I have had very strong feelings for one of my friends going on a year, and I have yet to tell her. Well now I really want to tell her but she's already taken.
Should I go ahead and tell her how I feel or what?
2007-01-14 17:02:23 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How do you know she would be interested in you if she is dating someone else? Do you want to be involved in a three way relationship or take the chance of being rejected as a potential boyfriend?
Why not wait and see how this relationship works out for her with this guy and if it doesn't then I would say something then but just make sure that you don't get involved with her on the rebound.
As for telling her now. It's not a good idea to do that because she's already involved with this person.
Two things could happen if you tell her that you like her.
1. She may not feel the same way about you.
2. She may like you but then she will be caught in a very uncomfortable situation.
If you are her friend as you say that you are then a friend wouldn't put another friend in an uncomfortable situation. Yes it's a sacrifice but a good friend always makes room for them.
2007-01-22 12:45:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she's your 'friend' that's a lot different because she KNOWS you. If she wasn't your friend, but don't worry this might still work, tell her the special feelings you have for her and beg her to just "give me a chance and try me out for a while.Then tell me if what you think". Let her know that she's not MARRIED to this individual she's been seeing yet and that she'd be cheating herself of opportunity by not seeing what you'd be like ...and once she does, how happy she would be by having you as her boyfriend. Good luck!
2007-01-14 17:17:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep your feelings to yourself. There's a good chance she'll be irritated if you're up front with her because 1)you liked her for a year and never said anything 2)she has someone already. Also, her boyfriend wouldn't be too thrilled if he found out you have feelings for his girl.
Let it go and find someone who's actually available.
2007-01-14 17:05:11 · answer #3 · answered by Desiree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Too late homey.
She has already placed you on the lets be friends list. She will not tell you that she does not want to ruin her friendship with you. Well, tell her and look for another girl to like.
2007-01-14 17:05:40 · answer #4 · answered by iLLegal Mexican 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Before you tell her make sure you know what you might be braking up, if she is really happy why ruin it for her? It's not her fault you made the mistake of waiting to long...though if you know that she's not completely into it you might tell her your feels, though not to shockingly...and don't kiss her after words just because you feel so light after letting this secret go, she is someone elses, and that will only make her feel bad...
2007-01-14 17:10:28 · answer #5 · answered by Sugar 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
properly while i replace into taken each and all of the lads labored it out and we did not cling out that lots while there have been human beings arround. yet inspect her and choose; Is she sighing lots, dose she many times stair into area? If she dose those then she's in all probability taken! yet while your coragus then purely ask her immediately out if she has a bf climate or not you notice those indications!
2016-10-07 04:24:21 · answer #6 · answered by Erika 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally i like a guy that is straight forward because the truth is that anyway u put it..it comes down to whether i like u or not...so just tell her if she feels the same way she may dump her bf for u depending how the realtionship is and how long...but just tell her its whether she feels the same way or she doesn't take a chance
2007-01-14 17:07:09 · answer #7 · answered by lalgita12 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's taken. Move on, and keep the friendship if you are comfortable with that.
Plenty of fish in the sea, and, unless you're as unlucky as me, there must be one for you.
2007-01-14 17:06:37 · answer #8 · answered by tlakkamond 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No don't tell her.......remain friends with her until she becomes available I would say....even if you don't like the guy.....think to yourself......how you would react or like it if someone did the same to you......best thing to do is remain friends and in touch... your actions will tell her that you like her.......without you getting into trouble with the guy or her later..... Hope this helps!
2007-01-14 17:07:07 · answer #9 · answered by Boogieman 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't tell her. Respect boundaries. Find someone else.
2007-01-14 17:07:12 · answer #10 · answered by Derek S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋