I mean whats the harm?
2007-01-12 15:47:34 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I fantasise about winning the lottery, I have a family syndicate of, which my mum is involved. I don't think there is any harm about fantasies.
2007-01-12 15:54:25 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
The thing about fantasies is that they are by their nature unreal, and unlikely to be acted upon or to actually happen. A rich fantasy life is important, as it allows a person to explore imaginary aspects of their own life. As such, fantasies are free.
If you find one happens often enough that it gets in the way of your normal functioning (ie if you think about it all the time, or if you become convinced that your life will only be complete if you can act on the impulse)) it could be that your fantasy (no matter what it is) has become an obsession. Obsessive fantasies about anything can become unhealthy, and it might be worth talking privately to a psychiatrist about it.
But if it's just a fantasy, then bring it on. It's your own head, it doesn't hurt anyone, so I would say there's no harm in it.
2007-01-13 00:35:39 · answer #2 · answered by Greta B 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stop antagonizing the poor asker of this question. First of all, he did not specify what sort of fantasies, and whether or not he realistically plans to pursue them. Additionally, he did not admit that he himself had the fantasies. Do not jump to conclusions.
If you are having sexual fantasies about your mum, this is explained by Sigmund Freud as the Oedipus Complex, expressing sexual love for one's own mother. Freud claimed that this was a common, even normal aspect of childhood development. Many modern psychologists disagree.
If this is a frequent problem, suggest seeking the help of a psychoanalyst, if not, it's harmless and is probably a passing phase.
2007-01-13 00:02:20 · answer #3 · answered by sunnyd_137 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Well, since you didn't state categorically that you were talking about sexual fantasies i shall take it to mean fantasies of health, wealth and happiness and perhaps a few comedic moments thrown in there to keep her grounded.
Nothing wrong with that, now is there?
2007-01-13 00:02:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Fascinating question as ever, darling - but you already know what I think. Shite, I have fantasies about your mother so why shouldn't you.
But, man, these answers have me rivetted.
* The spelling is shocking :- insest, sycatrist (my fave), definetely and genetalia
* I have seen GBL's answer somewhere before
* How did James H's answer get through? Bet I can't say mother fucker and get away with it.
(Looks like I did though. Way hay - what do you know. This place is looking up)
I love you xxxxxx
2007-01-13 06:38:56 · answer #5 · answered by Hello Dave 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Depends what the fantasies are, depends on what your morals of what is wrong or right are. It is looked down upon in society but if you don't think it is wrong and it makes you happy, then thats up to you.
2007-01-12 23:52:08 · answer #6 · answered by drunken_monkey1988 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
man... you are middle aged, horny, obese, and possibly gay
there is nothing wrong to have fantasies on your own mother by some one like you
2007-01-13 00:32:10 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its definetely warped and disturbing and NO IT'S NOT OK AT ALL, mind you, if your photo is anything to go by its probably the only female genetalia you've ever seen
2007-01-13 00:04:24 · answer #8 · answered by ALEX K 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Go contact Stekkmo on german Yahoo Answers. She is as crazy as you are!!!!
I´m sure you have many things in common.
2007-01-13 00:11:36 · answer #9 · answered by Morgan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Strange , for a bloke like you , who's got everything going for him lol
2007-01-13 02:28:12 · answer #10 · answered by nicemanvery 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋