Family & Relationships - 14 January 2007

I have a sister named Ash who is 4 years older than me. There's a problem. I am in love with Ashley's best friend Tom. My sis and Tom have been friends since highschool and that is also where I met him because we were all in the same school. As the years have gone by, I became a closer friend to Tom because Ashely let us all hang out and we became friends. I started to have a crush on him and after a few years it turned into love. I have never told him but he's in college now and is 'seeing a girl'. I have to stop him because I love him! I just know this is real love because I have never felt this way with anyone. I love him and he has no idea. I dream about him and I try so hard to stop myself but hes just a wonderful person & I cant. I have thought of every reason why me and him would never work and it has convinced me but I just can't stop myself from loving him! I mean it's been years! It's so hard to deal with it everyday. Do I tell him? Or do I go on secretly loving this man?

2007-01-14 18:10:33 · 16 answers · asked by brit 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 18:10:19 · 2 answers · asked by amyhamad 1 in Singles & Dating

It seems to me that every single woman that I ever want to date and maybe have a relationship with is already taken by some other bastard. I know its a little cynical but still, it seems impossible to find a girl that I like, cause they all have the qualities that other men want and I'm **** outta luck. And those that are still single are single for a reason. Any advice, I'm really messed up here.

2007-01-14 18:09:29 · 23 answers · asked by Michael M 3 in Singles & Dating

I have seen my frinds and my own brother transform before my veey eyes over the past three years. I on the other hand am different than the majority. I did take up things such as listening to death metal or any kind of metal for that matter, I did not want to get any part of my body pierced or get any tattoos, I never started wearing black cloths all the time and start to paint my finger nails black either, I never want to smoke weed or drink beer, I never joined any activities at my high school, I never started hanging out with people who aren't really my friends, I never talked about someone behind their back about their apperance, I never stole from my family to buy drugs. So basically having said that to sum that all up I never jumped on the band wagon like everyone else that I know. I refused to change my attitudes about people and things such as movies and going out to parties. Why can't the kids of today be more mild mannered and respectful to people? Give me your input on this

2007-01-14 18:09:26 · 16 answers · asked by Brodie Bruce 5 in Friends

i am a girl and im in high school and i've never had a bf. i'm overweight..and i get mixed messages on if i am pretty. usually when i look in the mirror..i see someone kind of pretty. i have big boobs but like..im a little embaressed becuase im not sure if the guys like that..or they dont becuase they figure its cause im overweight. people always say its your personality that counts..but we all know thats not true. i think i have a great personality..so y dont i have a bf? i can make people laugh and i'm also really nice. i'm just looking for some advice...thanks.

2007-01-14 18:07:56 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im not askin this cus im a nerd or i cant get girls its just intresting

2007-01-14 18:07:50 · 3 answers · asked by Armen 3 in Singles & Dating

He's a nice guy and he is my longest relationship. I just dont want our relationship to crumble like all my others did.

2007-01-14 18:07:41 · 8 answers · asked by deyaunna 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm just wondering cause I don't have any perspective.

2007-01-14 18:07:40 · 9 answers · asked by dark jedi 1 in Singles & Dating

I've heard about lawyers that find wives of wealthy men and encourage them to divorce. This is so the wife can have *more* money around retirement time. i.e. 1/2 pension and 1/2 belongings and, the kicker, spousal support. This is obviously more than she would have if she had to *share* the money. The lawyers benefit with the proceedings. I have heard of one case of lawyers doing this practice, has anyone else?

2007-01-14 18:07:35 · 8 answers · asked by proofofignorance 3 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-14 18:06:58 · 11 answers · asked by samanny 5 in Singles & Dating

Except with a "B"?

As soon as things get rough, they abandon you, no matter how serious the relationship is. Girls say guys are pigs, yet the first guy who comes and says they have a crush on a girl, she gets so flattered and curious she dumps you to try things with the other guy and isn't even honest about it. Instead just says oh lets take a break. They meet guys online, the guy tells the boyfriend to back off or he'll ******* kill you, the online guy becomes obsessed with the girl, she finally cuts him out of her life and then adds him on myspace again telling him he knows he missed her. EVen after telling her boyfriend she feels like a fool for trusting the online guy. Then adds him on myspace a few week after breaks up with b/f? Moves in with a guy a few weeks after her breakup?

Why are girls such hurtful scumbags?

2007-01-14 18:06:56 · 21 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my two friends lisa & mark are 15. mark lisa & i have been friends for awhile & the three of us are really close. since october, mark & lisa have started to 'like-like' each other. i have absolutely no problem with that, since i was playing cupid between them when they were both too shy to talk to one another. we are all mutual friends & their attitudes and friendship towards me have not changed. the only problem is that lisas parents wont let her have an official boyfriend. (marks are fine with it) they really want to go out places by themselves, but lisa doesnt want to upset her parents. instead, the three of us have been going to movies, while i sit alone & let them cuddle together in different seats. i just got back from a movie night with them at marks house & we were all on a couch, with lisa & mark snuggling next to me. before i have been ok with this, but someone pointed out that i was getting jipped. what do you think? i dont want to mess up a friendship with them.

2007-01-14 18:06:51 · 5 answers · asked by sarasugar 3 in Singles & Dating

I loved a girl in some 14 years before actually it is happening she is also showing a lot of love to me finally she is married somebody and she did not replied until now and not available. I feel until i am suffering from this i did not getting any answers from her. Now what can i do in my life several time i feel to suicide for myself without her this life is become bored how can i rectify. One thin is happened after seven years she send somebody to see me how i am and thereafter i dont know any thing

2007-01-14 18:05:26 · 3 answers · asked by MANJUNATH S 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a girl i dateing. she says she loves me. i'm afraid that if i tell her how i really feel i will break her heart and i can't do that she is my best friend. i recently discovered the fact that i like guys and i don't want to be with her like that anymore. i just don't know how to tell her.she keeps push the whole sex thing and all it is doing is pulling us apart. normaly i wouldn't do this whole post message thing but after 9 months in a relationship and going on three months of trying to find a way to tell her i had to try something new. i've done everything but come out and say it. she is the most kind hearted person i know and i don't have the heart to say it. i have basicly been sacrificing my myself to keep her happy. my sister once said you know your in love when all you want to do is give that person everything. i don't feel that way. please if you have advise please give it.

2007-01-14 18:05:06 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Heres the thing, I'm in cali and ive been friends with a guy whos in Texas for a over a yr. We always keep in touch either via text or talk on the phone. We've always been ..friends on the surface u know...ive always thought of him as a friend..and nothing more. I didnt want to get into him cuz of the long distance relationship and cuz I know he doesnt want to commit. But now...ive discovered I have feelings for him. I'm really attracted to him. The truth is i dont wanna like anybody right now, so i dont know if i should keep talkin to him...or should i distance myself. WHAT SHOULD I DO?????

2007-01-14 18:04:03 · 12 answers · asked by *Cali Sweetie* 3 in Singles & Dating

Ok I really like this girl, But I am to shy to ask her out. I am afraid that she will say no and tell everyone that I asked her out. And that I will be made fun of. Any suggestions? Please

2007-01-14 18:03:16 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

hey, i'm 19 and i'm having an issue with my boy. its not huge, and i haven't brought it up to him yet. he's 20...is this normal?

it seems like he's a little more interested in spending time with the guys than he is with spending time with me. i know he loves me, but it just seems like if he were given the choice, he'd rather be drinking with the guys than spending some cutesy time with me. makes me sad! but i think its normal....

any words of advice? anything i could do..besides get naked for him?

2007-01-14 18:03:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have not had any interest in sex since being pregnant .. and now that my son is 4 1/2 months old..i still dont want it..dont miss it .. nothing!! im not sure if this is caused by the hormones in my pregnancy or due to mistrust with my partner. What can i do to restore the sex life.. he wants it all the time .. but always wants oral (which i dont want to do at this time) and when he has sex..its "are you ready" or "i have something for you" got its such a turn off.. i dont get anything out of it. HELP ME... its killing our relationship...although i try to explain to him i have no sex drive

2007-01-14 18:02:24 · 9 answers · asked by sylonthego 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i think i look plenty old

2007-01-14 17:59:50 · 18 answers · asked by SUPERMAN 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 17:59:24 · 22 answers · asked by D.... 4 in Singles & Dating

Does anyone feel like thier parents love thier brother or sister more than them. Do your parents compliment your sibling more, do they buy them more gifts, & do they always compare you to them - hinting that you should be more like your sibling.

2007-01-14 17:58:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

A girl i have been talking to asked if i wanted to go bowling with her friend and her, she said for me to bring a friend, but i couldn't get a hold of any. I called back and said i couldn't find anyone, and i didn't want to make her friend the third wheel, so they could go and i could go another time, would that upset you girls or was that cool.

2007-01-14 17:58:04 · 4 answers · asked by Baba Ganoush 2 in Singles & Dating

Recently, I feel that my friends are not close to me not like before. Is it because of my attitude? or because of my looks? I really don't know why? I need some advices how can communicate/hang out with them. Everyday, after i come home from school, i always wonder why? why they are cold to me. please help me!!

2007-01-14 17:58:00 · 2 answers · asked by Jerry 1 in Friends

IF I BRING UP THE SUBJECT SHE TELLS ME TO GET OVER IT. THEN I GET YELLED AT. SHE WONT ADMIT SHE DID WRONG, PLEASE HELP?

2007-01-14 17:56:45 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

BUT says a certain female celebrity is the sexiest woman alive? i just dont understand becuz he says he has no sexual feelings for anyone at all, but then says that? fgfdgfdhfdhtdhgfj

2007-01-14 17:56:30 · 23 answers · asked by roni64_roni64 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 17:56:18 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I used 2 live in Foest Grove but now I live an hour away!!! I miss my 2 best friends!!! I never see them!!!! I only see them like 2 times a year..... :( .... the schools r bad there... should I tell my mom we should move there or stay and be sad???? what 2 do!?!?!?!?

2007-01-14 17:55:45 · 5 answers · asked by liveurlife411 1 in Friends

I am with a man who hasn't been with anyone for about 6yrs. I am very sex crazed and need to be satified but he can't do this. I know his brother is interested in me and knows how to satisfy women. What should I do?

2007-01-14 17:55:31 · 3 answers · asked by golden tigress 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it ok to fall in love with someone online? I met Hannah on myspace and have been talking for a long time. We both love each other. Is that ok. I mean she lives in KY, and i live in LA. We have been talking about meeting this summer. Her mother has found out and thinks that its ok. But her father is over protective. I realy love her but, i'm worried that things might not work out. What should i do? Anyone.

2007-01-14 17:54:41 · 8 answers · asked by hitman53jb 2 in Family

Me my friend and the guy I like went to the moves. we were in the purrsuit of happyness and he started CRYING!! you would think he was a tough guy. why did he cry?

2007-01-14 17:53:32 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating