How long have you been dating? It may be too soon for him.
Have you ever had sex with him?
Ignore the dump him comments. They are not thinking of this possibility.
ALL men have crushes on celebrities. It's normal. It does NOT mean he will never have sex with you!
2007-01-14 18:01:28
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answered by Tara662 7
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Maybe he really doesn't attach emotions to sex. Maybe sex is just a physical act and it means nothing to him. It's not supposed to be that way. For a one night stand that's great. Neither party cared about it, but in a relationship it should be an expression of love and trust, especially your first time. You are letting him tell you what it should mean to you. It's your choice if you let him talk you into his belief. The problem is that even though you want to believe him (because he's your boyfriend, you love him, and surely he wouldn't steer you wrong) you don't. If you did you wouldn't be here. Here is something to think about. It might even help you make up your mind about giving your virginity to him. When you think about having sex for the first time how do you picture it? Do you imagine that he will be looking at you, and loving you and feel special because he is your first? Do you picture him saying sweet things to you? Does it make you smile when you think of how he will look at you while you have sex? Does it seem realistic that he would be gentle, loving, and showing you how much you mean to him? That's not going to happen with him. He doesn't think sex should include those things. He won't ever feel that way about sex. This is your choice. I just want you to think about it all the way through. I hope that whatever choice you make is the right one for you. I wish you al the best.
2016-05-24 04:08:50
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answered by ? 4
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If you believe that then I've got a bridge to sell you....
Move on and don't waste your time on him. It will just damage your self esteem. Just because he's not interested doesn't mean there's anything wrong with you. Relationships are like cars--if one quits working, there's always a better one out there. Not every relationship is going to work out.
2007-01-14 18:07:20
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answered by Carman 3
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Its nothing personal
he just thinks the celebrity is hott
not that he wants to sleep with her.
just because he doenst wanna have sex with
you doesnt mean nothing.
and actually you are quite lucky
that he isnt bugging you to have sex with
you because other females are
struggling on whether to have sex or not to have sex
be happy dont let it be an issue!
enjoy this time because
these type of guys arent many...
2007-01-14 18:00:43
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answered by joo 2
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Now, if he was a good guy and wanted to wait until after marriage. GREAT!!! But he sounds like he's hiding something. Best to move on. n
2007-01-14 18:03:02
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answered by Nikki 7
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Hmmm beginning of problems.. You can spend some time talking to him about watever **** he has been saying.. or just simply drop him and save yourself a headache. :)
2007-01-14 18:01:16
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answered by Anonymous
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He is bull shetting! You need to set him straight! Tell him that he needs to put out or he is going to have to put up with you b*tching about that certain celebrity. Tired punks.
2007-01-14 18:01:34
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answered by recordexec 2
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Boot him out the door
2007-01-14 18:00:20
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answered by Ronnix1960 2
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He's either gay or trying to get you to make yourself more attractive to him, ie, lose weight, pretty yourself up a bit, maybe run a brush through your hair.
2007-01-14 18:03:06
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answered by goodtimefriend 3
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Wow. well either he is gay or simply not into you either way I will recommend you to MOVE ON and DROP HIM!!!
2007-01-14 18:00:34
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answered by jayden 4
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