I was out with a guy last night and we "made out" in his bedroom. (We are both in our 30's)
I was uncomfortable about how fast things were going so I told him to stop. Therefore, he did not ejaculate.
The next thing I know, he's up taking a shower.
Why??
Was he "taking care of himself" in the shower, or just a clean freak?
2007-01-12 15:29:56 · 21 answers · asked by faithinaction1465 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not a clean freak.....I think you know what that means, no date next time.
2007-01-12 15:33:12 · answer #1 · answered by Mikey ~ The Defender of Myrth 7 · 7⤊ 1⤋
He sounds like a freak in general. If you told me to stop in that situation I would have to deal with it. I might try to put moves on you again a little later in the night but hey, things do take time.
If the evening was that exciting but still did not result in "satisfaction" for both, I would most probably "take care of myself" in the shower later at my place. I would be visually reliving the night and adding more. That's pretty much how any normal guy would deal with not gating the "home run".
Stay away from this guy. Sounds either like an egocentric jackass or someone who would store body parts in the fridge.
2007-01-12 15:44:25 · answer #2 · answered by wadibob 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all, people don't "make out" when they're 30 lol. They "have a moment," or something. He may have been taking care of himself, also, he might not have had a shower earlier...could have worked up a sweat during your hot and steamy session...or could have just needed a cold shower to cool down. Either way, if you feel he was rude to you and your wishes, he isn't worth worrying about anyway. If it bothers you, talk to him about it. Only then will you find out his real intentions.
Other than that, if you weren't offended and he treats you well, don't think anything of this. Men don't analyze things as much as women think they do. Just make sure that you're being treated well.
2007-01-12 15:35:17 · answer #3 · answered by Android 18 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think he was taking care of himself, which is ok, it has nothing to do with you. You did the right thing if you were unconfortable at how fast things were going. Don't fell bad about asking him to stop. Wait until you feel confortable before going further. Try talking to him to see what his feelings are. Good Luck!!
2007-01-12 15:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by Debra K 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi I am a man too. I am the first one to admit that men are pigs. Most guys, not all, just want a peace and they get going its hard to stop and get going again. It also hurts the labido.Young guys dont know how to forplay the way a lady would like . The other question I have is how long have you known this guy? You must be able to talk to him and get him to understand what you would like. If you want a relationship talk. If you want sex any guy would do. good luck
2007-01-12 15:43:58 · answer #5 · answered by Hyme 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He probably felt that you violated him by moving to fast. You should slow down and consider his feelings and get to know him as a person. He is not a piece of meat. He felt he had to shower to remove the bad feeling he had by you trying to take advantage of him and he probably felt cheap. Hopefully you can learn from this and not treat men as a sexual object.
2007-01-12 15:34:30 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He probably got sweaty when you were "making out." However maybe you got him so aroused he wanted to finish it off (which is not a bad thing, by the way.) Although it prob would have been more respectful of him to put his clothes on, and wait until his erection faded away, he may of needed to release, depending on how pushed he was into ejactulating.
2007-01-12 15:37:20 · answer #7 · answered by The Lonely Skywolf 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
why so close to the finish? say stop at 2nd base, dont tag the poor guy out at home!! thats wrong, anya. just wrong. by the way, that shower he took was most likely cold!
2007-01-12 15:53:49 · answer #8 · answered by J-Dizzle 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh yeah. He got fired up and needed to pull one off. Kinda weird that he did it while you were still there. Then again if you were still there it kinda makes me think that he's probably not that weird and just needed to cool his jets down.
So the answer is a definite maybe.
2007-01-12 15:33:10 · answer #9 · answered by mjcalohan 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
either finishing the job or taking a cold shower (cold water makes it go down)
2007-01-12 15:33:45 · answer #10 · answered by oldguy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Perhaps he's trying to cool off after a heated moment that has left him mad sexually frustrated because he's ready to explode?
He's taking care of tha business I guess.
2007-01-12 15:35:43 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋