He is always correcting me and thinks his ways are always right...but yet my daughter knows what a daquairi and beer look like and I never drink around her..and she knows how to "back dat *** up"..haha and I never taught her that!!..any advice??
2007-01-14 17:34:18 · 16 answers · asked by confused69 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
just ***** slap your baby daddy and tell him to **** off.
2007-01-14 17:36:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
He can say whatever he wants to (ignore him )you as long as he does not say it to in front of the child.
Praise your child when she uses polite or proper speech. Or uses language that shows how smart she is becoming. Do not over react to the other stuff. Just tell her oh you have so many other good words why don't you use them. We are not going to use those words in this house.
When she is not around ask him to refrain from using profane or derogatory slang in front of her without getting into a deep discussion of parenting skills. As for the daiquiri, adults drink unless he is a drunk or not able to be a responsible drinker there is not a problem with that. Or in your having chosen not to drink.
2007-01-14 17:46:53 · answer #2 · answered by CAE 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Whats wrong with knowing all those things? I think that the two of you should divide the responsibility up a little, like one take care of the nutritional/health/mental nurturing part, the other take care of the academics/sports/other activities part. Or you could try some other division methods.
2007-01-14 17:38:02 · answer #3 · answered by The Answerer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have sole custody? Is he paying child support? Are you still involved in a realtionship with him? There may be many reasons that do not directly relate to your child rather, a way for him to try to influence her that YOU are the reason(s) for the current situation.
Talk to him and, if he refuses to change this behavior, then inform him that unsupervised visitation will be a thing of the past...
2007-01-14 17:49:49 · answer #4 · answered by Patrick L 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Big deal. You should talk to him about how you disagree on parenting techniques and that's just how it is and either work together to agree or agree to disagree and stop bickering at eachother. If your kid watches any tv that isn't the kiddy channels, she's going to learn a lot of things niether you or the father teach her. Infact, it might be best she learn it from dad. Hahaha. Ah well.
2007-01-14 17:40:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell him that you know he wants what is best for the baby. Reinforce how much you believe he loves his child. Then ask him how he thinks those things will affect the baby. If you approach him aggressively, you will lose the battle.
2007-01-14 17:39:36 · answer #6 · answered by g g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell him you have two homes and two parenting techniques. You each have the right to raise your child as you like and long as she is not in danger or being exposed to things that could harm her no one has the right to say anything.
2007-01-14 17:40:06 · answer #7 · answered by J&A 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if he is not living with you and has visitation rights get them changed to chaperoned visitation as he is having a bad influence on her, possibly just to make life miserable for you
2007-01-14 17:38:15 · answer #8 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he has a problem jst tell him to *** up and do it himself if he dont like, plus all parents have diffrent ways
2007-01-14 17:37:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just went threw this with my husband and I was told that you have to talk about correcting before you correct....if you correct him in front of her or if he corrects you then nothing is going to work....shes going to turn you guys against each other....thats what my kids would do to us....you need to talk to him and tell him how you feel....if hes a negitive influence then maybe you need to back his s*** up into a corner and tell him how its gonna be....
2007-01-14 17:42:14 · answer #10 · answered by lilmiss_1421 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Tell your husband, Ow Waite you did not say you are married to your babies father, I think I see the problem!Well you made your choices.
2007-01-14 17:45:31 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 2⤋