okay, me and my ex have broken up..we have been apart for a while, he found another girlfriend and changed for the bad, well when she broke up w/ him..he called me and said i was always on his mind and couldnt shake me...and i feel the same way..we have been talkin' for awhile and like he finally told me that he still likes me but he hasnt asked me out...and i told him that i still like him and we spent 5 hours on the phone just talkin' and ever since then i cant get him outta my head cuz we have SO much in common and it scares me cuz im so young and i dont know what to do...he told me when we were on the phone that he can see him going back out w/ me cuz im cool, easy to talk to, fun to be around...and i just wanted him to ask me out rite there but he didnt and i dont know if i should ask him...but i dont want him to say "no" cuz he still likes me but he dont...im confused...n e thing u can give me will be helpful...thanks...oh and please dont leave any stupid responses please...thanx
2007-01-14 17:02:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
okay so we arent going out, but im thinking about it..and what else i mean is that when he was going out w/ her he changed and he is gettin' back 2 himself..and like i dont think i am a "rebound" girl at all..i have dated around but i just feel like none of the guys i've dated seem to be as nice as he is.
2007-01-14 17:19:36 · update #1
you need to move on, if you and he broke up and he really want
to get back with you, he would have made that very clear. it sound
like he not sure of what he want. and he just playing with your
head. as they say time to put up or shut up. and as long as
you stay in the game it play out the same. and then you will
all way be in this siutuation. as for other guys, give your self
time to move, on. but first time to let him go and see where
your head is. then you can see clearly the path that you need
to take.
2007-01-14 17:28:53 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you didn't mention who broke up with whom in the beginning but I'm guessing he broke up with you. So if he did then i wouldn't dare give him another chance. And If he has changed for the worse then do you really wanna get involved in anything with him. I'm guessing yes you still have feelings for him, but you will for a little while anyway. And did you ever think that most likely when his girlfriend broke up with him maybe she had a good reason and that he is just looking for a rebound? You should never date a guy right after he had just recently gotten out of a previous relationship, even if you have dated him before. My best answer for you would be to forget about this guy and move on. Remember the reason why it ended in the first place, and think to yourself, do you really want to get hurt again or in the same position as last time? So Good Luck!
Re-Edit:
Yes, you may not be a rebound girl, but......he may want you because he is on the rebound.
2007-01-15 01:11:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly sounds like he is comming back to you because he is lonely. He needs to handle being on his own and sounds like you need to date other people to. Also don't forget all the bad things he picked up from the other girl you can do better. There is nothing wrong with that moment you ex calls and we all think about running back but you need to know that you have other opptions. He might just be useing you till the next thing comes around. Because if it was you he had been thinking about he would have come back before she broke up with him instead of after. Think about it.
2007-01-15 01:12:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello. I went through something like that, so my advice for you is: go out and meet new people, especially boys. If after a while you still fell the same, go for it. BUT, don't be afraid to accept new people into your life. And don't be afraid, remember that the most important person for you is yourself.
Good luck!
2007-01-15 01:13:06 · answer #4 · answered by azoocart 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds like infatuation , so I think you might sit down and really think through what you want to do , as you said you are young, and there is lots of time and loads of boys out there, I am not telling you to dump him I am trying to get you to set boundaries and deal breakers and tell your young man If he wants you he will respect you for you mature decisions, and best of luck
2007-01-15 01:12:09 · answer #5 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋