somebody else?
2007-01-15 14:32:59 · answer #8 · answered by 2good4hem 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is, because your feeling for this chick will not be real, and how do you think that would make her feel when she found out? plus if she is a rebound chick then you are obviously not over you ex and you need to settle all the ties with her before even thinking about starting another relationship!
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2007-01-15 14:34:42 · answer #9 · answered by * <3 Summer <3* 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
as long as your rebound understands that she is, in fact, a rebound.
i've played the rebound a couple of times. sometimes i like the faux-stability in small doses, without any serious committment. of course, if your rebound isn't getting any sex from you... i think that's just wrong.
2007-01-15 14:35:08 · answer #10 · answered by John C 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋