im i too young to know what LOVE is?

Question

ive been dating my bf for over a year and a half now and we have had the best 20 months anyone can have, we have done eveything together i mean everything we both were virgins when we started dating, shoot i was my bf first kiss, im 18 and he is 19 people say we dont know what love is but i think we do, i think love is when all you think about is that person, love is when you see them for the first time in like a week the smile you both get on your face is undecribleable, i feel love is when you have been through so much, love is when you still get butterflies in your stomach, love is when you see that person for the first time ever and know he is the one your going to spend the rest of your life together, love is when you can sit on the phone for hours talking about having a family together love is what i have but am i too young to really know?

the both of us have been through so much already in our lives together, such as skin difference, we have been called all types of things being that we are dating out of our race, we have been going through college issues, he went two hours away and i went one were both in college and plan on getting married after two years of college and soon moving intogether, and here is another thing, ive been sick for over 5 months now and through all of it he has been there for me taking off school when im in the hospital to be there by my bed side he is always calling me to make sure im alright, the best was when we seen eachother over the winter break for the first time in two months and the look on our faces were PERFECT

Answer 1

Falling in love is something that can happen immediately, or something that can take time. It is something that takes your breathe away, you feel like a different person. It is when you are with a person that makes you feel this undescribable way, and when you are away from that person you feel depressed and nothing else matters because all you do and all you want is that person. Some people fall in love before others. You know if you're in love. You're not young, you're an adult and you have been with your boyfriend long enough to tell if he's the right one for you. If you love him and have all the butterflies in your stomach and you know you would do anything for him and would marry him tomorrow, regardless of what anyone thought than you must love him. You don't marry someone you don't care about or love. Don't rush into marriage or anything but the answer to your question is... no, you're not too young to feel what love is truly like. I believe you are in love and are experiencing it right this moment. Good luck to you!

P.s. I got married when I was 18 years old. I have known my husband since middle school but we didn't get together until 4 years ago and we have been married for over two and he is the best thing that ever happened to me. We might have gotten married young but we didn't let others control us and put us down. We knew that we were in love and we proved it to the world by taking our hands in marriage.

Answer 2

I would GET BACK ON THE DEPO and forget about having a baby for the next ten years. OMG, you have a fiance? Where the hell is your mother? You have no business being engaged while you're still a child yourself. I'd have your "fiance" thrown in jail for statutory rape, if you were my kid. OMG, and he's having unprotected sex with you? Aarrggh! So many swear words! You make it sound as if it's this lovely gift, but it's just a jackass getting his rocks off with a young girl because he can. Don't fool yourself. If he's older than you, he's playing you. If he's your age, he's playing you - and he's too young to be engaged, or to be having unprotected sex with anyone. Okay, so here's my suggestion, 'cause I know you're not gonna take any of the advice that I'd love to see you follow. Get a pre-nup/pre-natal agreement. Ask him to sign a legally binding document that says he will stay with you forever, and consistently support his child in a manner which is appropriate from a parent. When he hesitates, you'll know I'm telling the truth.

Answer 3

you are way too young. You are going to be 25 - 27 and wondering about all the things you missed out on because you settled for the first guy you thought you were in love with. Even worse, he's gonna want to know what other women are like at some point. It's way too early to start thinking or talking about things like kids and spending the rest of your life together. You will just end up in divorce or worse - misery. Enjoy the relationship - stay on the pill or practice safe sex and see where it takes you in a few years. You have nothing to lose - if you are in true love now you will be in ten years from now as well.

Good luck

Answer 4

Please people that r in there 50's don't really know what love is. But there's no real way to explain love because it different for EVERYONE. But like they say u will be the first to knowif ur in love. I guess so clues r u always wanna be around that person, u think about them all da time,u love the way they smell, if u light up when they walk in a room, if after a long time of being with them u still get butterflies in ur stomach when u hear there voice thatz jus a few things but theres a whole lot more. U know what it is u put most of them down in ur question ur jus at the beginning jus hold on for the ride lol

Answer 5

You can feel love and "be in love" at almost any age but knowing "what it is" is a totally different thing. People grow and change as they go through life. So to say that you want to be/stay with a particular person for the rest of your life is like saying you know what the surface of the moon feels like. Be with each other and enjoy each others company but don't even start thinking of "eternity" just yet. Take it one day at a time. If you're still together when you both take your last breath, then it's truly LOVE

Answer 6

At your age, it is difficult for someone else to tell you if you are in love. I mean if you were 13, 14, 15 then I would say wait it out. And I am not a young person I am 33 years old. So this is coming from someone who has had quite a few life experiences. I don't recommend that you run off and get married tomorrow. If it is love then it will last and if not then it won't. So my advice is Go to College live life a little meet new people. Have new experiences. Live life. After all you only have one life to live. Now I know you think that I just sound like your parents. But let me tell you my story. At age 18 right out of high school I married who I thought to be my soulmate. Like you we sent hours on the phone every night talking about our 3 kids, what we name them and how we would love them and each other forever. He was wonderful. He bought me great gifts, was an attentive lover, and when I saw him I felt weak in the knees. I thought my whole life revolved around him. 11 month after we got married I found our I was 3 months pregnant. I was so excited to have a family to love forever. Well, my happiness ended there. While pregnant he cheated on my repeatedly because he said my FAT body did arouse him anymore, I just couldn't believe that this was the same man that I had loved since I was 16. But I thought no he just is this was because I am pregnant. I couldn't give up our love. After all it was my fault for being fat. Well for a year after my daughter was born he had 3 more affairs. That is when I left. I couldn't take it anymore. For years I raised her with my families help. I have never received a child support check and he is still running thru women like Kleenex. And our child see's her daddy on her birthday and christmas. He is sorry. But thank God I met someone when I was 29 who showed me what true love is. We have a daughter together and he wants to adopt my oldest child. He is giving and unselfish. Now I know your saying to yourself this women's life is nothing like mine. My man would never do that to me. But how do you know for sure? I am not saying breakup with your guy, I am just saying take things slowly and finish you education. Because if you don't do it now, well you may never. I am just going to college and I am 33. I spent the years 20-33 working full time to support a family. Just think about it.

Answer 7

Wow this sounds like a fairy tail. I don't think there's a age for LOVE. I fell in love for the first time when I was 17 and of course there's heart breaks and everything that comes with it but you know every relationship hurts more and then you give yourself a little more but that's just something women do and we can't help it. If I were you I would live the moment and don't regret anything because when your older you going to be happy that at least you had the opportunity to do it.

Best of wishes and Luck.

Betty =]

Answer 8

I don't think you can be to young or old to know about love. I have been with the same guy for 6years and I still get butterflies. If you wan't to define your relationship with love you can but your age will test that love you have. Just enjoy what you have you have a good relationship and it is love it will stay around if it is not it wont, but remember he was your friend first and you don't want to lose that first and formost. Don't worry about it just be happy being with him!!!!!! Leave everyone else out your old enough to make your own choice about love, Love is feeling good about the relationship trust, and how he makes you feel. If you feel bad in any way leave it now.

Answer 9

I don't think you are too young to know what love it. I have been with the same guy for almost 13 years now ( since we were 16). People can feel love at all ages, they just need to be in the right place before moving to the next level. There's no need to rush, if you love each other now and it is meant to be, you will love each other forever! Good Luck!

Answer 10

first, let me tell u there is a huge possibility that u are in love. my mother fell in love with my dad when she was 16 and now at the age of 55, they are going strong...second, it may be that u haven't experienced anything else so u don't knw if there is anything better but if u don't want anything better give it some time u might feel like u are in love n then a year later u want to break up..take it from someone that went out for her boyfriend or 3 years and he too was my first kiss and everthing...but good things are hard to find but even harder to keep...ur relationship is young if u feel like u are in love then go with it but be careful...its hard to tell what the real thing is. n no ur not too young