y dont i have a bf? advice...plz?

Question

i am a girl and im in high school and i've never had a bf. i'm overweight..and i get mixed messages on if i am pretty. usually when i look in the mirror..i see someone kind of pretty. i have big boobs but like..im a little embaressed becuase im not sure if the guys like that..or they dont becuase they figure its cause im overweight. people always say its your personality that counts..but we all know thats not true. i think i have a great personality..so y dont i have a bf? i can make people laugh and i'm also really nice. i'm just looking for some advice...thanks.

Answer 1

start exercising. even going for a 30 min walk each night will help lose some weigh. it hard to see from here but you very well could be pretty, you dont say how overweight you are alot of guys dont mind a little extra and some even like it. but trying to lose some weight would be the best way for you to increase your gettin a boyfriend chances. and yes personality is a great thing to have, but it does help to have good looks also

Answer 2

Honestly, I think that if when you look in the mirror and you seem someone who is pretty, you are. Some guys like big boobs some dont. I've found that confidence is the key. Really! People have told me I'm pretty and others have insulted me. Were they serious, I'll never know. But because people have been rude and I've been hurt, so has my confidence. I have very low confidence, or should I say had. If you believe in yourself so will others. I'm sure you are wonderful and gorgeous, and will find the right guy. Just remember, you have to believe you are those things, and you have to show it too- otherwise they will have a harder time seeing that you think you're worth it, and when you think that- so will they! :)

Answer 3

First of all personality is everything, but in some cases for other people its not. But, those are the one's you don't won't anyway, because that means that there not funny, there rude most of the time, ect.... and if you are a little over weight and you feel not good about that then ask for help and try different things to loose some weight, not sure how old you are but if you are young kids your age are somewhat cruel, always has been that way for ever kids don't mean to be cruel its just the way it is, then someday we grow up and look back at how mean or what we said when we were younger and think," Oh my gosh was I that mean to that kid, or I can't believe I used to say those things" and remember kids get embarressed easily, so they pretend they don't want to talk to you or they don't know you because of peir pressure but it sounds like you are a really good person so don't let this get you down keep your chin up and keep your wonderful personality because that is how you will make it in life "Really" Hope I could help you some. sunnydays

Answer 4

Give it time. There are always people around you who think you are beautiful, even if they don't always say it to you. And, the most important thing is that you think you are beautiful, inside and out. If you think highly of yourself, whether you are overweight or not, it will shine through in your personality and others will see that. Your personality does count. Looks may be what first attracts people but if an attractive person doesn't have a good personality, they don't have good relationships. You will find someone who likes you for both your looks and what is in your heart. Be patient, even though it is difficult. And good luck!

Answer 5

If you are still in high school, i wouldn't worry too much about not having a boyfriend. one day, a very wonderful man will be fiercly attracted to you for who you are. i spent my high school days being very lonely, i said to a friend (who was very confident and got whatever he wanted in high school) "how do you do it? how are you sooo confident?" he told me you have to stop caring what people think and just let the inner you shine out. i tried it and ive never looked back. high school is sooo very petty and i know that right now you may be lonely and you may want a boyfriend, but you'll get to college or maybe even, youll just meet someone who will see you for who you are. youre beautiful no matter what and dont ever let anyone (YOURSELF INCLUDED!!) tell you otherwise. EVER. i hope this helped. :) youll be ok. i promise.

Answer 6

First off, High school dating is a popularity contest. Don't let it get you down. Second, if you want to change the way you look, then change it. You are in the right direction by already seeing your inner beauty. After high school, everyone changes, its like magic.
Get good grades, go to college and worry about dating later.

Answer 7

Relax, make friends and have a good time. When you least expect it, then a boyfriend will come along.

Join a club or clubs at school to meet people in a social situation.

Don't worry about your weight - inner beauty is always more important than physical looks.

Have fun and enjoy life.

Answer 8

Yep, you hit it on the nose. You're a v. She puts out. Guys get almost nuts at that age and if they can get it, then they go for it. You will understand when you get that way in about 15 to 20 more years. You will start doing anything that moves because your hormones will tell you to.

Answer 9

I'M IN HIGH SCHOOL and i was voted most handsome and likely to suceed and i have never had a girlfriend either.... and what the hell is the big deal.... nothing. You got ur whole life n high school is the hardest part. **** what guys think cuz i'd admit that guys are assholes and sometimes imature. dont fret. add me on myspace... myspace.com/wn1988

Answer 10

i'm sure that one day some guy would find you attractive if you have a pretty face and a nice personality. Maybe somebody does like but is too shy to tell how they really feel about you.