Um.....Do you remember my question from earlier today about that guy from NY who's 4 years younger than me & couldn't give me a definate date on when he could come visit me...kept changing the months, went from Feb, to May to June to now this........
Were you ever dating someone that you thought was 'the one' and wonderful and all.......and one day out of nowhere, they just break up with you and you never ever hear from them again???
He broke up w/ me online at like 9:30. He said "We have to break up. Don't text me cuz it costs money and I won't answer." WHAT THE HELL??? I didn't do a thing wrong!!! We were having a nice chat on AIM like 30 mins before this!
2007-01-14 18:20:34 · 13 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
the reason he did that is because i don't call him.
whatcha think????
2007-01-16 01:56:43 · update #1
What can you do???Move on....
2007-01-14 18:38:26 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
thats awful! im sorry, maybe this person wasn't serious about the relationship. That is so random and odd though. Perhaps just for some closure, IM him agian or email him and say, i understand that you dont want to be apart of me anymore and i know there is nothing i can do for you to change your mind. I just want you to answer this and then i'll leave you alone forever. I just want to know why you decided to end everything so un expectedly." so something like that. That will give you closure. I hope you ok. I always imagined having a long distance relationship and one day the person just dissapears, stops calling, stops comming online and you can't do a thing about it because you live far away so you just kinda move on without knowing what happend. just a thought. but yeah i definately think you should try to ask the guy and then leave him alone. make sure you don't sound like your all sad. be strong and confident like you dont need him. g. luck.
2007-01-14 18:30:32 · answer #2 · answered by CiNdiEe 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-08 00:33:44 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No matter how you drive your self nutz you may never know what happen. Be some what glad that it did happen now instead of a few years down the road.
what kind of guy is he for doing what he did the way he did.? Do you really want to make yourself crazy over him.? No you dont.
Get some chocolet and some wine and a really sappy movie and call your girl friend and have a good nice cry and then find a real man.
2007-01-14 18:28:59 · answer #4 · answered by LadyCatherine 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
though i don't know much about the first part of this but judging how you just put this on here, i'd say he has something(one) hiding and he either got caught or whatever. again this is how im seeing this how im seeing this. and also it also sounds like he could be a little controling as well. demaning you not to text. he could've gone about that a little better. but remember there are always others out there. i agree that this isn't your fault therefore i would say just pick up the pieces and move on and he will be the one to realize what he's loosing. he won't know what he's missing untill it's gone. ya know?
and the more you beat yourself up over this the more your gonna make yourself hurt(emotionally) and in that case your letting him win. if you do that, then your letting him win. and you don't wan thatt
2007-01-14 18:31:27 · answer #5 · answered by Pichu_02 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, something DID happen to me just like that in fact and it hurt pretty bad. I was dating a girl that I was hoping would go out with me, and she did, and we started dating and eating lunch together and everything. It was a very nice relationship and I really like her. Then one day at dinner, she tells me 'I don't want this anymore. I don't want to have to be there each and every time you call or text me. I'm just not ready for this.' I was like...shocked! I thought things were good and then this!
So I drove her home and that was pretty much it. I was pretty broken up over it but not for long. But I had to realize that maybe it wasn't me. Maybe she WASN'T ready for this and didn't know how to deal with it and just wanted out. Maybe that's what this guy was doing. Maybe that's why he responded so drastically. I know it's crazy but some people don't know how to communicate what they're feeling very good.
Try to accept what happened and give it time okay. I know it's hard believe me. Hope things smooth out for you. =)
2007-01-14 18:39:44 · answer #6 · answered by Sir Graham 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What a crud. That was such a rude way to break up with you. So it was long distance relationship right? He must have met someone else, but he should have told you the truth even though that would have hurt too. No break up is ever easy. I hope knowing what a crud he is makes it a little easier for you!
2007-01-14 18:30:24 · answer #7 · answered by mj_indigo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was with my ex for like 2 yrs, we were plannin our future together, were gonna get married and have kids in a few years, then he goes home one night to his parents, comes back the next day and dumps me..just like that. Im still not over it now and have even contemplated ending it all. it sounds like maybe he was wantin out for a while thats why the dates kept changin but he couldnt do it, then just decided to do it.
2007-01-14 18:27:27 · answer #8 · answered by Onie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try finding someone closer to your own age, if not slightly older. I know that age doesn't matter, but MEN won't run away from their problems like the boys do...
2007-01-14 18:24:51 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Either he is scared of what can become or he has a gf or wife. And started to feel guilty.
2007-01-14 18:25:26 · answer #10 · answered by Cher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was being fake the whole time guys are jerks.....dont get all sad keep your head up and a true MAN....that luves you for who you are will come along and sweep you off your feet...good luck
2007-01-14 18:26:58 · answer #11 · answered by tiffany b 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋