Family & Relationships - 14 January 2007

Ok...I've been dating my gf (serious relationship) for over a year now, she's 26...and we're long distance right now. This may sound like high school....but nonetheless...she was in the mall with her mom shopping and a couple of guys were checking her out and following them around the mall the entire day. After shopping she went to starbucks with her mom nearby the mall, and the two guys also followed them there, and finally built up the courage to hit on her. She told me she was flattered by the guys approaching her and knew they wanted something more than just a friendship. What bothered me most was instead of letting them down easy, she gave out her phone number to the guys, never mentioning the fact that she has a bf. Her reasoning to me was "they were polite" and that when they call she wouldn't pursue anything. I'm pretty confused with her judgment and am hurt by this. I'm not sure what to say to her...any help would be much appreciated. Thank you for listening.

2007-01-14 17:00:27 · 26 answers · asked by lacoste5681 1 in Singles & Dating

My wedding is arranged at indoor. I need the idea for the background part. The theme i want is like cowboy style.

2007-01-14 16:59:25 · 6 answers · asked by Messie 1 in Weddings

he might see me as vindictive because he dumped me. should i tell the cops?

2007-01-14 16:59:18 · 9 answers · asked by trace s 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

How many birdesmaids & groomsmen (besides the m.o.h and best man) are typical at a wedding? Does my future sister-in-law HAVE to be one of them? my guy and me both strongly dislike the way his sister treats us and is jealous of us finding true love before her, and if she has to be invited, I want an excuse as to why we cant use her in the party. Also, if we are paying for it alone, is it safe to tell meddling parents to butt out? (nicely of course!)

2007-01-14 16:57:24 · 18 answers · asked by overwhelmed85 3 in Weddings

My husband is a wonderful father, and I never have to wonder if he is out cheating. However, he has no ambition in life. Me, I want to pursue a master degree, and start my own business. He only has a highschool education and only cares about food, sex, and football. I refuse to have another baby with him because I feel insecure about him taking care of us financially? When the time comes for us to talk about our future he shuts downs and goes to sleep. Most of the time I am turned off from him, and have completely lost my sex drive.

2007-01-14 16:57:23 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My husband has ADD and is only now taking meds for it. He spends all his time with his guitars, his band and his computer. We don't do anything together anymore, and I have few friends. My family is nearby, but there's only so much you tell your Mom. I just want to be happy again. Working weekdays and Saturdays 8-5pm, where and when do I do that? I like having guy friends, but I'm not looking for love. How can I make ME happy again?

2007-01-14 16:56:42 · 14 answers · asked by Gypsy 3 in Marriage & Divorce

The man I love is 16 years older than me - we met at work. He has a wife and 2 beautiful daughters (both under 4) - his wife recently kicked him out because of a lot of reasons. He says he doesn't know what he wants. He knows he wants to see his kids all the time and he is an amazing father. He says he hates his wife but at the same time they were together for such a long time and those feelings just don't go away. He thinks about me a lot and he feels comfortable bringing the kids over to see me. The wife does not know I exist (if she did she would take him for everything). I want him to be with me but I understand it is a very hard situation for him at the moment. How do I tell him I love him? I want him to realise that he is lucky to have me in his life. I would do anything for him and I am willing to become a stepmother to his kids. It is really getting me down and I am on antidepressents.

2007-01-14 16:56:32 · 14 answers · asked by compassionate_girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

we were arnd a bunch of people but she didn't talk much the whole night...i talked to an old friend that's a girl and idk what happened, but then at the end when we left and i was taking her home i asked her if she liked this one guy that was there- they used to date and i couldn't figure out why she wasn't talkin the whole night so i assumed it may be b/c of him...when i asked her she's like "we've already talked about this, i only like him as a friend" i let it go from there and ya somehow i can just tell she's so pissed abt bein with me now for some reason...should i just act like i don't care too much and let her come to me? she stayed the night last night and i guess i was kind've hopin she would again tonight...should i just leave her alone and let her work it out or should i interupt. i feel like if i talk to her abt it she'll think i'm a pus

2007-01-14 16:56:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 16:56:26 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am dating this guy for 3 weeks and he's really nice to me. I want to get something for his Birthday but I have no idea what can be the best gift for a guy you are just dating?????Nothing too much or too less :)

2007-01-14 16:55:41 · 17 answers · asked by ELK 1 in Singles & Dating

he says he loaned it to a friend..,,,should i believe him??

2007-01-14 16:55:40 · 19 answers · asked by ya ok....sure 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 16:55:23 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex-bf ask me out should ii say yes or no?? Even though he broke up wit me.....but i still luv him and care for him. I dont kno wat to do...help please

2007-01-14 16:53:37 · 6 answers · asked by ♥ SEXii LADiiE ♥ 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Me and this beautifull angel have two classes together. We often find ourselves staring at each other. So i decided to go up to her and talk to her. We def clicked! Everything was great we watched movies together. And afterwards went out to dinner. We talked about everything. We laughed and flurted so much. After dinner we went back to her dorm and ended the night with the usual i had fun line. She told me to call her tomorrow. So i did.No answer. I texted her.No reply. I waited till the next day called her.No answer. Its been a couple days since ive talked to her. Why isn't she answering any of my phone calls. Is she not interested? Please help im going crazy!! I Really really like this girl!

2007-01-14 16:52:57 · 12 answers · asked by dishizal 1 in Singles & Dating

i met a guy on msn, and have been talking for a few months now. We are going out on our first date, but i already know a lot about him as we chat every night. I feel like we are going to have an akward silence between us when we meet.What should i do/ talk about?

2007-01-14 16:52:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 16:49:11 · 6 answers · asked by 94honda_blue 1 in Marriage & Divorce

FIRST OFF: this is not some middle school question - we're in our 20's. ANYWAY, my guy friend and i have been good good friends for about 3 years now - we've both grown up alot, espcially me. These past 2 months i've grown to be a very mature, controlled, and CONFIDENT woman and have been more in tune with myself (sensually) and have gotten a "i don't give a---" attitude. About a week ago when we were on the phone, i was "mean" to him (playfully) - being a "firecracker" and just being typical me - playful and some mind games and good combacks and let's just say he was "shocked". (before this convo we haven't spoken in 3 weeks). The whole time he was in dismay to what had happened to me and was "impressed". Now, we find ourselves being like little teenagers...it's more akward when we see each other, more "games", he gets this goofy looking smile on his face - soo what's goin through his head? Has he always liked me but my "attitude change" was just icing on the cake?

2007-01-14 16:48:49 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

personally i try not 2 talk bout videogames around a girl...

2007-01-14 16:48:44 · 35 answers · asked by Armen 3 in Singles & Dating

I have a very stable boyfriend, he works 2 jobs plus his band. But he always makes time for me, I even have the key to his house. I really thought I loved him until he told me because of his past(childhood) he has a hard heart. That he never has feelings like everyone else.

So basically I feel like a dead end with him..he says he cares about me but thats it. But yet he says he will do anything to keep me.

My secret love calls in the middle of the night every now and then, begging me to see him. He says he would of took care of me. That he will ram his self into a tree with his car if he cant ever be with me. When we see eachother its instant passion..I have to avoid him so I wont do anything to get into trouble. But I am scared to admit I want to be with him because the passion seems to unrealistic..like a dream.

2007-01-14 16:48:14 · 12 answers · asked by Navulam 3 in Singles & Dating

A guy that i like, keeps staring at me. When he looks at me, i smile and then look away. Am i playing hard to get?

2007-01-14 16:47:49 · 5 answers · asked by littlelorenbree 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been dating my bf for over a year and a half now and we have had the best 20 months anyone can have, we have done eveything together i mean everything we both were virgins when we started dating, shoot i was my bf first kiss, im 18 and he is 19 people say we dont know what love is but i think we do, i think love is when all you think about is that person, love is when you see them for the first time in like a week the smile you both get on your face is undecribleable, i feel love is when you have been through so much, love is when you still get butterflies in your stomach, love is when you see that person for the first time ever and know he is the one your going to spend the rest of your life together, love is when you can sit on the phone for hours talking about having a family together love is what i have but am i too young to really know?

2007-01-14 16:47:14 · 37 answers · asked by beinginlove 1 in Singles & Dating

we send her child support which she doesnt use 4 the kids, we still have 2 buy them all their school clothes and everything else they need or she WILL NOT GET IT 4 them. we live 3 hours apart, n in the last year she would not even meet us half way 2 pick them up, if we ask her 2 she calls 20 times in a row complaining bout it...no joke my finaces daughter moved in wit us 1 month ago cuz her mom threw her out so we got a lawyer, enrolled her n school @ all that she was wanting 2 move back there w/ her mom, her mom wouldnt let her until she got a letter saying child support was going down by $80 a week..now she is letting her come back home @ we are stuck w/ the lawyer fees....cuz she will not pay part of them...even though she threw her out. And she will NOT even come @ get her daughters things..after we hauled them here in about 6 trips cuz we have a small car.....@ the ex-wife has a truck n could do it in 1 trip..n has the kids to where they wont talk to their dad. what do u do????

2007-01-14 16:46:56 · 10 answers · asked by Ashley R 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hey, I wrote this song for my gf, but I know know if thats doing to much. Its called Raquel Mi Amor, if you want to listen to it, you can find it at:
http://www.myspace.com/decayofsanity

2007-01-14 16:46:40 · 7 answers · asked by Metalheadtildead 1 in Singles & Dating

My theme is candy and sweets! My colors are champagne and blush (pink wine color). I want a table of all sweets and candy ( we already have a chocolate fountain) that are around the same color scheme as my colors. I want to put all the candy's in big glass bowls and vases and be like a big classy sweet factory. The only candy I found so far is ivory jordan almonds and blush rock candy sticks. Any candy suggestions that match this theme?

2007-01-14 16:45:55 · 11 answers · asked by mellygirl 2 in Weddings

2007-01-14 16:45:55 · 13 answers · asked by arnold c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i'm in the 7th grade, 13 yrs old
love is a weird thing at this time
the guy i like isnt the type to show emotions much and not many ppl like him but i am and i do like him. i find that he completes me (total opposite thing) and he already knows i like him
he's shown me times where he really cared about me instead of teasing me like as usual
the same thing happened lest year. i want to get over him but a little something inside me says that theres hope
all those times where he acted out of character and had been sensitive and caring.....makes me keep hope. but he knows i like him and told me that he wasnt ready for a girlfriend yet BUT didnt say if he liked me or not
i've felt so depressed lately.....i wake up in the middle of the night and think of him.....i see him everywhere...i cant forget him
what could i do?

2007-01-14 16:45:40 · 7 answers · asked by Erin Nicole 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

some guy called and asked me if i wanted to hang out later on. and i said ill call him after work..when i called him he said his friends were over and he would call me later on. wtf

2007-01-14 16:43:46 · 10 answers · asked by tragickingdom 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend told the guy i like, i liked him. He said k and that's all. Do u think if it was me he would've said more than "K"???

2007-01-14 16:43:34 · 7 answers · asked by Blah-Blah590 4 in Singles & Dating

one of your ex's? i have a few and it's horrible because i love the songs but at the same time i hate them because they remind me of some of my ex-boyfriends. e.g the song by Ronan keating "rollercoaster" that song reminds me of my boyfriend from years back because it was playing at a party we were at and is where we hooked up, he cheated on me by sleeping with some chick who i hated already....anyways, is there a song that reminds you of any of your ex's? i hope not for your sake....

2007-01-14 16:42:35 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-14 16:41:47 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating