i fell for a girl for a really long time, i was a complete angel to her for all the years i've known her. but for some reason she didn't want me, a relationship didnt interest her. i wonder sometimes why. now, 8 years later giving up chasing her, i barely realize some of my mistakes, well for one i came off to strong, almost to the point where i could've looked like i was pathetically in love. but i couldn't help it, that's just the way i am. i guess there's such a thing as "too sweet", so i ask you girls, what do you really want in a guy? and seriously, not the cliche "oh i want a sensitive, caring, lovy-dovy"...blah blah..because it's not true, it can't be true, i tried it.
2007-01-14 17:24:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A straight forward man. He needs to be on the same mental page as I am. I don't want someone to shower me with gifts, I am not the type who likes allot of attention, in fact I hate it. I don't mind the one on one conversation. I like to be free to do what I want, of course with him knowing so there are no secrets at all. But also feel free to hang with him and his friends whenever, and he my friends and me. I want someone who likes to sit at home every once in a while, but when it's time to leave the house it better be exciting, but not so much that it makes us broke. He may as well not try and tell me what to do, because I'm gonna do it anyway. When I give him advice, he should listen, because I am usally right, although I don't think of myself as a know it all.
I've just been through and learned allot in life. He should not have a "you must earn my respect" complex with everyone, because what makes him think he needs my resect? He should not be pushy. He should be able to make sound decisions when asked, and not say "I don't know" to most of the things I ask. He needs to also know how to stand his ground, and hold his own. To me that shows stability. He should be able to protect me when it is needed, not everytime I walk out the door of his house. He should also understand that if he throws a childish fit while I'm droiving and demands to be let out I will let him out and leave him on the side of the raod,know matter where we are. He shouldn't act immature around me at all, I can't tollerate it. Dont ever call me a B I C T H to my face or other wise. Revenge is a b*tch as well, and I'm good at it. He better not dress nice for a little while then start slacking in the wardrobe department. He better not expect me to wash his clothes, make his bed, do man jobs around his house. I am not a maid.
I could keep going on and on, but that is pretty much the jist of it.
2007-01-14 17:49:25 · answer #1 · answered by liquidblue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I want a guy who thinks your beautiful instead of hot.A guy who's a bad boy. But at the same time can be sensitive.the sensitive act probably didn't work for you because you didn't get the timing right. You can't be sensitive all the time then it won't be entertaining and you won't have a chase.I want a guy who will stick up for me and is willing to fight for me any given day.And don't tell me that advice isn't good because, there's this boy in my class and he has really bad acne problems but i still love him so much.
2007-01-16 21:26:09 · answer #2 · answered by Jenny 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is simple:
1 Dangerous/Risky eg. Brad Pitt
2 Funny/Charismatic eg. Will Smith
3 Strong and Confident eg. David Beckham
5 Truthful eg. Donald Trump
What it all boils down to? We want an all-around guy who can teach us something we don't know and at the same time come off as non-chalant and wealthy as possible.
2007-01-15 01:32:40 · answer #3 · answered by recordexec 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone who's sweet, but still gives you a chase. We want to be important, but not absolutely everything to a guy. You need to have your own life too, so we don't feel like we have to plan everything with you, so we can still have our friends and our hobbies.
2007-01-15 01:31:34 · answer #4 · answered by simply.beautiful 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If thats the way you are then thats the way you are and at some point you'll find the girl that appreciates that.
Personally, however, I go for the quiet mischeivious guys.
2007-01-15 01:36:16 · answer #5 · answered by daydreambelievr03 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
we want guys that are caring enough to realize when we are upset, but we also want guys that are strong and sexy. dont come on too strong not become you'll look pathetically in love, but because it scares us.
2007-01-15 01:29:56 · answer #6 · answered by Ellie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone who will act stupid with me, someone who is funny, and fun to be around, someone that i have a lot in common with, and can say anything to, someone that i can trust, and who trusts me, hope u find some1....good luck!
2007-01-15 01:31:53 · answer #7 · answered by courtney 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
someone who is active, sensitive, fun loving, and smart.
2007-01-15 01:36:53 · answer #8 · answered by Mack Bolan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋