Do I care about others, or is it all about me?
I think, its all about me. I can tell. You wanna know how? Ill tell you how.
Im felt no closeness when my dad had his surgery with his knee. I felt no real happieness when my newest nephew was born. I have little appreciation for what my mom does for me. When I have a conversation with someone, I change the subject back to something related to me. I have no real pain for the suffering that happens everyday in this world. Im a ******* self centered jerk whos obsessed with himself. I seem...unapproachable, lame, shy, bland, stupid and fake. My friend in providence who thinks the world of talking to me, and misses me very much- I almost never make attempts to contact her. Shes always the one calling me, always. My one friend that works with me in this resturaunt is pending on getting fired. I dont want her to go, but then again I really dont care. Every damn person I talk to, I cant make correct conversation with them.
Why am I so horrible like this? I want to change, but I dont know how. I feel really ashamed for being so ignorant and it bothers me so much that deep down, Im a hurting puppy. Everytime I wake up and realize Im like this, I get these deep heartwrenching feelings to my stomach.
Am I lazy? I dont know...I just need some advice because this has been bothering me for some time now. Please help me?
Also, how can I discover the real me?
2007-01-14 17:12:08 · 7 answers · asked by awall71688 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
it sound like you really need to talk to someone to fiqure out what
going with you. there are reason that people feel as you do/but
the fact that you want to change is a good sign that you will
do better. but you just need to talk to someone and then you
can open your heart and find the love that out there for you
and others. good luck to you. god be with you young man.
2007-01-14 17:20:33 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think I can some how understand u because I was like you, I think
But if you try to be more kind to others you'll succeed , I think you r not realy this much indifferent to others just u imagin that u are since ur question shows that u r sensitive to other's problems ,
but it is better to show them that u r sensitive to what is happening to them it is not hard try it now be successful !
2007-01-15 01:23:50 · answer #2 · answered by sara_7852 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to help other people, and focus on them. This will make you feel better about your self, that you are caring person. Say something nice to someone everyday, even if you don't mean it, until you do, then don't stop. Talk to strangers, and be nice or say something nice. Think of how Jesus was when he walked the earth.You seem to have low self esteem, and don't think people like you much. love yourself first,
2007-01-15 01:23:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
u r normal coz i ever felt what u feel,ok u r stress,u just need somone to talk with and share with,u can't kept these inside
2007-01-15 01:34:35 · answer #4 · answered by ♣ Jeany ♠ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do something you enjoy with someone else. Like I go biking with friends
2007-01-15 01:23:32 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like my sister. well, i dont know. with my sister, she just plain doen't care and says she won't change. i have no room to talk, i have my faults and refuse to change them as well. just day by day try to concentrate on other people i guess. i really don't know how to help you there.
2007-01-15 01:28:23 · answer #6 · answered by crysizere 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU NEED COUNSELING-REAL BAD
NOT YELLING JUST TYPE BIG SO I CAN SEE IT BETTER.
2007-01-15 02:05:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋