Family & Relationships - 12 January 2007

I have a 9 year old son. I have made plans to stay in touch with him on a daily basis although I will be able to see him only every few months. Am I doing the wrong thing?

2007-01-12 15:31:58 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

this guy-tyler i absolutely LOVE him. he is cute and PERFECT hes smart and loved my many ppl including adults because he's a good kid and he tries his best for everything. he gives me compliments, smiles, and talks to me alot, and makes me laugh, he's also not perverted/always talking about sex. EVERYTIME i look at him, i smile sometimes not knowing it. it just happens. no other guys i think are cute/that i like, makes me so happy in my life just to look at them. he told me he loves me.ive only known him for 4 days! and i dont see him much my problem is-
1.is it wrong for us go out?he's 17-sophmore and im 14-8th grader
2. i looked at his myspace and alot of girls sent him comments saying I LOVE YOU.now that confuses me because i dunno if he likes me or not. my eyes teared because i love him so much and i thot he felt the same way.so that means the way he is around me, he is like that around other girls right?how do i know if he REALLY does love me?anyOTHER TRICKYsigns to look for??

2007-01-12 15:31:49 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I want to break up with my boyfriend, but don't want to loose him as a friend. It is really obvious he really likes me and I don't want to hurt him. Any ideas?

2007-01-12 15:31:01 · 9 answers · asked by sarah l 2 in Singles & Dating

I just stop hanging out w/ my bestfriend for 8 months and now, her bestfriends are my crush's bestfriend too. How can i forget about it? How can I move on?

2007-01-12 15:30:13 · 1 answers · asked by Ann Carmeline 3 in Singles & Dating

I was out with a guy last night and we "made out" in his bedroom. (We are both in our 30's)

I was uncomfortable about how fast things were going so I told him to stop. Therefore, he did not ejaculate.

The next thing I know, he's up taking a shower.
Why??

Was he "taking care of himself" in the shower, or just a clean freak?

2007-01-12 15:29:56 · 21 answers · asked by faithinaction1465 1 in Singles & Dating

Was it weird?

2007-01-12 15:29:06 · 2 answers · asked by Sarbear 1 in Friends

That my crush might be gay? I heard this from a friend of his. I can't ask him about it or he will wonder why I'm asking. he was previously married for 12 years or so. I'm in love with him. what should i do?

2007-01-12 15:28:43 · 16 answers · asked by L♥G 5 in Singles & Dating

Why is it that the guys here are all shallow ....and the girls seem to have low self esteem?

2007-01-12 15:28:30 · 8 answers · asked by Dave S 3 in Singles & Dating

I really Like this Men and he Sit Beside me at work. You know, Whoever Sits Beside him, Any Girl Will Fall In love with Him. And I think he Dont Like the other girls And Ignore the Other Girls. Well If me, He will Not ignore Me and When I wanna borrow Something He Will Give Me the thing That i Wanna Borrow.Any Advice??

2007-01-12 15:28:27 · 1 answers · asked by Juxeski 2 in Singles & Dating

i am turning 13 and my parents let me have a sllep over w/ alot of girls but some one elses party is on the same date as mine and my parents wont switch it wat do i do & wat if no one comes?

2007-01-12 15:26:55 · 3 answers · asked by kilii 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey everyone, just needed some advice. My bf and i broke up today due 2 one of his female friends that he calls a 'best friend". She says things about me 2 him and he comes back and tells me about it. Well, a few weeks ago she said 2 him " You should be with me, not her." and recently was giving her daughter a b-day party and told him " I want you at the party, and dont show up with ur gf , I dont like her." Everytime I ask him about her all he says is "I'll handle it." To me, I would like 2 what exactly is I'll handle it? Then today she calls and I answered his phone, told her she wasn't around, you know very polite. Well the girl has her best friend call to speak to him and her best friend asks to speak to me. He hands me the phone and she starts going off. I told her very politely that i wasnt cursing at her & she kept going so i called her a few names and hung up. So I tell him its me or her. Point of the story, we broke up & now he talks 2 his "best friend" again. What u think??

2007-01-12 15:26:55 · 20 answers · asked by Beautiful 2 in Singles & Dating

I posted a question about an hour ago that i have a condition that makes me very fatigued and weak by the end of the day so I cant really go out at night since its gotten worse, and i was wondering if it was right that my fiance to still be going out a few nights a week to bars when nights are the only time i get to see him because he works 9-9. he always asks me to go out with him and once in a while i feel good enough to go out, but most of the time not.
In your answers a lot of you said that its not right and i should tell him how i felt, so i called him. He got upset, saying he doesnt go out that much, etc. I was nice about it, i told him i thought it was important that he sees his friends and stuff but that ive been feeling hurt by it and i thought it was time to tell him. Its like he tried to make me feel guilty!! I wasnt trying to tell him what to do i was just expressing my feelings!! We ended up yelling at eachother and i hung up. What should i do??

2007-01-12 15:26:35 · 8 answers · asked by Christines256 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Here's the deal. I'm thirty, and my mother and I have never gotten along, PARTICULARLY since she went through menopause when I was twelve. Since then, she's turned into a raving *****.

Now, seriously, I try to control my temper when she loses her sanity for a day, but it's getting really hard.

I'll give you an example (this just happened tonight) of something that happens pretty frequently so that you get a general idea of what's going on.

My parents agreed to watch my son this evening, so we all agreed that we would be there at eight. I am very punctual, and was there at EXACTLY eight. I told my son to tell my mother we were there, and that we were about to leave (she was upstairs).

She came downstairs, yelling, and asked, "What the hell do you want?" Okay. Whoa.

I replied, "I told him to tell you we were leaving."

"I've had a f*cking horrible day, and I don't need this sh!t..."

"What are you talking about?"

"YOU."

... And she slammed the door. WTF?

2007-01-12 15:25:56 · 21 answers · asked by <3 The Pest <3 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have 43% custody of my son, my ex wife has 57%. I pay child support. We have joint physical and legal custody of the child. Why am I labeled the "non - custodial" parent?

2007-01-12 15:25:40 · 10 answers · asked by Shana A 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I just broke up with my gf at the beginning of 2007 and also the first day of school. I was really crushed and i tried to be strong. It's only been 10 days that we're apart but i can't help it that she's getting along fine. She said she just wants us to be friends and we can but i still want her so badly. At school, i can't even look at her the same way like i used to in the past because it'll remind me of how much i missed her. I sent messages to her cell about how i'm suffering and how much i missed and think of her and everything. She never replied back though. We've been friends even before we were a couple. She's had two bfs before me and i've learnt that she never replied back messages from her exes whenever they smsed her of how they still love and miss her like what i'm doing right now too. Please help me, somebody... I love her a lot. Is it wise of me to tell her that i miss her?

2007-01-12 15:24:57 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

See today in school this girl asked my Best Friend (my luv/crush) if he would go to a dance with me, she screamed it! He looked up and smiled and said No. Then on the bus my best friend asked him why he said no. He simpliy said " i don't like her yet" Then she said well maybe schould think it over and he said" he is and he needs to". Thing is he acts like he likes me, I know. He's shy but why is he doing this to me. I don't even know what to say to him anymore. I luv him so much, it's NOT FUNNY. I don't know why? He's not the type of guy i usally go for, he not hott! But hes cute, sweet,nice,fun to be with and etc. HELP ME PLEASE, before he calls me or i call him!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-12 15:24:42 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 15:23:57 · 4 answers · asked by pussycat doll* 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 15:23:51 · 3 answers · asked by shakenbake228 1 in Friends

what kind of girls do u prefer=)ex:long brown hair,brown eyes, skirts,ect. be creative=)

2007-01-12 15:23:18 · 19 answers · asked by SirNovajr. 2 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend and her sister ..i think are way to loose, my girlfriends sister thinks its ok to have sex with as many people as she can call friends,she claims that she knows these people and because they were or still are friends that she isn't a ho, my girlfriend seems to have the same thoughts..claming all the guys she slept with were friends and even claims most were in a relationship with her even if it lasted only a couple of days to a couple of weeks...am i fooling myself thinking i realy have a good woman whom i can respect or should i view this for what its worth?

2007-01-12 15:23:15 · 24 answers · asked by david r 1 in Singles & Dating

I mean its just cause for a teacher hes SO hot and I mean he doesn't look like hes 37 but he is... and I had a uh "Dream" about him a long time ago and ever since its changed my point of view on him. I think its weird that I have infatuation for a teacher... and I'm just wondering if I'm the only one that finds it weird. And its not like I like him or anything I just have infatuation for him... is that wrong? Cause I'm 16 and hes like 37, is that okay? Please help me... this has really been bothering me.

2007-01-12 15:22:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...young kids with zero life experience like to come on yahoo answers and give their advice about love and life? especially marriage/divorce? is it all for the 2 points?

2007-01-12 15:22:39 · 7 answers · asked by Emmy F 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Im about to start dating this girl, and im a lot worried about our first night together.

Its not that i dont want to have sex, its just that my first time (and only time since) went very bad, and im really nervous.

Im not too knowledgable and am worried ill be pathetic. She (i assume) will be more at ease about it. And id hate to start our relationship on a bad note.

I actually want to put it off for a while, till i get very comfortable with her, but i get the impression she will just expect it to happen soon in relationship.

What do i say? I mean a guy who wants to hold off from sex for a while, that cant make her feel good. I dont want it to get awkward, like me avoiding staying at each others house and that.

2007-01-12 15:22:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

at the dance
gimme tips and how to do it goodplz
ull be best answer

2007-01-12 15:21:25 · 20 answers · asked by storage b 1 in Singles & Dating

im 23 yrs old and all i ever hear my mom talk about is my brother and how hes lazy dont do anything....he dropped out of school and just started back uptwo days ago....he does no house work to help out my mom he just plays on the computer all day and night.....he is disrespectful, yells and cusses and my mom and i.....our father passed 5 yrs ago or i know he would beat some sense into him...i know its not my responsibility but i try and take things away from him when hes being a brat....like the comp.....i've even kick his butt a few times but when my mom finds out what i did she tells me....your not his father...he doesnt even take out the trash....please tell me what i am supposed to do cuz its really pissing me off cuz he doesnt do s***. someone give me some advise on what to do with him.....

2007-01-12 15:21:09 · 8 answers · asked by Landon C 1 in Family

2007-01-12 15:21:09 · 3 answers · asked by just mee 1 in Friends

I don't know How to ask for them back?? I don't remember exactly what day I did this, it was obvious, I was still in a state of mind, It will offend her, she has been friend for over 30 years.I am afraid this will ruin our friendship. How can I be tactful? How do I explain it to her with out offending her?? I miss the rings. I miss my Mother too. I know my friend is going to be mad. I want both, the jewelry and the friendship. What do I do??

2007-01-12 15:21:00 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This mother of five kids, ages ranging from 2 to 14, stands as bread winner because her hubby has a degenerative neurologic illness. It feels comforting to know that while wife is out at work, hubby takes care of the kids - bathes them, feeds them, reviews lessons with the ones in school, never mind if the house is an absolute mess when wife comes home. I really think one of the parents should actually be hands-on with the children, be physically there for them. It never fails. But the problem is when wife is all burned out at work with an impossible boss; the pay is not enough to meet the bills, or to give to the older children even their daily school allowances, or to set some money aside for medical emergencies - wife has to literally scour the kids' coin banks just to ensure that there is food on the table until the next pay day. And it is sooooo depressing that wife and hubby cannot even watch a movie together because the money has to be used for more urgent needs.

2007-01-12 15:20:52 · 8 answers · asked by bluemom 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im 16 he 23 he cant get introuble for having sex with me....?!?!

2007-01-12 15:20:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

...would you say he actually likes you as a friend or is just trying to up his contact list. The guy who added me never goes online because he's always busy...

2007-01-12 15:19:59 · 19 answers · asked by serena b 2 in Singles & Dating