Ok I really like this girl, But I am to shy to ask her out. I am afraid that she will say no and tell everyone that I asked her out. And that I will be made fun of. Any suggestions? Please
2007-01-14 18:03:16 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I hate to have to be the one to break this harsh reality to you because I know everyone here feels like they have to say encouraging things like "Just go for it, champ!! She'll totally like you because you did!!!" The sad truth of the matter is, your fears are completely warranted and chances are very strong that a girl around your age will say no, make fun of you, tell everyone you know about it and completely embarrass you because that is what girls your age do. That's just life. If you want to take that chance just to practice handling rejection and embarassment then go for it, but I would recommend waiting until you and the girls you are around are older and more mature before you start asking anyone out.
2007-01-14 18:15:36 · answer #1 · answered by T B 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Go for it, but don't come on too strong. Maybe instead of just plain out asking her out, ask if she'd like to hang out sometime, go see a movie or something. And do this a couple of times and see if you really do like her as much as you think. Then, admit that you feel for her as more than a friend and odds are she might have the same feelings back. If you guys are already friends and hang out a lot, then you can just skip the part about hanging out and just talk to her and confess that you have feelings for her.
And don't worry about her telling everybody and you being fun of. Most girls wouldn't do that, and those who would are not very nice and don't deserve your humility. So if she does that then it's her who should be embarassed. But more than likely, she won't.
2007-01-14 18:07:58 · answer #2 · answered by Emiliza 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
13... wow! You're entering an entirely new phase of your life. Be casual and ask her to go and see a movie with you. Don't try anything silly. Develop this into a friendship as you are way too young for relationships. You have plenty of time for that! Good Luck and KEEP IT CLEAN!
2007-01-14 18:20:40 · answer #3 · answered by Bite Me 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Son, if your too afraid to ask a girl out you are too young to GO out. Just suck it up and do it ! If she says no SO WHAT? Ask her again later. You may as well get used to being rejected on occasion it's gonna happen the rest of your life. It does to EVERYONE male, female, or elephant. A wise man once said "Faint heart never won fair lady" So true.....Go for it my boy, Go for it. As for others knowing you asked? To heck with them! If they tease you just LAUGH at them. The girls will like you all the more and the boys will be jealous you aren't afraid. Trust me on this. I too was 13 yr old boy once 40 yrs ago. My father gave me this advice and he was right, I am too.
2007-01-14 18:11:37 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
hey buddie, let me tell you one great piece of advice that i wish i had known as a kid. Girls are as scared and as interested in you as you are of them. Ya the only thing that is bad is that girls do talk to each other more then us guys, but they are in the same when it comes to dating and the such. So what have you got to loose, live life a lil dangerous and ask her to go with you to the movie or to a dance or somthin, hey i just left that age not to long ago, (18 here), Have fun and enjoy ur life and the best of luck.
Phil
2007-01-14 18:08:00 · answer #5 · answered by laxgod55 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're not going to get far in life worrying about what others think.
At the same time, you're only 13. Not having a serious relationship right now is perfectly normal. So don't stress over whether she says Yes or No. Either way, you should make it more of a friendship until you get older and know what the hell you're doing.
Good luck my young padawan..!
2007-01-14 18:06:19 · answer #6 · answered by SirCharles 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ask her, you may be surprised that she has been waiting for you to ask her out. Start out by being really nice to her and ask her to come over to your house and help you with some home work that you are having problems with or offer her some help with her homework, then take it from there. Good luck kid and God bless you.
2007-01-14 18:13:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her out. You only live once and who cares what other people think. GO for it. If this girl says no than move on to the next there are plenty of girls. Have fun.
2007-01-14 18:08:14 · answer #8 · answered by boo_boobunny 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Try to make friends with her first (if you're not already). Just pay alot of attention to her and she'll get the hint that you like her. See if she sticks around or backs off. Tell one of her friends that you think she's cute. See what happens... Don't just come out of nowhere and ask her out... good luck!
2007-01-14 18:12:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I really feel for you. This is probably the hardest thing you'll do in your entire life, but you really only have two options, ask her out or don't. If you don't, there is a very slim chance something will work out, but I doubt it. If you ask her, your chances are much better. she may say no, but I'm sure it won't be as bad as your thinking. my advice is to go for it. It will be hard, but you'll regret it if you don't.
2007-01-14 18:08:08 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋