I have been dating my bf for about a year and a half. I am completely head overs heels in love with him. I have been in much longer relationships before but I never felt this way about any of those guys. My bf now makes me happy. He loves me for who I am and he doesn't care that I am not a skinny girl. I am barely 5'2" and weigh about 155. He says he likes my pudge. I am not self conscious around him. Even now when I get around him I still get those butterflies in my stomach like a school girl and puppy love. We are both adults and long out of grade school. I am afraid to tell him exactly how I feel because I am kind of scared that he will run screaming in the opposite direction. But everything that I am keeping inside is really taking a toll on me emotionally. Should I tell him how I feel or should I give it a little more time until we have been together longer? Your opinions are greatly appreciated.
2007-01-12 16:58:56 · 11 answers · asked by slvrcss 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has also been married and divorced though.
2007-01-12 17:10:22 · update #1
You should definitely tell him how you feel, don't keep your feelings bottled up inside.
2007-01-12 17:02:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should tell him now. You never know he could feel the same way. He might think you would get freaked out because you don't want to be that serious. If you have been dating for a while, which it seems you have and you both seem very passionate, i say why not? I don't think he would get intimidated, why should he? He obviously seems to love you back. If you tell him and he DOES freak, then tell him, well, that's okay, we don't have to take our relationship to the next level if you don't want too. Keep in mind that you can't just assume he wants too, you have to remind yourself it is a bilateral dicision. Good luck! :)
2007-01-12 17:07:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, a year and half is a long time. Tell him. My husband told me how he felt about me 3 months down the road and then three months after that he purposed.. we are now happily married with a baby on the way!! we live once and the clock is ticking!
2007-01-12 17:03:46 · answer #3 · answered by GreekGurl84 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not frequently & actually not with someone i do not think & recognize fairly nicely. i'm satisfied regardless of the reality that that you're feeling extra ideal & the argument has been resolved, so that is magnificent to carry close that speaking about issues can truly make a distinction.
2016-11-23 15:24:09 · answer #4 · answered by hutt 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you've waited long enough. Heck, you could of told him 3 months after the start of thre relation, and probably wouldn't have scared him off.
Good luck! ^_^
2007-01-12 17:02:55 · answer #5 · answered by Nova 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl,tell him now!Has he said anything to you about how he feels?Should never bottle up emotions,especially the good ones.
2007-01-12 17:31:31 · answer #6 · answered by noname 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's been with you this long, he's not going to run away at you telling him how you feel.
2007-01-12 17:05:46 · answer #7 · answered by bigwoodenhead 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Right time for him to know. good luck.
2007-01-12 17:08:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to. you should. it will make the pain go away
2007-01-12 17:02:37 · answer #9 · answered by e-chan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be honest or stop dating.
2007-01-12 17:02:19 · answer #10 · answered by ima_averagejoe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋