IF I BRING UP THE SUBJECT SHE TELLS ME TO GET OVER IT. THEN I GET YELLED AT. SHE WONT ADMIT SHE DID WRONG, PLEASE HELP?
2007-01-14 17:56:45 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Second to what? your kids
2007-01-14 17:59:00 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Brown 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes I dont' respect my husband the way I should. I think it is because when I got married I didn't understand what the vows truly meant and the responsibility that comes with it. Try doing the dishes and giving more hugs. When I'm the bitchiest that is when i need a hug the most.
2007-01-15 02:06:00 · answer #2 · answered by Kim D 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Do I what I do. Do it back to her. When she brings it up tell her that you didn't think she minds because she does to you all the time. It puts in perspective for the other person to get a taste of their own wrong doing. But be careful only do it at the right time don't be jerk about it.
2007-01-15 02:02:44 · answer #3 · answered by lizarddog01 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Putting you second to who or what?
If its kids, get over yourself unless you want to take care of them exclusively to allow her more time to focus on you, when you get the time after your done with the kids, that is.
If its her job, she may have to, to put food on the table?
If its her friends, then she shouldn't go out with them all the time, just ask her for a little more time as a couple.
I need details to give a specific answer, and don't use all caps, it makes you seem immature.
2007-01-15 02:01:22 · answer #4 · answered by Sugarshots 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Second to who? The kids? If that's the case, it may be necessary for you to get over it.
Sometimes the kids need her full attention, and your attention, too. Insisting you come first would be wrong.
If it's anyone other than the kids or her mother, or something, then she did wrong.
2007-01-15 02:03:21 · answer #5 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men have been putting there wives second for years now so stop being a cry baby and GET OVER IT!
2007-01-15 02:02:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
To bad your going thru that.. Hopefully its just a bad case of P.M.S. Have your asked her what her problem is?.. Do you have children? if so maybe she's just real stressed out.. pretty harsh of her to say "get over it" are you completely innocent and have absolutely no idea why she's being so harsh? I'd seek a marriage counselor..
2007-01-15 02:04:53 · answer #7 · answered by SiKofPsYchos 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you second to the kids or her? If you don't have kids it sounds like she really does not care about you. I ALWAYS put my man before myself untill we had a child then he became second still before me! Was she like that before you got married?
2007-01-15 02:03:39 · answer #8 · answered by Cher 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's probably just really tired from the demands of the children. If you help her out so that she has extra time then she will probably be happy to spend time with you.
2007-01-15 02:01:38 · answer #9 · answered by jabbergirl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe you need to sit down and talk with her. She could be busy and neglecting you for the moment. Hope this helps. Good luck.
2007-01-15 02:01:26 · answer #10 · answered by happy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Putting you second?It depends who is the first.If your child-ren are first for her,she is right.They come first.If it is just you and her,then she is very selfish.You do the same and she'll get the taste of her own medicine.
2007-01-15 02:08:25 · answer #11 · answered by avavu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋