I have never been betrayed by a man in my life. Before the man I am in a relationship with now I was a regular on the dating scene and have always had good relationships.
I just can't bring myself to fully trust him, despite knowing he would do anything for me and loves me unconditionally, I feel like I have turned suspicious and jealous, I just can't help it! I'm not sure whats wrong with me, I know everyone has there insecurities but I can't say I ever had.
How do I change my ways and block out these jealous feelings?
2007-01-12 16:51:28 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Being suspicious of a guy is normal. The probability is that he IS cheating on you, anyway. You would be surprised how often guys cheat on women while still at a relatively young age. I think the numbers must be higher than statistics show.
2007-01-12 16:55:14 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you find the answers to your questions, please let me know! I've been in a relationship for nine and a half years (married for 4) and my husband has never done anything to cause me to distrust him, yet I find it very hard to be 100% trusting! I'm currently working through it by reading books and looking up help on the internet. I've also had a bit of councelling about it, so my advice would be to get help and certainly don't be embarrassed about admitting this probem, it's quite common! Good luck!
2007-01-12 16:56:14 · answer #2 · answered by Mrs C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love 101, Ma'm. Love and Trust, go hand-in-hand. If there isn't trust. Guess what. You ain't in Love. Do yourself some time in Respect Land. Make yourself the center of someone's Universe. It's well worth it. You'll feel a whole lot better. Try it. You'll like it!
2007-01-12 16:56:52 · answer #3 · answered by Goggles 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Obviously you must have had some feelings of untrust based on your "gut". You need to follow that-a womens intuition is a great thing to rely on. JUst follow your heart and don't fall into the trap that you are "wrong". I bet the more you go out with him the more you will untrust him--how old are you? You will find out eventually to trust yourself.
2007-01-12 16:59:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you feel this way then you need to talk to someone about how
and you are feeling and then maybe you can fiqure out why this
continue to happen. but if you dont you will lose a good man
in the long run.
2007-01-12 16:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you have these jealous feelings for a reason?????
2007-01-12 17:09:06 · answer #6 · answered by lisa_eli_92252 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋