Family & Relationships - 14 January 2007

He is always correcting me and thinks his ways are always right...but yet my daughter knows what a daquairi and beer look like and I never drink around her..and she knows how to "back dat *** up"..haha and I never taught her that!!..any advice??

2007-01-14 17:34:18 · 16 answers · asked by confused69 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-14 17:34:04 · 21 answers · asked by tyl5rdurden 1 in Marriage & Divorce

as i m vergin n soon gettin married but realy unaware about how to react first time. u know what i mean. i m realy scared about several things like the pain, my hubbys reaction and also about the pregnancy, as i dont want to use hormonal contaceptives pls guide me.

2007-01-14 17:33:43 · 7 answers · asked by vanice 1 in Weddings

i've been in this relationship for four months already. and just this weekend, we had a fight..bec the whole time we're together, instead doing stuffs we usually do.. he keeps on waiting for messages from friends, etc. like when i was kissing him, right in the middle of the fun part, he would put me on hold and reply to those people.. then on friday night, i got really pissed, i texted him that i'll be sleeping early.. and that i'll text him the next morning to wake him up (i'm staying over his parent's house for two weeks)so i texted him a goodnight message..he sensed the irony..he asked if i'm jealous... i said i'm not... then he said he's sorry... i said whatever... so i slept... hahaha... mind you... that was the only night we could have to ourselves.. the next day he asked what's wrong with texting.. i told him there's nothing wrong with it... he got mad... i said i overreacted and i'm sorry. today, he said he's bored... he wants something new...i'm lost from here..help?? =...(

2007-01-14 17:31:20 · 12 answers · asked by april_wy_lalala 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my b/f has been together for 2 months now and he tells me that he loves me.......but see the big thing about us is that he is married and he tells me that he wonts me not her he spends all his time with me and we do every thing together but i dont know if he tells me the truth or not i ask him and he tells the same thing over and over...how do i know if its the truth or a lie.............

2007-01-14 17:30:33 · 8 answers · asked by rose m 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has an employee/coworker that is a little younger than he is. shes the best looking person working there. he seems to talk about her alot more often than the other people he works with. also he has been finding more and more excuses to go to work and get some things done on his days off. or even offering to take peoples shifts, when before he would get upset for having to cover for other people. He talks to her a little friendlier than his other coworkers as well. Should i be concerned?? I did ask him if he had feelings for her and he just laughed it off, and said of course not but i still feel as though he was lying. i love him and have no idea what i should do or if im just being paranoid. help?????

2007-01-14 17:29:57 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

One even said "I like those on you" and "I love your pants"

Weird? Am I missing something here?

2007-01-14 17:29:35 · 13 answers · asked by JamaicanmecrayZ 1 in Singles & Dating

unwanted flirting, jealousy,dating,trust,boyriend,boyfriends

2007-01-14 17:28:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I got divorce about 5 months ago. I was with her for 4 years before we got married. We were only married for 4 months. When she left I asked why. She said she didn’t know why. Now she is going around telling her and my friends and family that I beat her and treated her bad. I never did the things she said I did. I even went as far as to give her everything she asked for. Now she is dating a pot head and has changed completely from the woman I knew. How do I deal with this? I still can’t seem to date. I have had plenty dates since then I just don’t seem to have it in me to do anything. But I am still very lonely. What do I do?

2007-01-14 17:28:17 · 15 answers · asked by Joshua C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i would have cat powers and a tail.

2007-01-14 17:28:17 · 14 answers · asked by PJ 2 in Friends

im 17 and hes 19. me and my boyfriend have been going out for 2 years. we have a baby and i live with my bf and his mom. we love each other very much but he sometimes treats me like hes my dad. he tells me what to do and i have to ask for permission before i can go out even if its with my mom. he plays with our son but expects me to do everything else with him. also, when we fight he cusses at me and calls me bad names. he also treatens to kick me out if i dont obey what he says. he uses that against me because i dont have anywhere else to go. i love him so so much but im scared to say anything. please help!!!

2007-01-14 17:27:54 · 11 answers · asked by ♥Sher♥ 3 in Singles & Dating

I've never had a sexual conversation with him. But, how do you ask this 20 year old guy if he is a virgin without making it totally akward and embaressing. (And no he's not gay)

2007-01-14 17:26:39 · 9 answers · asked by katnap20 2 in Singles & Dating

I am an introvert. so i feel shy when he hugs me or kisses me. But he says that he loves me so much should i allow him to kiss me.......

2007-01-14 17:25:09 · 11 answers · asked by pakistani 1 in Singles & Dating

i fell for a girl for a really long time, i was a complete angel to her for all the years i've known her. but for some reason she didn't want me, a relationship didnt interest her. i wonder sometimes why. now, 8 years later giving up chasing her, i barely realize some of my mistakes, well for one i came off to strong, almost to the point where i could've looked like i was pathetically in love. but i couldn't help it, that's just the way i am. i guess there's such a thing as "too sweet", so i ask you girls, what do you really want in a guy? and seriously, not the cliche "oh i want a sensitive, caring, lovy-dovy"...blah blah..because it's not true, it can't be true, i tried it.

2007-01-14 17:24:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

and rightfully so. Why do we not hear of the 4,000 babies murdered each day in the USA?!

2007-01-14 17:22:30 · 9 answers · asked by momhunt2 1 in Family

All right...I'm 21 my fiancee is 28, we met Jan '05 (19 and 26), instant connection. We were best friends, couldn't get enough of each other. We loved spending time with each other. Hanging out watching tv or a game was amazing, we didn't feel the need to go out all the time. Were comfortable just being together. Whenever we would leave each other at night or first meet up together on a new day we would always give each a kiss, "I love you" came without a problem, we could talk about anything including what we wanted for us in the future with full agreement or minor compromises, and we had teriffic sex (he was my first in that department).In August '05 we purchased a house together. He was working, and that spring I finished an associates degree in engineering and was working also. When we moved in we were busy with repairs and remodeling, we were exhausted after working all day and then coming home and working on the house, but we were still loving every minute of it. I had been living at home prior, and while he had moved out when he was 18, he had to stop work for a shoulder injury and operation and had been living with his mother for almost a year while that was being taken care of, so he loved having his own place. We got along great, joked around, had long heart to heart talks, still had amazing sex, and were just loving being together. On Christmas he proposed. I knew it was coming, we had talked before buying the house that we wanted to get married. We also talked and agreed about kids, my future plans to get my bachelors nights once I was settled in a job, his plan to restore a muscle car and have room for atvs. To buy the house I also had to sell my horse. Which was very painful for me, but I knew it had to be done. We also agreed that I would have one again in the future. But we could certainly have a cat or dog in the meantime. He has a rocky past. His father died when he was young. And he was in trouble with the law a couple times when he was a late teen (stolen property and vandalism). Things were going good into that spring ('06), and then it all just stopped. He would start to brush off a good night kiss, would roll away from me at night and not want any part of me to touch him, we had gotten a cat shortly after Christmas which he out of the blue declared had to stay outside from now on and was not allowed inside. I'd go outside to feed it and he would get extremely mad, say that I spend more time with a stupid cat than with him. During this spring he also started to swear at me quite a bit, which he had never done. We both have a sarcastic sense of humor, but it started to become not funny. We also stopped having sex. I would try to initiate it, and he would brush me off everytime, until I started to just not bother. I have depression. He has known that since the beginning, and became less frequent when we were together. We went months without any sex. Then he would out of the blue initiate it. And I'd go along, it was contact with him. But it would be fast, rough, and I would feel further away from him than ever. But our relationship was starting to wreak havoc on my self esteem, which was fairly shaky to begin with. I know that a relationship cannot stay in that puppy love stage. I fully expected it to sort of drop off, mellow out, and just kind of become "comfortable", for lack of a better word. Like a favorite pair of jeans. But there wasn't a transitional period. It was best of friends, lovers....to roommates who don't get along. My job had also been looking in increasing jeapordy around this time. I worked for a small company and work was not coming in and a few people had already been laid off. I began throwing out resumes just in case so was becoming very stressed at home. He was also having a hard time at his job due to some very corrupt management and there was talk of many people planning to quit, him included. It was not a healthy work environment for him. I told him to look around for a new job if he wanted to leave, and that if he decided to quit I would support his decision. We were/are living somewhat paycheck to paycheck, but are living within our means. We have a small nest egg so money would definately be tight, but we would manage. Before I found a new job, I was laid off. 2 weeks later management laid off half the staff at his work, including him. We were both tossing out resumes and applications everywhere. The employment situation where we live is very bad and we could not find open positions. About a month later we each got a job. Me working as an engineer for the state, and him working for a local town, plowing, etc. After his day at work he came home with a kitten for me. Everything was suddenly back to how we were at the beginning. We'd snuggle up on the couch, play games, he'd sneak me kisses, we could say I love you, and just be friendly and warm with each other. We had sex all the time. And then he was off again. He threw the kitten outside one night after an argument. I told him it would die (it had never set foot outside yet) and threw on a pair of shoes to go out and get it. He locked the door and did not let me back in. I took a walk down the trail behind our house, cried a lot, and came back about 2 hours later. The door was unlocked. The kitten was never seen again. And he never apologized. Whenever we have a fight I apologize, I always end up making it feel like it is my fault. He has verbally abused me on several occasions, thrown objects at me, and mentioned during arguments that this was a mistake and he doesn't want to marry me. Sometimes I'm scared what our relationship will be like if I do. I have picked up a second job evenings to pay for tuition (my full time job will pay half)and have enrolled for a class. He was always fully supportive of my decisions to continue my education, and has mentioned recently that he is proud of me for doing it. Which means the world to me. But I also got yelled at by him for not having laundry folded and put away the other night, and other trivial things. I'm working 16 hours a day, manage to keep the house clean, dishes done, grocery shopping up to date, dinners prepared a few nights a week so he only has to heat it up, and I was being made to feel so tiny over a load of laundry still being in the dryer not taken care of. I went to bed and cried. He works hard at his job and is tired when he comes home. There is always stuff to be done at home or bills to be paid. He can escape somewhat or pound out some frustration on his 4-wheeler. I work, go to the other job, study for class, and do housework. Today is the first day we have seen each other awake in almost a week. The first day neither of us has had to work in a while. I got rejected for a kiss in the morning. And we fought all day long. I'm just not sure what to do. I don't know how to fix this. I've brought up counseling. He said he would be open to it. But when I mentioned I found a couple good people he kaboshed the idea. This is somewhat of a disjointed message. It takes two people to make a good relationship, so it also takes two people to mess it up. But I can't do things for him, and I don't know what I should be doing on my end. I'm getting real nervous for the future, we have talked about children a couple years down the road. He can't handle a cat, let alone a horse, let alone a child. And unless we can get any sort of support and decency back in our relationship we certainly can't bring a kid into it. I hope you all can follow this post. Any help or advice would be soo appreciated.

2007-01-14 17:21:34 · 9 answers · asked by PatriotsGirl 2 in Marriage & Divorce

1. Where were you living
2. How old were you
3. What type of work were you doing

2007-01-14 17:20:19 · 9 answers · asked by go UCLA bruins! 3 in Family

"Save a horse ride a cowboy?"

2007-01-14 17:18:55 · 19 answers · asked by OU812 3 in Singles & Dating

One of my friends is using the Adipex (?) and hCg shot program to lose weight. She's actually lost about 22 pounds in a little over a month. I am currently about 8 months pregnant, and I have to eat small portions several times a day; I can't eat a huge meal because it makes me sick. (It takes less food to fill me up, but I get hungry more often during the day.) So usually when my friend calls, I'm eating. She has been giving me a hard time about eating so much, making fun of me, even moo-ing at me! I finally told her that just because she was dieting didn't mean everyone else had to be, and I was perfectly within my right to eat when I got hungry. Now, she refuses to talk to me! Any ideas about why she might be acting this way?

2007-01-14 17:18:48 · 9 answers · asked by justsumchickie1 1 in Friends

2007-01-14 17:18:16 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a friend and she did something bad to somethingi really liked and she didnt care all she did was "im sorry" and she said in a mean ish way like she didnt care. i havent calle her sence but she had called a few

2007-01-14 17:18:12 · 8 answers · asked by lyd m. 2 in Friends

2007-01-14 17:17:40 · 29 answers · asked by hot_chica 1 in Singles & Dating

I get a strange vibe from her that she doesn't think I'm "good enough" for her son. My boyfriend says that this vibe stuff is all in my head and of course his mom likes me. I'm not sure what to think. So, I was wondering if there were any warning signs you knew of that pretty much shows if the mother likes you or can't stand you. Thanks! :o)

2007-01-14 17:16:45 · 6 answers · asked by aundrea 1 in Singles & Dating

When I go by my aunt's house (which is a lot) sometimes she will hit me or shove me against a wall or something. I tried telling my mom but she did not believe me and told my aunt. My aunt then just gets mad and then hits me even more. She doesn't do it a lot......but im just wondering. I am beginning to become afraid of her and I have to go over there because my mom works for long hours and I can not stay home by myself for that long of time. I am 13 years old.

2007-01-14 17:15:33 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-01-14 17:15:21 · 32 answers · asked by kittyy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

How can a mixed black and white man relate to you?

2007-01-14 17:14:45 · 10 answers · asked by terrywerst 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 17:14:45 · 2 answers · asked by mcpunk_89 2 in Singles & Dating

We're not dating, just 'seeing each other', but since we slept together he seems like he's blowing me off. We saw each other once, but I called him to see if he wanted to meet up since I was already going out, and he blew off his friends to see me, but we had plans twice since then, and both times he hasn't called or anything, just kinda blew me off, but part of it may be because it's been cold enough to go ice fishing lately, and he's obsessed with it. Is it just wishful thinking, or is he really too busy?

2007-01-14 17:14:33 · 3 answers · asked by simply.beautiful 2 in Singles & Dating

Went out with a guy a few times. we had plans, which he blew off without calling. I waqited a few days, then wrote him a nasty email. He responded (coincedentally) a few hours later and said he was out of state becuz a sibling was killed and his phone wasn't charged so he didn't have my number. I felt horrible and wrote him a long email apologizing. Now, I'm at the point where I think he's a lying d-ickhead. I have the PERFECT sarcastic comment for him. Should I email him (nothing he would respond to) or just let it go?

2007-01-14 17:14:08 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 17:13:38 · 9 answers · asked by animal lover! 2 in Singles & Dating