me and my boyfriend broke 3 days ago and i think i already like another guy. i feel like it is really soon because i really liked my ex. i guess i am pushing away the hurt and sadness from my old relatonship... what do you think?
2007-01-14 18:12:43 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you're on the rebound. n
2007-01-14 18:36:40 · answer #1 · answered by Nikki 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, 3 days is WAY TOO SOON! I mean unless you have not talked to, seen, or have sex with your exboyfriend in like weeks or months, then he was already gone, but it looks like you are rushing into this new relationship too fast! Give yourself some time and if this new guy is for you, then he will stick around. If not, then he won't.
2007-01-15 02:16:16 · answer #2 · answered by SuzyBelle04 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If you were in a bad relationship but think you still like him, you need to wait more. If you did not accept abuse from him and he just wasn't the right guy for you, then you are ready to move on.
2007-01-15 02:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by g g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it's OK. But be careful in going in to fast, on the rebound...take it slow...and take time for yourself too. You deserve this time between boyfriends to nurish and strengthen your inner soul. take a solo trip; learn something new; join a new club. In other words, get over the old boyfriend in a natural, nurturing manner which can include a new boyfriend, but be careful of making the new boyfriend your "savior".
2007-01-15 02:19:06 · answer #4 · answered by X me Out 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if you fell so quickly for another guy ( 3 days, wow) then im sorry but that wasnt true love. stay single for at least a week or two to decide objectively and youll have a clearer idea of what you want.
2007-01-15 02:17:30 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
hmm. how long have you and your bf been together? maybe you're "on the rebound"?
when a breakup happens, emotions just tend to take control of us.. so it's hard to think straight. maybe your attraction for this guy is an effect of your being without a partner..?
think about it. don't rush things. it won't hurt to wait a bit.. just to be sure of your own feelings :)
2007-01-15 02:19:05 · answer #6 · answered by january 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Wait a little longer. To me it sounds like you are just looking for some comfort from another man. Did he break up with you?
2007-01-15 02:17:53 · answer #7 · answered by Cher 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Haha If you 'really' like your ex, you won't be falling for another guy so fast. So, obviously you don't really like your ex. kjkajdfakljfl;daf
2007-01-15 02:15:54 · answer #8 · answered by a9113257311 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you want somebody to confirm what you've already decided.
2007-01-15 02:16:41 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
give yourself some time.
it's probably you just wanting a replacement.
it hurts, but you'll get over it.
2007-01-15 02:16:51 · answer #10 · answered by aqtles 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋