unwanted flirting, jealousy,dating,trust,boyriend,boyfriends
2007-01-14 17:28:22 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I know how you feel. I felt like one of my closest friends, who I am still friends with almost 10 years later, well I thought she was getting too close to this guy I was dating and that I was very much in love with. I would just be real with her and explained how you feel and why. Just tell her you feel like she flirting with your man and it makes you uncomfortable and you would appreciate it if she would be "less friendly". Also tell him how you feel and that you addressed the issue with her and now he needs to act accordingly also.
2007-01-14 17:46:49 · answer #1 · answered by DymeTyme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i trust very very few females. and if it seems like they're gettin too close probably are! i'm 27 years old and still finding that a problem and i thought it was all over once i left high school or became an adult. nope sure didn't stop. my bf and i trust each other with everything and we dont' care if we go out with out each other. in fact it's good to have time with our friends. one night however he went somewhere and ran into a friend of mine and she tried to get him to take her home and kept bringin me up sayin i didn't have to know etc. he (being the wonderful man he is) told her no thanks and walked away he and his friend he went with left and he came to my house. the sad thing is she used to babysit my kids and i gave her clothes when she had a baby. she saw me out at another time and tried to talk to me i totally blew her off.
2007-01-14 17:37:00 · answer #2 · answered by butter_cream1981 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like that is a good gut feeling that you have.tell her that a friend you talked to on line ask you what you would do in this situation( dont tell her you are talking about yourself) then tell her how you feel about it and that you you know a real friend wouldnt do that or they would no longer be your friend.Good Luck and do it before it is to late.By the way how does ur bf act when she does this?
2007-01-14 17:35:00 · answer #3 · answered by kitkat19582002 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would mention it both, to your friend and to your bf in separate conversations in a calm unaccusing manner. If your friend is truly a friend she will understand. And if she is aware that you feel this way, she will curb her flirtatious behavior. If she doesn't limit the time you and your bf spend around her. Mentioning it to your bf will give him the opportunity to deny her advances knowing that it bothers you. But be careful, you don't want to come across as too jealous, that can get ugly.
2007-01-14 17:34:56 · answer #4 · answered by MsCantBeWrong 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer to the customer checklist being too enormous is you do no longer ask a ton of single human beings. ideal etiquette is to properly known that a marriage is the starting to be to be a member of of a guy and female in holy matrimony. As such, it is going to no longer stress couples, even relationship couples, aside. You ask your closest buddies and kin with the thought they are going to deliver a date. That way they are able to have fun the excitement with you and not experience undesirable that they left their boy chum or female chum abode on my own. that's an exceedingly cheesy project. and it will say plenty approximately your boy chum and your relationship. you reside jointly. Why no longer married? he's getting his cake and ingesting it too. And now he needs greater cake. He desires to circulate to the marriage whether he has to circulate away you at the back of. and you're comfortable with this? seems to me you're being taken great thing approximately. Say not greater to absolutely everyone. in the experience that your boyfriend is going without you, while he comes abode you ought to be packed up and out of the abode. His relationship together with his pals is greater substantial than his relationship with you. the reality that his chum could invite him and not you shows that even his chum is conscious the actual score.
2016-12-12 11:41:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just keep my eyes open .If any man gets to close for comfort, dump him, it all depends on his reaction. If the friend is a flirt cut contact when you are with your man. Bottom line when I am with my man, I am not hanginfg out with the girls unless they have a date too!
2007-01-14 17:35:05 · answer #6 · answered by nene 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, if you are really good friends you should be able to talk to her about this. Just explain how you feel, she may not even know she's doing it. Then, you should talk to you boyfriend, it's quite possible he may be initiating the flirting.
It all really comes down to how good of friends you are with your friend and your boyfriend. If you are close to both of them, you should be able to talk to them and let them know that you don't like the way it looks. And if they are your friend, they'll understand and respect your wishes!
2007-01-14 17:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by Th Snow 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you would need to exclude her for a while and hope she gets the message. If she's really after him, she'll contact him on her own since she won't be able to get to him through you anymore.
2007-01-14 17:32:10 · answer #8 · answered by Kacky 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her to back the f uc k off of him..and also he should be the one to let her know she is getting to close to him
2007-01-14 17:31:26 · answer #9 · answered by kristina43 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her you trust her.She'll know what you mean.
2007-01-14 17:34:08 · answer #10 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋