Family & Relationships - 14 January 2007

not to marry or anything but i always wanted to do it with a older women. any ideas.

2007-01-14 17:13:36 · 14 answers · asked by Shan R 1 in Singles & Dating

If a girls zodiac sighn is cancer and the guys is capricorn is that a good match!??
how good is it?

2007-01-14 17:12:13 · 5 answers · asked by <3 1 in Singles & Dating

Do I care about others, or is it all about me?

I think, its all about me. I can tell. You wanna know how? Ill tell you how.

Im felt no closeness when my dad had his surgery with his knee. I felt no real happieness when my newest nephew was born. I have little appreciation for what my mom does for me. When I have a conversation with someone, I change the subject back to something related to me. I have no real pain for the suffering that happens everyday in this world. Im a ******* self centered jerk whos obsessed with himself. I seem...unapproachable, lame, shy, bland, stupid and fake. My friend in providence who thinks the world of talking to me, and misses me very much- I almost never make attempts to contact her. Shes always the one calling me, always. My one friend that works with me in this resturaunt is pending on getting fired. I dont want her to go, but then again I really dont care. Every damn person I talk to, I cant make correct conversation with them.

Why am I so horrible like this? I want to change, but I dont know how. I feel really ashamed for being so ignorant and it bothers me so much that deep down, Im a hurting puppy. Everytime I wake up and realize Im like this, I get these deep heartwrenching feelings to my stomach.

Am I lazy? I dont know...I just need some advice because this has been bothering me for some time now. Please help me?

Also, how can I discover the real me?

2007-01-14 17:12:08 · 7 answers · asked by awall71688 1 in Friends

Ok I told my crush that I liked him about 1 month ago! Then he told all his friends and they tease him and they went up to me and said so you really told him you like him. I said yea I really fooled him didn't I! I still really do like him I don't know why I said that! Now when I see him and try to talk to him he always says I am tired !

2007-01-14 17:11:43 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 17:11:12 · 21 answers · asked by megashino 3 in Singles & Dating

my best friend like this guy he is a senior and we are sophmores, well she like him since our freshman year and well this year he comes up to me and give me his number i like him too but not as long as she has i just now saw him this year. but anyways she said that if i went out with him she would be mad at me. is this fair. i think that if he doesn't like her then she should let me go out with him. what should i do.

2007-01-14 17:10:18 · 20 answers · asked by redd 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 17:09:49 · 23 answers · asked by hailey n 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so im 16 and i find myself to have a crush on a 13...almost 14 year old. he's so cute and he knows all the right words to say. i feel so loved around him...but - i know im not. he's a true player adn i tell him he is, but he says its different with me. i know hes just saying what he knows will impress me...so what do i do. should i try to pull him out of his little player habits? should i flirt with him and lead him on, because i know he likes me but at the moment im playing hard to get, just to stay safe. i really dont know what to do. is it a really big age difference? what should i do?

2007-01-14 17:09:38 · 5 answers · asked by moonlit_tahiti 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 17:08:59 · 4 answers · asked by melissaw219 3 in Family

This guy i like keeps staring at me in class. He looks back at me when walking with his friends. He leans on me during class. And, he compliments me. All of these things for me, point to signs of affection. Does he like me? But he has a girlfriend.

2007-01-14 17:08:38 · 2 answers · asked by littlelorenbree 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 17:08:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 17:07:55 · 4 answers · asked by amaxxama 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I was walking around the toy store with my son and the soon to be ex this weekend. (We were busy looking at something that we were going to get for his birthday.) This one lady looks at my son and comments "you're a handsome little boy." Then she looks up at me with this naughty smile on her face. I look back at my ex and she has a look that could burn through lead. Our divorce will be final in a matter of weeks and I'm wondering what the big deal is.I flat out encouraged her to start dating again. After all, she stated in her original complaint that I made her life miserable. I find irony in that situation. I mean if she's going to throw me away like toilet paper, what right does she have to be jealous?

2007-01-14 17:07:28 · 6 answers · asked by Thomas K 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband and I have been arguing on and off for about 2 yrs now. When I tell him how frustrated I am about things he just gives me the evil eye and stares me out, even when I ask him to talk to me! What do I do?

2007-01-14 17:06:59 · 16 answers · asked by sarandjas 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I recently got hypnotized and my friends said I did a lot of funny and crazy things. These included thinking I was a cat, forgetting my name, dancing, giving a lap dance, having an orgasm when my foot was touched, and being stuck to the floor. Anyone out there ever been hypnotized and what is the funniest thing you did while under. Thanks!

2007-01-14 17:06:57 · 5 answers · asked by daisybabyatthemall 1 in Singles & Dating

A. very sweet guy but okay looking
B. or sweet guy whose very attractive

2007-01-14 17:06:37 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I like this guy a lot and think he likes me too, but my parents won't let me date until next year, I'm 15. I've been trying to act like I don't like him, but he will not back off. What do I do?

I think the reason he's still after me is because I show my feelings for him without realizing it, so I need to actually just completely get rid of them, any tips?

2007-01-14 17:06:36 · 6 answers · asked by Katie 3 in Singles & Dating

Is it normal to be interested in having anal sex with your wife? If she is hesitant at times, but does not say no, what should you do? I want her to enjoy it, but don't know how to introduce it to her.

2007-01-14 17:05:38 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I've been in a long distant relationship for the past 5 years...I'm in love with her. and yesterday I found out that she was cheating with a gaycoworker. we talked all night last night and she was saying she was sorry and that she wanted to still be with me. and that she didnt want to be with her and it was her being curious about women.questioning her she has been seeing her for months. Today when i talked to her, her story was still the same she wanted to be with me and was in love with me. but she thought it was best to be friends. I was hurt and crying so i said fine you want to be with her she consistantly said no i want to be by myself. so i called her later tonight and the girl picks up the phone and was saying **** about her being her girlfriend now and that she doesnt want to be with me and hangs up.3 times i called back, then my now exgirl answers and says she wants to be with her cause she. I gave up my family and medical school 4 her I have revenge in my heart. what to do

2007-01-14 17:05:23 · 13 answers · asked by CONFUSSED 2 in Singles & Dating

When I was in high school, I was at a party and missing my boyfriend who was on a job about 2 hours away. With only about 4 hours until my curfew, I drove up to see him, even though it was only long enough for a kiss. Might not be too "crazy", but I'm too tired to think of anything else! Thanks for sharing! =)

2007-01-14 17:04:06 · 12 answers · asked by Delvala 5 in Singles & Dating

My boss is having a wedding on Sat Feb 3. He also asked me to ask my date. So on 1/10/07 I asked my date and my date said Yes, he can go to my boss's wedding. So I turned in the RSVP and told my boss we both can make it. I gave my date 3 1/2 weeks prior notice about the wedding date. Then 4 days later 1/14/07 he sent me an email saying that his sister and his whole family is coming into town and they will have dinner that night. Same night of the wedding. So therefore, he cannot make it to the wedding. Would you be upset?? or would you be forgiving? Please provide your answer and also the explanation as to why you have chosen that answer.

2007-01-14 17:03:29 · 27 answers · asked by Milleniumsky 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 17:03:15 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Have you dated someone even though your family didn't like them/agree, and its turned out great for you?

Or did it not turn out very well??

If your family doesn't agree (and the partner hasn't done anything too bad) If it will make your family unhappy should you stay away, or tell your family to let you be happy?

2007-01-14 17:03:06 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I have had very strong feelings for one of my friends going on a year, and I have yet to tell her. Well now I really want to tell her but she's already taken.

Should I go ahead and tell her how I feel or what?

2007-01-14 17:02:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay, me and my ex have broken up..we have been apart for a while, he found another girlfriend and changed for the bad, well when she broke up w/ him..he called me and said i was always on his mind and couldnt shake me...and i feel the same way..we have been talkin' for awhile and like he finally told me that he still likes me but he hasnt asked me out...and i told him that i still like him and we spent 5 hours on the phone just talkin' and ever since then i cant get him outta my head cuz we have SO much in common and it scares me cuz im so young and i dont know what to do...he told me when we were on the phone that he can see him going back out w/ me cuz im cool, easy to talk to, fun to be around...and i just wanted him to ask me out rite there but he didnt and i dont know if i should ask him...but i dont want him to say "no" cuz he still likes me but he dont...im confused...n e thing u can give me will be helpful...thanks...oh and please dont leave any stupid responses please...thanx

2007-01-14 17:02:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

If your spouse was not cheating on you.You were not cheating on your spouse.

2007-01-14 17:02:11 · 10 answers · asked by noga 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My bio Mom is not living. Is it terribly rude to give her "spot" to a favorite aunt? What if I get married before they do, am I required to give his fiance a special role?

2007-01-14 17:01:47 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I attend a women's college and have a male friend at the college across the street. He invites me over to spend the night with him every weekend. We sleep in his bed together but he has never touched me in any sexual manner. Although we have fun together, we've never even kissed. This has been going on for about 4 months now. Does he even like me, what's going on?

2007-01-14 17:01:00 · 11 answers · asked by katnap20 2 in Singles & Dating

ok, we're both girls. we didnt connect so we decided to be just friends, but then i wrote to her i still found it awkward to be just friends. well after a while she approached me. she mentioned i was wearing the shirt i wore on our one time 'date'. then she started talking about this guy. said hes so cute and how she complimented him for his friendliness. i think it was insensitive of her to do that, or did she try to talk to me like a friend? what do you think?

right now, im not in love with her anymore but it bothers me...
PS we havent had contact in a while..

2007-01-14 17:00:44 · 4 answers · asked by vincent m 2 in Singles & Dating

ok mine was at the park in the rain and it was the hottest sex i yet to have...there was a park ranger looking around the park....we could have easily been caught

2007-01-14 17:00:34 · 7 answers · asked by happiness 2 in Singles & Dating