Family & Relationships - 14 January 2007

I have been through so much i mean you name i have prolly been there and i dont know what to do with myself or anything anymore? so Really what do you do when you dont know what to do anymore

2007-01-14 18:24:29 · 19 answers · asked by Amanda F 1 in Friends

Mine is that I didnt get to spend enough time with my dad or tell hım how much I love him. I mean I always took it for granted that he knew that but I never actually told him that I loved him. Plus I figured he would always be there, since I was still a teen. I guess I just wasnt ready when he was killed 11 years ago at his shop by thieves who stole a copier, thats what his life was worth to them. My mom is still around but again I dont get much time to spend with her since my persuit for education has sent me to another country. But I am hopeful that things will turn out for the better in the end.

2007-01-14 18:23:55 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Is it true that the high majority of females get orgasm from foreplay? And that sex is usually just for (as well as love) the male orgasm?

2007-01-14 18:23:24 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My bf and I have been together nearly two years. He gives me a headache sometimes, but I still love him. Here's my situation. I work a job that causes me to work some weekends (nightshift). And it seems like whenever I'm working he likes to hang out with friends which is ok, mainly his crippled cousin (who I've never met) that lives 1 1/2hrs away. This past weekend he went up to "see his cousin" and didn't let me know. So, I've been calling him all weekend without any reply, just 4 text messages. Finally this morning I get a call back where he tells me he's with his cousin. This afternoon I tried calling 7x's to see if he would be attending our puppy's class and he replies via text message an hour later saying that he didn't have good service to call. I replied with a "Leave me alone"... At this point I feel like I need to either meet this "cousin" or call it. Is that taking it extreme or am I right? I figure that he should at least have the respect to call his gf back not just a text.

2007-01-14 18:23:18 · 17 answers · asked by Y.a.S.L 3 in Singles & Dating

I am totally like completely in love with this girl who is beautifull and sexy as hella hot, but when shes doing sexual favors for me i dont always come. Why is this?

2007-01-14 18:21:32 · 4 answers · asked by Maxwell F 1 in Singles & Dating

I want to be Sailor Moon... I know I can dress the part... I want to be her to get the man I love.

2007-01-14 18:21:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

when i met him two years ago, he wanted to be with me. i wasnt ready because i didnt know him that well but now , since july, ive been in love with him. he is currently in a relationship but constantly wants to hang out with me . she also doesnt seem to like me very much. what should i do?

2007-01-14 18:20:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Um.....Do you remember my question from earlier today about that guy from NY who's 4 years younger than me & couldn't give me a definate date on when he could come visit me...kept changing the months, went from Feb, to May to June to now this........

Were you ever dating someone that you thought was 'the one' and wonderful and all.......and one day out of nowhere, they just break up with you and you never ever hear from them again???

He broke up w/ me online at like 9:30. He said "We have to break up. Don't text me cuz it costs money and I won't answer." WHAT THE HELL??? I didn't do a thing wrong!!! We were having a nice chat on AIM like 30 mins before this!

2007-01-14 18:20:34 · 13 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

Ok..what would you do? honestly????
Heres the thing, I'm in cali and ive been friends with a guy whos in Texas for a over a yr. We always keep in touch either via text or talk on the phone. We've always been ..friends on the surface u know...ive always thought of him as a friend..and nothing more. I didnt want to get into him cuz of the long distance relationship and cuz I know he doesnt want to commit. But now...ive discovered I have feelings for him. I'm really attracted to him. The truth is i dont wanna like anybody right now * i dont want to get hurt*Hes coming to cali on March, and we've seen pics of each other, theres an attraction there so i dont know if i should keep talkin to him...or should i distance myself. WHAT SHOULD I DO?????

2007-01-14 18:20:10 · 14 answers · asked by *Cali Sweetie* 3 in Friends

Ok, I cheated on my boyfriend and the guy had a bigger dick. Can guys tell when another dick's been in their girl?

2007-01-14 18:19:31 · 14 answers · asked by teeteewoods69 1 in Singles & Dating

Tim or Adam?

2007-01-14 18:18:58 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my X boyfriend broke up with me.so i needed sum1 to talk to, i found it in sum1 else that i grew to love so much that its crazy. i neva went wit him because he went wit sum1 else. i neva thought we would move that fast but we did. but i also still had a lil bit of feelings for my X. one day my x started callin me tellin me how sorry he was n how much he wanted me back n that he still loves me very much n how much he has changed. at first i wasnt goin to mess wit him because i loved sum1 untill the other night whn the boy i fell in love wit told me that he thought it was best for me n hm to b betta off wit his girlfriend( a lil late 4 that) but he said he didn't want to leave me alone n that he loved me n that it was the hardest thing for him to do. n i still love him but my x boyfriend realyy has changed n im fallin back in love with him to but im still in love wit the other boy n now the other boy is tryin to go back wit me n i really want him but i also want me x...who do i choose?

2007-01-14 18:18:45 · 6 answers · asked by confused!!!**** 1 in Singles & Dating

I have been married for over twenty years.I have worked seventeen of these years outside the home sometimes working two jobs.I held one job for fifteen of these years.My husband finally gets a good paying job making enough money that I did not have to work to make ends meet anymore.Well things were good for a while and I quit my job that I had for so long because I was burnt out from it.I keep the house clean,cook good meals,and do everything around the home.Well my husband goes and gets us in over our heads in dept after we just got our bills in order.He bought two motorcycles and now he has more bills to pay and he wants me to go back to work in order to help out with these bills.I dont think it is right that he should do this to me.I think he should sell one of these motorcycles and pay off some of his dept.He says no way.This problem is not going to go away.

2007-01-14 18:18:01 · 7 answers · asked by ♥ liz ♥ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-14 18:18:01 · 16 answers · asked by mardi 1 in Marriage & Divorce

two questions.

1. i met this guy online and decided to be steads [bf/gf]. we had this relationship for about 3/4 months before we decided to become friends again since he says that we dont really know each other enough. one day while i was surfing friendster, i saw his testimonials to a girl and they went like: i love you dear etc. when i saw those testis i cried. we did met each other in realife before during a meeting but we didnt talk to each other

2. is this love or like? i think about him almost everyday when we were together and even after we broke up. i still dreamt of him several times and when we met up [as stated above] i was too shy to talk to him. when i finally decided to talk to him, he had to go.

i've tried asking him about the girl but he pretends as if i didnt ask him anything or he ignores my msges. he might be cheating on tht girl cos one of the testis stated that 'its has been wonderful 2 yrs' now what does that state?

2007-01-14 18:17:58 · 2 answers · asked by problemos 1 in Singles & Dating

If your girlfriend stopped calling you all of a sudden, for a whole month, and this is a long distance relationship, you only see her once in a while because your in the military, what would you think was going on with your girlfriend? You have been with this woman for almost 7 years and you cheated every once in a while, and lately she's been depressed.

2007-01-14 18:17:25 · 9 answers · asked by recordexec 2 in Singles & Dating

I didn't just have a baby- I cheated on my boyfriend & the guy had a way bigger dick. I've been doin Kegels but I wanna do anything additional that'll help. Somebody told me that it gets tighter when you take a bath in hot water but help me, what else?! Thanx guys

2007-01-14 18:17:05 · 14 answers · asked by teeteewoods69 1 in Singles & Dating

okay, im shy but i know i can ask out this girl. what i dont know is what to do if she says yes. like what to say or what to do from them on.in other words i what to make our relation continue. i have never had a girlfreind so help.

2007-01-14 18:16:49 · 4 answers · asked by subs r de best 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 18:15:51 · 8 answers · asked by cnzuu 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this boy and i think he likes me. We have been talking 4 a month now but 1 of my trustworthy friends told me that he has a girlfriend and that they have been together for 2 weeks but i just don't get it because in those two weeks he was calling me everyday and he even came over my house. He just left me a voicemail like 2 minutes ago. When i asked him about it he looked me dead in my eyes and said I don't have a girlfriend but friend she says she is certain that he goes with that girl! who should i believe? what should i do?

2007-01-14 18:15:25 · 11 answers · asked by Phapha 1 in Singles & Dating

There's a girl that I've been friends with since we were very young, around 4 or 5, and I want to start dating her. She's totally cool and I have a great time hanging around with her, but it's always been with a group of friends.

We're good friends but only friends and I'd like to take the next step. I'm a little torn because I want to start dating her but I don't want us to hate each other, or feel really awkward, if things end up not working out well.

I'm just looking for some insight on what I should do. If anyone has been in a situation similar to this I'd appreciate hearing what you have to say. Thanks.

2007-01-14 18:14:52 · 2 answers · asked by RedBySexy 1 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend, she doesnt want to have sex coz she dont want to lose her virginity and asked me to wait until we are married.
I respect her decision, but the question is. is it really the only reason? or are there any other causes for she's acting like that? please share your experience for both of us.

2007-01-14 18:14:27 · 14 answers · asked by TIC TAC 1 in Singles & Dating

He wants to get married asap because he's went a long time without a woman and he wants to make up his time he lost with with her. I told her she needs to take it slow - she doesnt know what he did while he was locked up and now she's mad at me - she said he didn't do anything on the down-low, because he would have told her? She's 42 and said that men come a dime a dozen these days and she needs to hold on to what she got.

Did i go overboard in saying too much?? or should I have left well enough alone?

2007-01-14 18:13:52 · 10 answers · asked by D.... 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

my sister..(she is very pretty and smart and nice)...liked this guy (fat, ugly, and bad personality).........and he just blew her off like he was soooooooooo friggan cool.......tell me what you think

2007-01-14 18:13:41 · 19 answers · asked by tiffany b 2 in Singles & Dating

I have been married before with 1 child I have been divored for 3 years and was with my bf for almost 1 year. I don't make contact with my ex at all but he contact's me he did ask me if there would be any way that we could get together I said no then told my bf and I called my ex in front of him and told him no bc he asked me too. But he has a ex gf that goes to his church, he has called her and I found out on my own, he said she called again, and we were going back and forth about it. He says I cant compare his situation with his because I was married with a kid he only dated her and there is nothing between them. Who is wrong?

2007-01-14 18:13:30 · 8 answers · asked by single mami 2 in Marriage & Divorce

me and my boyfriend broke 3 days ago and i think i already like another guy. i feel like it is really soon because i really liked my ex. i guess i am pushing away the hurt and sadness from my old relatonship... what do you think?

2007-01-14 18:12:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 18:12:20 · 9 answers · asked by niki 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 18:11:48 · 24 answers · asked by niki 1 in Singles & Dating

His name is patrick and we have known eachother for 2 years. I asked him out recently but he said he "wanted to be friends"


Help me?

2007-01-14 18:11:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a high school student, and everytime I talk to my friends or to my classmates, I can't make a conversation. I want to express my feelings or to tell them what I think but I can't. I feel like something is always stuck in my mouth or my brain that makes me couldn't say anything.sometimes if i talk, they can't understand what am i saying because my words are blabbering(can't pronounce the words well and words can't come out in my mouth!!) (am i shy? i really don't know) can anyone give me an advice on how to make a conversation to them and how to talk straghtly to them.

2007-01-14 18:11:08 · 5 answers · asked by Jerry 1 in Friends