2007-01-14 17:17:40 · 29 answers · asked by hot_chica 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You know that doesn't sound right, otherwise you wouldn't be asking it here. Go with your instincts. Good Luck
2007-01-14 17:21:24 · answer #1 · answered by Lemme tell ya... 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You don't really define the word "likes", but I am assuming you mean he is attracted to teenage girls in a physical sense?
First of all, he's engaged to you so he shouldn't be actively "checking out other chicks", so to speak.
But more importantly, I don't think it's normal for a man his age at 34 to "like" girls who are young enough to be his own daughter. And when you say "teenage" are you talking about the lower end of that age bracket, like 13? If so, then I think he has an even bigger problem, and I would urge him to go to counseling BEFORE you get married!
2007-01-15 01:34:35 · answer #2 · answered by Adios 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ok, now, you should define like. As in tell us more about what he did that made you think he likes teenage girls. Or what he told you that grossed you out that you have to ask Ask Yahoo! the question.
Like. As in friendly, like an uncle to their niece is okay, caring and concerning like an adult should is the right thing to do.
Like as in total stranger, as in lust (fetish?) should be a no no. For if he ogle as stranger teenage girls then comment on them. This is quite bad. Well, at least you should do is to point out to him that you are uncomfortable that he is doing that.
Well. I'm in no state to comment about him as I (or we as the Ask Yahoo! community) does not know enough about you and him to answer your very need for concern question.
Go get official help if you think that it is affecting your relationship with him!!
2007-01-15 01:28:11 · answer #3 · answered by Chen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes,i would be if i were you.You fiance should like only you.And besides a 34 year old shouldn't be attracted to teenagers.He may be sexaholic.I smell trouble.
2007-01-15 01:25:04 · answer #4 · answered by avavu 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
kind of creepy, and sweetie, I'd nip it in the butt, or give him the ring back. It's normal, right out of high school, to still have the hotts for teens, but 34, give it a break already. He's an adult, and he needs to act like it. Good Luck!
2007-01-15 01:21:28 · answer #5 · answered by Shannon Kay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say he's not that happy about his own teenage year. maybe he has a few regrets about what he didn't do, missed opportunities, etc. maybe you'll just have to wait for him to get over it, if you want to wait around that long. anyway, it's not too abnormal to fancy teenage girls. they're young, they're pretty, and older guys like to project the residual fantasies they have from when they were that age, onto teenage girls who are now a LITTLE young for them.
2007-01-15 01:30:51 · answer #6 · answered by mornington observer 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Teenage as in 18-19? Or teenage as in jail bait?
Because if it's the former, there are many men attracted to young women, still teen but legal.
If the latter, he's in trouble, and you will be in trouble too if you stay close to him.
2007-01-15 01:22:13 · answer #7 · answered by tlakkamond 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Weird question. He is your fiance? He "likes" teenage girls? What do you mean by "like?" Do you mean romantically? Yuk! Run, don't walk, away.
2007-01-15 01:24:26 · answer #8 · answered by takemeawayasfarasyoucan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. Why is he your fiance if he likes other girls? I hope they are at least 18 or he will be facing some time.
2007-01-15 01:20:45 · answer #9 · answered by terrywerst 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
why is he your fiance if he likes teenage girls??? Are you wishing for disaster in your life?? Run away and don't look back.
2007-01-15 01:22:24 · answer #10 · answered by jabbergirl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ummm I would be very concerned if I was you......that for me is a deal breaker, have you checked and see if he is a sex offender, teenage Girls is just wrong.... be very careful
2007-01-15 01:21:28 · answer #11 · answered by jayden 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋