Family & Relationships - 12 January 2007

my girl just lovessssssssssss diamonds and i wanna gift her this ring on her birthday,like most men i've got no idea about diamonds and their carats and potatos or whatever they are.The cost of this ring is $400 and the specifications are also mentioned.So this a good deal?Or am i better off some place else or like what.please help me out i'm clueless on buying it or not,as in its worth the tag or not. Im a student so plz dont ask me to buy something more expensive,im selling my 1 kidney and half a lung for this itself!!!! The link is below:

http://www.amazon.com/o/ASIN/B000L3W4CS/ref=s9_asin_image_1/104-2507456-4783904

2007-01-12 15:49:44 · 15 answers · asked by SIMS 2 in Weddings

I've read alot about relationships and there seems to be a common theme among many of them about making your ex jealous of you so that they'll want you. However, this is very manipulative and in my book just plain stupid and unloving. If you really fall in love with someone else that's one thing, but to play with two people's emotions in this way, just seems like the high-school tactic, and very immature, AND THIS CRAP is supposedly written by professional counselours, showing me just how mature they truly are in their own twisted schemes on life. I have yet to found a tactic that works without being manipulative or harmful to anyone in any way. I am searching for a way I can show my love to my ex in a way that she appreciates, without masquerading that I am okay without her if I am not, without bringing in someone else to dump just to win my ex back, without lying in any fashion, and without hurting her feelings any more than I have already done.

2007-01-12 15:48:51 · 12 answers · asked by The Lonely Skywolf 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been with my bf for a month and like 2 weeks now. And i used to be CRAZY about him, we' re perfect right now. But for some reason im just not into him that much anymore. So many things he does annoy me now, the way he eats, the way he talks, his stupid noises and dumb sense of humor, even kissing him and sex feels so wrong and weird. I think i might just be going through a stage kus this happend once with my other bf but i still wanna know if its just me. Kus last time i went through this we end up being together for 6 months and the feeling went away. So is it just a phase or should i move on?

2007-01-12 15:48:09 · 8 answers · asked by xbinary_dreamsx 2 in Singles & Dating

im new at the hole army thing, got married june 3rd, 06. this is my first time i had to move, how do i meet new friends (besides the ppl i work with)thanks :-)

2007-01-12 15:47:53 · 4 answers · asked by Bri 3 in Marriage & Divorce

so this guy i love said he couldn't be with me, but now he is so giving me mixed signals. being extremely nice when we talked about staying away from each other....i've talked to him more since our "talk" than ever before. is he just trying to be nice? or is it possible his feelings have changed? and how do i know for sure without specifically asking him?

2007-01-12 15:47:43 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I mean whats the harm?

2007-01-12 15:47:34 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-12 15:47:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I'm 20, not really into partying or drinking but starting to think I should to meet someone?

2007-01-12 15:44:39 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well I have a friend and she dosen't like this guy but he likes her...and I tried hooking them up but in the process I started likeing him...What do I do???

2007-01-12 15:44:29 · 8 answers · asked by Yvette 1 in Singles & Dating

????

2007-01-12 15:44:05 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 15:43:57 · 7 answers · asked by Lady 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My list:
1. Texas, baby! Austin is at the top, but the rest of the state is not lackluster (at least the natives and not the west coast transplants.)
2. Mississippi
3. Oklahoma
4. Alabama
5. Georgia (outside Atlanta)
6. North Carolina (the natives)

2007-01-12 15:43:45 · 8 answers · asked by BlanketyBlank 1 in Singles & Dating

my boyfriend and i have been together for about a month now, he is not my type but his personality is OUT OF THIS WORLD. i care about him alot and i mean alot to him too, but the thing is, he has 3 kids, he has a record for Assaulting a Police Officer, and because of his record he cant get a steady job but he works at a fast food restaraunt here in town, i dont want to leave him but since we have been together he has made promises to me and hasnt kept them. for example: he lives about 35 miles from my house and we want to see each other and its about a good 45 min (due to construction) to his house and he has promised to give me and my brother gas money to come and see him and he wouldnt have it. as a matter of fact, he has lied 3 times about giving me and my brother gas money to come to his town so that i could see him. he also had promised to take me on dates that never happened. we havent slept together so i dont think that is the issue. should i leave? help me please n e one!!!!

2007-01-12 15:43:39 · 5 answers · asked by Haitian Chick 1 in Singles & Dating

I recently got back in touch with a guy from my past that I am deeply in love with, always have been. He wants us to be a couple but its been a while since I saw him and I gained a lot of weight. I dont want to see him until I lose weight because I want to be comfortable around him. What should I do, should i just really focus on getting fit, not just for him but period. I figure i can be back to normal weight in like 5 mos, is that too long for someone to wait.

2007-01-12 15:43:19 · 23 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

Married, seeking discreet married partner--not me but what would you do if someone approached you online for this sort of thing? I am not sure what to think..the whole idea seems crazy...I want to think the best of people, but he seems to have his own agenda and nice isn't on the list.

2007-01-12 15:42:14 · 17 answers · asked by Missy Lyons 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have sole, physical, and legal custody of my daughter. My new husband is in the military and we're getting stationed in Hawaii, can my ex husband stop me from taking my daughter with me. We have a very awful relationship, what do I need to do to make sure I can legally bring her with us? Help please. Real answers only please.

2007-01-12 15:39:54 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my girls tells me that all the time, but it stinks after I pee.

2007-01-12 15:39:35 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 15:39:06 · 5 answers · asked by shakenbake228 1 in Friends

he is very mad at the world and he told me today that he might bring his shotgun or knife to school what should i do?

2007-01-12 15:38:22 · 15 answers · asked by Lana 1 in Friends

ok my ex john and i broke up about three months ago and for two months i chouldn' t move on!! Now month three i've got a crush on a guy named Sandy!! the day i told my bestfriend about Sandy she told me that John claimed that he still liked me!!! now i'm confused because john has a girlfriend and Sandy doesn't!!! WHat should i do!! Plz help i gotta see these guys on tuesday!!!
Kelse

2007-01-12 15:36:51 · 20 answers · asked by Kelse 2 in Singles & Dating

What would a 20-something Lady, see in a 50-something Man? The reason I ask, is that I have had 5 Ladies email me just this week, trying to start up a relationship! Now I am no prize, and very much flattered that they would be interested! However, it does strike me as odd that they would find me attractive from just a photo on myspace, and very little profile info. I haven't had the time to build the site.
Anyone have some serious thoughts on this?

2007-01-12 15:36:45 · 16 answers · asked by Dan821 4 in Singles & Dating

my ex and i broke up 2 months ago and i decided that we couldn't be friends. but we still have a lot of mutual friends. but the thing is he'll hang out with them and then start asking about me and talking about me with them and talking about his relationship with his new gf, knowing that they're going to tell me. my friend asked him about this and he couldn't give her an answer. i feel as if he's trying to hurt me as much as he says i hurt him. thoughts?

2007-01-12 15:35:37 · 5 answers · asked by thebodyelectric! 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this hot, nice, funny, cute guy at school and i really like him. we're both talk 2 each other on aim but we only help w/ homework. were sort of friends, but not really. hes so nice and friendly but i dont kno how i can get him to like me. please help!!

2007-01-12 15:35:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend who is Swiss doesn't like to call his girlfriends his girlfrineds because of labeling but then he'll call them his "Best friend" and I have a song by a european band and its called best friend and the girl in it is singing about her best friend and its like her boyfriend, so is it possible that when my friend calls someone his "Best friend" And its a girl that shes his girlfriend? Because he doesn't call my cousin who is like his best friend (Well you know... like normal best friend) he calls him "One of his closest friends" so do you think that the term "Best friend" really does mean boyfriend/girlfriend in europe? Well thanks for your answers.

2007-01-12 15:35:20 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I really like this guy and I know for a fact that he likes me 2. Everything would be perfect if my friend would stop flirting so much with him.She told me that they used to have a "thing" , w/e that means, but I don't think she has gotten over him. It makes me so mad when i look over and see her batting her eyes at him b/c she is the one who tried so hard to get us together. We probably would be going out if he weren't so shy and would just asl me. I really really like him, but should I be mad at my friend for liking him too?

2007-01-12 15:34:28 · 15 answers · asked by Mary-Russ 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Doesn't kissing someone for a long time indicate an emotional / romantic connection with them? Especially when you are not kissing for foreplay?

2007-01-12 15:34:04 · 10 answers · asked by bellyyo62 1 in Singles & Dating

A very dear friend of mine started seeing her brother's friend secretly 6 years ago when they were both in between jobs. She said it was quite intense and they got very intimate. It broke off when the chap went to work abroad. She says he wanted to bring it out into the open but she wasn't sure she was ready.

He went away and they didn't speak or see in between. She said she thinks about him all the time but just can't make the next step. She said she contacted him early last year and the whole physical thing started again. He seems to like her enough as she describes him as gentle, considerate, an unbelieveable lover and attentive.

I feel she is playing with his feelings and have told her so. I don't understand what is the stumbling block is? She says she would love to be with him but feels her brother would feel uncomfortable. Any guys out there been in the situation, do you get over it if your sister dates one of your mates? Or should she steer clear?

2007-01-12 15:33:57 · 5 answers · asked by The Cat 2 in Singles & Dating

I met my bf online and he is very generous.He is one of a kind. He plans to come here this month. Last night I saw him on the dating site and shows his manhood. I confronted him on this and he said it's stupid thing and doesn't mean anything.He said he loves me so much and apologized. Now is this behaviour ok?I'm asian and he isn't.

2007-01-12 15:33:04 · 7 answers · asked by k 1 in Singles & Dating

this guy-tyler i absolutely LOVE him. he is cute and PERFECT hes smart and loved my many ppl including adults because he's a good kid and he tries his best for everything. he gives me compliments, smiles, and talks to me alot, and makes me laugh, he's also not perverted/always talking about sex. EVERYTIME i look at him, i smile sometimes not knowing it. it just happens. no other guys i think are cute/that i like, makes me so happy in my life just to look at them. he told me he loves me.ive only known him for 4 days! and i dont see him much my problem is-
1.is it wrong for us go out?he's 17-sophmore and im 14-8th grader
2. i looked at his myspace and alot of girls sent him comments saying I LOVE YOU.now that confuses me because i dunno if he likes me or not. my eyes teared because i love him so much and i thot he felt the same way.so that means the way he is around me, he is like that around other girls right?how do i know if he REALLY does love me?anyOTHER TRICKYsigns to look for??

2007-01-12 15:32:09 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My friend doesn't want me to be this other girl's friends because they are both enemies. I need help it is urgent I only have till Tuesday the 16.♥♥♥♥♥

2007-01-12 15:32:06 · 17 answers · asked by snow shell 1 in Friends