I am fifty years a male I was married for over twenty years I have been singel for a couple of years now I have tried most of the dating sights with no results. It is a whole different world than it was back when I was dating. I dont know how to start over I am so behind the times Im trying to catch up. Wemen are so conplex just about the time you think you got them figured out you are proven wrong. I dont know mabie I am trying too hard or mabie I am just to old and shouldnt be trying to find that somone special that can touch my heart and and give me cold chills with just a touch. I dont think I ask too much I want someone who can love me for who I am not look at the rough looks that a hard life has handed me someone who will look deeper to find a heart just waiting for someone to take it in.My dream of someone to hold and talk to, someone who I can tell my secrets to and she would know she could do the same.Mabie I am just to old fashioned. Am I just living a dream or just give u
2007-01-12 16:49:06 · 11 answers · asked by walley 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you might be trying too hard to find a relationship. Maybe just try finding a friend first, then all will fall into place. I am an older female, lost my husband four years ago and now I go to a singles group. They are all my friends, the old and the young. We do a lot of things together, have dinner once a week, go to movies, hiking, wine festivals. I feel that some day and some time I will meet someone again, but I am not pushing it. Just relax and enjoy life, don't try so hard.
2007-01-13 01:14:48 · answer #1 · answered by bebopgal 3 · 6⤊ 7⤋
I just turned 59 and i feel pretty much the same way that you do but it is hard to admit to. It would be nice just to have someone special. Just because we get older does not mean that we stop having feelings. Don't feel bad if you can not figure out women. I can not figure out myself nor men either. So i Stopped trying-that does not mean that you have to-babe. Live your dream. There is nothing wrong with being old fashioned. Well go ahead and write a book I will be the leading Lady.
2007-01-12 17:00:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you are limiting yourself too much, or else have very high expectations of the women you are interested in. You need to relax and not try so hard. You should do things you are interested in and meet new people without any expectations, and I think you will find what you're looking for when you least expect it. Good luck
2007-01-12 17:02:48 · answer #3 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't "look" for someone. Just get out there in the scene (whatever it may be for you) and meet people. Ordinary friendships can grow to be much more. To be more specific, when there are no expectations about how you should behave, or what you should look like, people can see you for the person you are inside. There is someone for every one... this much is true.
2007-01-12 16:54:11 · answer #4 · answered by Speaking_Up 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
walley you are never to old to enjoy the company of another. women aren't as complex as you think. maybe you are looking in the wrong places, take your dog for a walk and spark up a conversation with the woman that stops to pat your dog.show women you are keen but dont over do it. listen i wish you all the best walley. May the women of your dreams come into your life sooner rather than later
2007-01-12 16:54:29 · answer #5 · answered by scarlettstar 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Stop looking and you will find someone.
2007-01-12 16:52:11 · answer #6 · answered by Kallie 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your not to old. just give it time you'll find that special person.
2007-01-12 16:54:13 · answer #7 · answered by Kittyintx 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you could if you didn't misspell every other word
2007-01-12 16:57:15 · answer #8 · answered by billypowell88 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
I've been in a singles group that had people 30 to 70 in it. There are social organziations you could join where you could make new friends and find a special lady. You're not going to find her sitting home and feeling sorry for yourself! You need to get out and meet new people!
This singles group has weekly dinners, gets together for Happy Hour on Fridays, organizes hikes, picnics, stuff like that. Go out and find something similar in your area!
2007-01-12 16:55:54 · answer #9 · answered by Jackie Blue 4 · 1⤊ 9⤋
You're not fifty, and this is from a book.
2007-01-12 16:52:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋