Family & Relationships - 12 January 2007

how do u let a girl no u like her?!

2007-01-12 16:19:15 · 3 answers · asked by star 1 in Singles & Dating

Slightly long winded question so please bear with me.

right so, i've been going out with my current girlfriend for about fours months, nothing has gone wrong and she is perfect. she's one of the nicest people i've ever met, she's sweet, kind, helpful, has many of the same interests as me, and there is absolutely nothing taht i can think of that is wrong with her. the problem: i don't think i'm in love with her.

however i think i'm in love with a friend of hers, we have so much more in common and have a great time when ever she's around but there's no real reason for me to break up w/ my gf for her. it's probably just my mind frame (i'd rather not hurt her) but, i dont' know what to do

what do you think i should do? and if you think i should break up w/ my girlfriend how should i go about it without hurting her feeling?

2007-01-12 16:19:03 · 9 answers · asked by Jon V 1 in Singles & Dating

without asking him directly or telling him first that you miss him...

2007-01-12 16:17:24 · 19 answers · asked by unicorn 1 in Singles & Dating

my dads heroin addiction has forced me to consider life in a different way, my childhood got cut seriously short and i had to learn to fend for my brother and i at an early age.My dad became dependent on me from money, to living arragements and etc..im only renting my house and wev'e been asked to leave by the landlord because the house got sold.i love my dad whole heartedly, but i dont want him to be a burden on me anymore.How can i tell him enough is enough and to find his own place?

2007-01-12 16:16:59 · 8 answers · asked by scarlettstar 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-01-12 16:16:43 · 23 answers · asked by Poetannyse 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am planning to give the guuy I have a crush on a note that says "If you only knew how much I like you" written in French. Do you guys think I should do that? If not, please suggest something. Thanks in advance!!

2007-01-12 16:16:31 · 4 answers · asked by Kat 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a problem identifying what I'm feeling...actually I'm having trouble figuring this guy out. He was nice but its pointless to explain how he made me feel about myself. The point is I'm not willing to go see him and ask about this, I've no intention to intrude in his life. If I can't get myself to ignore this I will try drowning myself. Why is this feeling torturing me like nothing can be better than him, like no matter what I do nothng can be better, he's not everything but why can't I effin forget about him, what could I possibly miss without him. Nothing, right? Aaaaghhhh!!!Help!!

2007-01-12 16:15:55 · 13 answers · asked by anna 4 in Singles & Dating

i mean think about it the abuser hurts their lover when they don't act the way they think that they should. same goes for the one who is trying to make you jealous you have acted in a way that they didn't like so they try to make you jealous to get a reaction out of you. how many of you agree?

2007-01-12 16:15:49 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 16:15:21 · 6 answers · asked by rainingcatsanddogs51 2 in Singles & Dating

Okay well , I'm in seventh grade . Never had a boyfriend , never been asked out before . Yet a bunch of people tell me how pretty I am ? It confuses me . I am a very shy person though people will be like "Why don't you talk" or "Why are you so quiet"? I don't know if thats meant in an insulting way or a curious way but do guys not ask me out because I'm shy ? I mean I'm not like deathly shy I do talk I'm just a little you know in-secure ?

2007-01-12 16:15:12 · 25 answers · asked by Lizzie . ™ 2 in Singles & Dating

I share a 1 bedroom apartment with 2 other girls & recently one of them just had a baby... Now, we're all college students so my other roommate & think it's not the best idea to have her stay with us. We don't want to sound selfish, but we didn't pay all this money for college & an apartment just to take care of a baby... How should we confront her? What should we say?

2007-01-12 16:13:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

This is going to be to a crush! I just want to ask him if he likes me, an honest answer and if me and him can have any kind of relationship? And Im tired of waiting and need to move on, so if I could get a definite answer from him!

2007-01-12 16:13:06 · 2 answers · asked by HAPPY <3 2 in Singles & Dating

Ok i had this crush who use to like me and I use to like him(still do). But i told my friends and they told him and that's how he stopped liking me. Now i want to give myself a make over to get him to notice me again. Is that wrong? If i hadn't told my friends then we could've went out. We use to be friends but it started drifting apart because of them.Should i get new friends also? By the way I'm only 12 and i'm gonna be 13 on February 2! HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-01-12 16:12:26 · 5 answers · asked by mllrgbrll 1 in Singles & Dating

This girl was my friend for awhile then she told people (my friends) who i like and i was really mad at her.We had this huge fight and turned one of my bestfriends against me and she lied a million times.She keeps asking my friends to ask me if i hate her!!I don't no wat to do!!!!Help!!

2007-01-12 16:12:03 · 8 answers · asked by sarah l 2 in Friends

there this guy i used to like and now i like hate him. whenever i like talk to some guy or like messed wit him, he like stared at me. he look kinda jealous or something. and he won't quick staring at me. i told him that i'm uncomfortable and he still doin. also, he's like closer to me then ever. i'm confused on this guy. wat is he tryin to do?

2007-01-12 16:11:33 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Britney Beers was only 4 when she came up missing. She had nobody watching her and she was let sit on a bench by the highway. She has not been seen in years. This happens to children a lot. When we find the rapers, kidnappers, and perverts who hurt our children, why can't we toucher them slowly inch by inch? Our children do not deserve to be killed and tourchered.

2007-01-12 16:11:20 · 12 answers · asked by grannywinkie 6 in Family

This guy seems really sad and you can tell it in is voice. i want him to tell me, but he says he doesnt trust me. i feel really bad, what should i do??

2007-01-12 16:10:37 · 6 answers · asked by thnkpink933 1 in Friends

First of all when he doesn't just say that he will kill me if I leave him but he says he will if it is over no good reason(he says if he messes up its fine if I want to leave). I'm 18 and he is 24. We have been together 17 months and we love each other very much. I know I'm too young to commit myself into a relationship forever but what can I do, I feel like I dont have a choice because he says he will hurt me. And I don't want him out of my life forever because I love him a lot but I don't want to miss something better. Also I have brought up the fact that I'm not sure I want to be with him forever and obviously he didn't take it well at all so I had to tell him I was just playing around. Anyway...What should I do?

2007-01-12 16:10:20 · 24 answers · asked by beautiful 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 16:10:13 · 20 answers · asked by Alonzo M 1 in Friends

I recently got engaged to my bf. I really care about him, & I think he really cares about me (cuz why else would he propose to me). But, I constantly feel insecure in our relationship & constantly feel paranoid that he has or will cheat on me. We went from extremely awesome sex several times a night to now he either doesn't want it or can't finish when we do do it. I talked to him about this & about how important this issue is to me & our future marriage. His response was that "he thinks I want it too much." My response to that was that I didn't know of ANY man that would complain about that. I've snooped in his wallet & through his email & they've both come out clean. the only thing I haven't been able to snoop in is his cell phone b/c it's too damn loud. Also, I noticed that when I was logged in to his email in yahoo, the yahoo main page had the "personals" site highlighted. I didn't even think to look there, but now it leaves me wondering. Am I just paranoid or could he be a cheat?

2007-01-12 16:10:13 · 17 answers · asked by Jennifer B 1 in Singles & Dating

now she stands stubborn by the boys side. i want to break her confidence level and bring her back. although she is matured she has selected a wrong person. now she acts acccording to the boy's words. suggest any strategic plan both legally and......

2007-01-12 16:09:42 · 25 answers · asked by babu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

what one thing you couldn't live without?

2007-01-12 16:09:08 · 14 answers · asked by *KiM* 6 in Friends

is it because its kool?

2007-01-12 16:08:41 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Okay, I go to a catholic school and because of me and my friends they made a no kissing rule LOL but since i did kiss him it got us into a lot of trouble. After that i relized he wasn't my type and I decided I am going to break up with him the only problem is I dont know how to break up with him. I am to afraid to hurt him but I have to break up with him to be happy! Please help....

2007-01-12 16:08:33 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

is it too much when guys go and wait for their girl finish her every class or every shift at work? does it get annoying for you girls?

2007-01-12 16:08:17 · 6 answers · asked by Rock 4 in Singles & Dating

My sister in-law was recently asked to stand up as a bridesmaid in her neighbor's wedding. She has been friends with her neighbor for 12 years and they are pretty close. The problem is, the bride picked out the dress she wants her bridesmaids to wear. It's an over-priced, slinky, form-fitting spaghetti-strap thing. My neighbor, along with six of the other eight bridesmaids is overweight. Seven of the eight bridesmaids literally look like stuffed sausages in these things. As if that wasn't bad enough, the bride also wants them to wear a $120.00 tierra (sp?) and matching heels, another $90.00. All Burnt Orange. All in all, this setup is going to cost each bridesmaid close to $600. for an "outfit" they will NEVER wear again. A mutiny is stirring. Five of the eight are talking "Thanks, but no thanks" Isn't this selfish of the bride? Shouldn't the bridesmaids agree on a dress, but the bride just pick the color? If the five decide to back out, would they be wrong to do so?

2007-01-12 16:07:53 · 21 answers · asked by C'mon Get Happy 3 in Weddings

that you didn't want to be friends before and wich is better to have a total opposite friend or to be just like your friend

2007-01-12 16:07:17 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I broke up w/ my bf and i let him down as easy as i can. does he still want to see me? we're salsa dancing partners. what should i do? talk to him? or wait to see if he wants to even see me again?

2007-01-12 16:06:52 · 5 answers · asked by Weirded Out 1 in Singles & Dating

help me plz!

2007-01-12 16:06:25 · 14 answers · asked by mikea 1 in Friends

Because three times I've liked a guy friend.. we were so close, talked on the phone everynight Ithought theyd like me back.. but i find out later they're into the little girly flirt.

Im not the type to flirt.. so i dont talk to that many guys.. but i feel that guys seem to go for the ones that are outgoing and flirt.. and i dont know what to do..

2007-01-12 16:05:57 · 27 answers · asked by sam3345 1 in Singles & Dating