when i met him two years ago, he wanted to be with me. i wasnt ready because i didnt know him that well but now , since july, ive been in love with him. he is currently in a relationship but constantly wants to hang out with me . she also doesnt seem to like me very much. what should i do?
2007-01-14 18:20:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
are you sure you don't just want him because you can't have him?
2007-01-14 18:24:33 · answer #1 · answered by MST 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi there (",)
I agree with Gloria.
I have a best guy friend, we met and practically started dating from word go, but we lived in different provinces, we have broken up and gotten together again about three maybe now four times since I met him at end 2004. We have been best friends ever since, have chatted over net almost everyday and know eachother better than I think anyone knows either of us, we've seen eachother a few times since the first time as well and had physical attraction, but not enough from him to me... but thats fine. We still best friends and know that we have our differences - a few months ago we made sure of our feelings for eachother and agreed on friendship, which I am glad about because I have also been going out with my current (who lives 'around the corner') for four months and I feel just as strongly for him, but obviously more. I've never been happier with a bf. If both of you are as comfortable as my ex and I were, then you should be able to speak to eachother freely, but wait untill (if) they break up, or take a chance before marriage is in sight (he may still have those feelings for you), if he tells you he truly loves her, you will have to be prepared for that and move on... your 'prince' may be 'around the corner'.
All the best!
2007-01-15 02:43:38 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From the sound of it, he still likes you. If you haven't told him how you feel yet, then that explains why he's still with that girl.
However, after you decide to finally tell him and he continues the relationship, don't try to compete. That's not a healthy situation to be in and would show that you don't think that highly of yourself. I'm guessing you're still young with a lot of life ahead of you. There will be others!
2007-01-15 02:33:03 · answer #3 · answered by SirCharles 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
and i see why she doesn't like you very much. look..it's not her fault that she knows you are a possible threat to her relationship. neither is it yours. so you really can't blame her. women's intuition. trust me, there is this one girl at my husband's job i couldn't stand from the second she opened her mouth. and believe me, there are way prettier girls than this one. guess what. stupid whore wrote a love letter to my husband. go figure.
leave him alone if he is in a relationship. if he leaves her, feel free to pounce. but do you really want to put him in a situation where he cheats on a girlfriend over you? because karma will really bite you in the **** when you are really in love with someone. if he's worth it, you can wait.
2007-01-15 02:31:15 · answer #4 · answered by Bella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him how your feeling and that if he's not feeling the same you don't want lose him as a friend and that your sorry to have said anything. If you don't say anything you may never know. He's probably feeling the same way.
2007-01-15 02:29:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok, all you have to do is wait. his relationship will blow up, and you can move in. dont tell him yet, becuase if you do, he may think you are crazy and just stop talking to you for a while. so after they break up, you be the one that he is with, let him tell you all about it, and you be there for him. he will see how much you mean to him! then you can move in, and he will be hooked...
2007-01-15 02:27:45 · answer #6 · answered by blonde brunette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell him the way u fill
say"i no i was not ready 2 years ago .......but i am now and i no this is dramatic but im in love with u and then say i would love to be with you !!!!!!!!!!!"
i no good advice
lol
2007-01-15 02:26:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let time speak for itself,
if he still wants you he will
end it with the other chick
dont get in between and dont
say anything.
things will happen
little by little
dont rush it
2007-01-15 02:24:58 · answer #8 · answered by joo 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think hes playing wid 2 bodies, watch out!
2007-01-15 02:28:36 · answer #9 · answered by pinkangel_232 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move ON!
2007-01-15 02:26:52 · answer #10 · answered by alexandria1_1999 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋