A girl friend of mine had been dating a guy for about 1 month. They had never been intimate other than kissing. He seemed to be really into her and she was liking him. One day last week, he spent the night but she says they didn't touch or have sex at all. She told me she was just going to take things slow and they just talked and she went to sleep in his arms. She said they woke up the next day and he acted normal but he never called her again. Today, she called me crying because she hadn't heard from him in over a week and he is not returning her calls. I've never had this happen to me and I'm not sure why he is doing this to her because he seemed like a decent guy, he is in his mid 30's so he doesn't seem like he was into games and he seemed like would appreciate a respectful woman but just from how he is treating her, maybe I'm wrong. What do you think?
2007-01-15 14:25:16 · 10 answers · asked by chocolatebabycakes 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Just assume that something came up and give him the benefit of the doubt.
Or if they didn't effectively communicate the depth of the relationship he may have been insulted that the prime opportunity didn't lead to a more desireable result.
2007-01-15 14:29:48 · answer #1 · answered by alwaysmoose 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You never know* Ya he may be mid 30's but he could have been looking for a hop in the sack..but figured out she didn't want to , so felt wrong to get up and leave....so he did the gentleman thing and held her for the night then left the next day....Maybe it's not what he was looking for*
If i were her, I'd call him* and ask what's up?? Why she hadn't heard from him for a week now was it something she said or didn't do*
Now a days you don't have to WAIT for a guy to call , you can call the guy* Nothing to lose* Just find out whats up with him and why he left and hasnt been heard from since*
She should ask straight up was it cuz they didn't "sleep" together*
GOODLUCK
2007-01-15 14:31:22 · answer #2 · answered by friskymisty01 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you ought to in no way call him gay the coach he's not gay is that wat you ever you enthusiasts did in his mattress you ought to bypass to his place and positioned across flowers an da bottle of shampane and a few choclets and initiate with asserting sorry to him approximately his dad once you will see that he's placing out to forgive you show be apologetic approximately on the subject of the guy element and if he say specific iknow this might sound slightly despret provide him a kiss and if any element have been given heetted you do not say no considering which you nonetheless like him
2016-10-31 05:34:35 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you are wrong. This guy just want sex.if he really into ur frinds, he wouldnt do that.
Tell ur gf, be grateful that she finds out sooner. He might leave as well w/o any news once he shag her. He is a bloody sore loser. Dont cry for him cos he doenst worth it at all & move on
2007-01-15 14:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by AlisonJonshon 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well she should find somebody that loves her for her and not be just all about sex... like wow he sounds like such a pineapple... (putting it nicely) so yea just be a good friend right now, ya know ice cream, movies, all that junk... and yea she can do so much better, mhm mhm...
2007-01-15 14:32:24 · answer #5 · answered by Whitney 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he is busy on something.
But if she didn't saw him again, maybe something happened to him. Did he went missing?
2007-01-15 15:12:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like he has some other issues that she is not aware of.. I think there is more to this one.
2007-01-15 14:29:07 · answer #7 · answered by Ang H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Never been in that situation. Couldn't say.
2007-01-15 14:28:57 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats realy funny
2007-01-15 14:28:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what a jerk,if i were your friend id forget about him
2007-01-15 14:31:42 · answer #10 · answered by laura m 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋