Family & Relationships - 12 January 2007

I wait for him to spend time with me all the time. He's busy watching porn or tinkering w/ the computer.Or hes doing things like dishes when we have a dishwasher (keep in mind I'm sitting there waiting for him) He knows I'm waiting for him to give me a moment of his time.He jumps at the first chance to do something he doesnt even like to do.Here's the part that kills me. When he does call me its usually to get something,ask me a question or wants a ******* and ofcourse during this time he's sweet to me. After he's satisfied he picks on me, says negative things to me or about me and the worst is ignore/avoids me. I can't come up with any other reasons than
these.Suggestions /Advice Please!!!!

1.He just doesnt want to tell me
2.He has someone else
3.He is just not interested any more
4.He is using me for thing
Ther's more I won't go on it hurts to much

2007-01-12 17:01:39 · 3 answers · asked by amy s 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 17:01:39 · 10 answers · asked by abu 1 in Friends

2007-01-12 17:01:32 · 8 answers · asked by ro 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i like this boy but my friend likes him too he does not like her at all i have know him for so long but so has she. He has alaways been like my bestfriend i want to take it to the next level and so does he should i even though my friend likes him too?????

2007-01-12 17:01:27 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Lately I've been a bit jealous of my husband because I noticed him laughing with another woman at a party. She was the hostess but every time she would think of a game to play, a gift to distribute, walk by my husband or start a conversation, they both would have these uncontrollable smiles and laughter on their faces as if they did something wrong. She was also missing a lot when I and the other girls sat in a circle having a conversation about our kids and families and work. This was the first time we met face to face but my husband did mention her in the past few years as the "crazy woman" who works out with him at the gym. Next day I brought it up to my husbands attention, but he said there is nothing to worry about, because I am much more beautiful. I explained to him that people just don't laugh like this unless they know each other well. The woman seems sort of conservative, nice and hard working person, but she is a single mother, which means she is available and looking

2007-01-12 16:59:22 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

cuz i was watchingg this t.v. show and this girl said that

2007-01-12 16:59:05 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

us in extreme debt , thanks Bye

2007-01-12 16:59:00 · 1 answers · asked by da mayor 2 in Marriage & Divorce

you know how there are "genes" for alcoholism and eating disorders? well, are there "genes" for being unfaithful?

2007-01-12 16:59:00 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I have been dating my bf for about a year and a half. I am completely head overs heels in love with him. I have been in much longer relationships before but I never felt this way about any of those guys. My bf now makes me happy. He loves me for who I am and he doesn't care that I am not a skinny girl. I am barely 5'2" and weigh about 155. He says he likes my pudge. I am not self conscious around him. Even now when I get around him I still get those butterflies in my stomach like a school girl and puppy love. We are both adults and long out of grade school. I am afraid to tell him exactly how I feel because I am kind of scared that he will run screaming in the opposite direction. But everything that I am keeping inside is really taking a toll on me emotionally. Should I tell him how I feel or should I give it a little more time until we have been together longer? Your opinions are greatly appreciated.

2007-01-12 16:58:56 · 11 answers · asked by slvrcss 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 16:57:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

does anyone here go to Nigeul Hills Middle School?

2007-01-12 16:57:48 · 2 answers · asked by mbjack0407 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a guy friend that's turning 16 next week, and I'm wondering what he would like for a present. We both like each other but we're not going out. Also he's a very dedicated basketball player.

I'm in need of some advice =) please and thank you!

2007-01-12 16:57:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What do you think of young girls dating older men? How much older is too old?

2007-01-12 16:57:36 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

she is mad because she thinks that i became vain and different like became a bit popular and she thinks i told others about her crush wich i didnt...i told her that i didnt but i feel that she holding a grudge.. and she also thinks im bakstabing her wich i am not and i told her so but i think she wont believe me... wat can i do? i need help i dont wanna lose a friend.... was i mean or something/

2007-01-12 16:56:50 · 3 answers · asked by pinkblackangelsmile 2 in Friends

Im extremely worried something will go wrong the first time i have sex.

Ive just started dating this girl, and im very nervous. I know she isnt a virgin, and im guessing she would expect me to at least have been with one person before.

If you started dating this guy, and suddenly the big moment came, and it was a shocking let down, what would you feel? say? or even think?

Im not worried about what i look like, its more my performance, of not knowing what to do, being early or not rising to the occasion.

I get very nervous and overthink things, but biggest problem was when i first tried to have sex, i was so nervous i just couldnt rise, and its haunted me since (but there were external factors as to why i didnt). And the girl broke up with me day after, and its just in the back of my mind, that it may happen again.

2007-01-12 16:55:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 16:55:19 · 3 answers · asked by Pretty1 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 16:54:49 · 35 answers · asked by beautiful 1 in Singles & Dating

what does this girl wsiper when i am around whit her firends and one time i go shake her hand and want back to sit she wusper lound to her firend hes cute and then the girl looks at me when i look back she looks somewhere else fsat?

2007-01-12 16:54:43 · 12 answers · asked by zaheer a 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 16:54:35 · 29 answers · asked by qwerty 2 in Marriage & Divorce

all i need is ppl to tell me what they think love really is..i want to hear it from others perspective...what is love to you.??

2007-01-12 16:54:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am planning to give the guuy I have a crush on a note that says "If you only knew how much I like you" written in French. Do you guys think I should do that? If not, please suggest something. Thanks in advance!!

2007-01-12 16:53:45 · 34 answers · asked by Kat 1 in Singles & Dating

Insist on buying dinner all of the time? Even When I'm the one who says "lets go out." The other day she took my Card away from me until the waiter got back with the reciept. Why doesn't she want me to pay? Granted she makes more $ than me, but I don't thaink that's her only reason.

2007-01-12 16:53:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i feel that i am chasing him which i probably am, and i want to stop, i want him to chase me, if he really loved me like he said he did, he will come after me right?

2007-01-12 16:52:10 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have never been betrayed by a man in my life. Before the man I am in a relationship with now I was a regular on the dating scene and have always had good relationships.

I just can't bring myself to fully trust him, despite knowing he would do anything for me and loves me unconditionally, I feel like I have turned suspicious and jealous, I just can't help it! I'm not sure whats wrong with me, I know everyone has there insecurities but I can't say I ever had.

How do I change my ways and block out these jealous feelings?

2007-01-12 16:51:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok when we're laying down like spooning or just snugglin he's always telling me that my breathing will spike like my breathing pattern changes if you where a guy what would it make you think if a girl did this when you where spooning or something because my b/f acts like its a signal or somethin and when he asks me about it i say i dont notice it (cause i dont) and he says something like your giving me mixed signals!!

So what would you think if your girlfriend/love did that?
(He's 17 im 16 no sex goin on)

2007-01-12 16:50:36 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was goin out wit sum1 4 3 months then when we broke up a few weeks later i thought we were back together but he used the words "for old times sake" .....What the hell man???

2007-01-12 16:49:56 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We've been 5 months, we just understand things in chatting. I am honest to him 100%, but he ask me somthing that aside from my ex who else I get sex, then I say my 1st bf, I think he get mad at for not telling him abiyt it, but I think its no big deal. but he keeps on saying that I cheated my ex bf for having sex with my 1st bf while im in a relation,, pls. need advice I love my bf now I dont want to loosee him.

2007-01-12 16:49:43 · 1 answers · asked by Khakeru 1 in Singles & Dating

well this girl is suppossed to be my friend and when i ask her somthing she is like a cat meow....................................................

what should i do

2007-01-12 16:49:15 · 7 answers · asked by Sarah 2 in Friends

I am fifty years a male I was married for over twenty years I have been singel for a couple of years now I have tried most of the dating sights with no results. It is a whole different world than it was back when I was dating. I dont know how to start over I am so behind the times Im trying to catch up. Wemen are so conplex just about the time you think you got them figured out you are proven wrong. I dont know mabie I am trying too hard or mabie I am just to old and shouldnt be trying to find that somone special that can touch my heart and and give me cold chills with just a touch. I dont think I ask too much I want someone who can love me for who I am not look at the rough looks that a hard life has handed me someone who will look deeper to find a heart just waiting for someone to take it in.My dream of someone to hold and talk to, someone who I can tell my secrets to and she would know she could do the same.Mabie I am just to old fashioned. Am I just living a dream or just give u

2007-01-12 16:49:06 · 11 answers · asked by walley 1 in Singles & Dating

Whats the difference between being someones girl and being their girlfriend???? Oh and this is middle school im talking about.

2007-01-12 16:48:01 · 11 answers · asked by meganbookreader 1 in Singles & Dating