It seems to me that every single woman that I ever want to date and maybe have a relationship with is already taken by some other bastard. I know its a little cynical but still, it seems impossible to find a girl that I like, cause they all have the qualities that other men want and I'm **** outta luck. And those that are still single are single for a reason. Any advice, I'm really messed up here.
2007-01-14 18:09:29 · 23 answers · asked by Michael M 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, you're just looking in the wrong places. Find girls through your work or friends or activities that you like to do.
2007-01-14 18:14:10 · answer #1 · answered by Larry H 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, not all the good ones are taken. I know what you mean, when I was single I used to think the same way about men. The trick is to not "look" but just continue with your life and keep discovering yourself by trying new things and going to new places. The girl will walk into your life when you least expect it. It's hard, but worth the wait.
2007-01-15 02:14:35 · answer #2 · answered by california girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe you are single for a reason too??? I wonder the same thing, but there comes a point where you have to do a bit of self-assessment. It's frustrating, but it is hard finding the right person, and then staying with them. You can message me if you like.
2007-01-15 02:16:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awww, don't get discouraged. You'll find someone and who knows, if you stick it out and keep in touch with some of these girls if their current relationship tanks they might turn to you and you can play that hand up. Being SOL sucks but just gotta stay strong and keep looking. Interest strikes at the oddest times, who knows, you might run into the girl you are meant to marry in the street tomorrow. Don't put too much pressure on it just yet, you still have time. :)
2007-01-15 02:16:01 · answer #4 · answered by ~Les~ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they don't have a ring then it's all fair game to me. Although most of the time I do respect that they're in a relationship, unless she is just too tempting to back off.
Anyways, yeah a lot of girls are taken but there are many more women than men so there are plenty of good girls that aren't taken.
Never heard of Myspace? plenty of hot single women on there
2007-01-15 02:14:43 · answer #5 · answered by Rob 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
There are alot of really wonderful women out there wondering the same thing about men. usually the good ones are married or gay!
It may seem this way but one day a woman will sweep into your life when you least expect it, carry your heart away and love you forever.
2007-01-15 02:13:50 · answer #6 · answered by surfer_grl_ca 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I'm decent, I'm good but with my luck you're too young, too far away, or not decent. See how it works honey?
sigh*
We're in the same boat. Keep the faith. You'll find her. All I can do is try to encourage you. I've buried a husband and been dumped by a bf and I feel just like you do. Hang in there kid.
2007-01-15 02:19:12 · answer #7 · answered by Ande 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Happy hunting! It is hard being single out there, I know, but love will find you, just have faith. I met my boyfriend the day after my mom's funeral last year and we are still going strong. Life works in mysterious ways, don't look so hard, you will find her.
2007-01-15 02:14:31 · answer #8 · answered by Rhode Island Red 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's not as bad as you think. Just your luck is!
Eventually, you'll meet the right person that wasn't respected the way she deserved in a previous relationship. And there you'll be waiting to sweep her off her feet!
2007-01-15 02:12:31 · answer #9 · answered by SirCharles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you have really high standards, who knows, but No not all the good ones are taken, you just haven't found the right girl..
2007-01-15 02:14:07 · answer #10 · answered by jayden 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋