Family & Relationships - 12 January 2007

My boyfreind and I have relationship for 2 years and have lived together. He has night shift like from 11pm to 8am. I know he is really tired. Even though we didn't have sex for 2 weeks, I can understand. But I catch him he was watching porn and masturbated yesterday. I really don't understand how could he do that? It was his off day which I was waiting for. I was sleeping next to him. He used to wake me up when he was horny. But now....
Does he feel boring from me or not attractive? It doesn't make me feel good. I am really sad.Is it normal?

2007-01-12 16:47:31 · 15 answers · asked by BBABO 1 in Singles & Dating

my friends boyfriend found out that one of her close guy friends likes her and he said if he likes her he's gonna dump her!!(her boyfriend acts like he's 5) so she asked me to ask the guy if he likes her and he said he would only tell me the answer if i either showed him my chest or my vag**a!! would you have done it???
Please help?

my friend really wanted me to do it!!

2007-01-12 16:47:31 · 9 answers · asked by ghetto fabolous 4 in Singles & Dating

me and my boyfriend are having a baby in feb. but the only problem is what to do when its born. he tells me to move in with him but i think it would be better if he would move in with me. should i move in with him or should i tell him to move in with me?

2007-01-12 16:46:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I've been trying to reconcile my ex-girlfriend for some weeks now, but she tells me she already has a guy that she don't want to cheat. Now, I'm going to visit her on her birthday, she has already consented to my visit. What gift would you think appropriate as I still hope to plead with her to take me back. I already told her that I am coming to plead her to take me back. Because I still love her. Please, what gift do you think is appropriate and efficient?

2007-01-12 16:43:53 · 22 answers · asked by Lisa L 1 in Singles & Dating

Broke up with ex in the beginning of september. We have both had a new relationship since then. I am out of mine and she is stll in hers. We ended up going out to dinner last week and we ended up sleeping together again. She said it was a one time thing and that it can't happen again. The whole time she was over she was hanging all over me like when we were together then she just shut off those feelings the next day. I really don't know if it is a wise idea to hang out anymore. If it has happened once I don't really think it won't happen again. She also wasn't telling her boyfriend we were hanging out. She finally told him we went to dinner this week, but nothing else. Should I just stay away. I actaully still have feelings for her and she knows this. I don't honestly know what to do. Any advice would be great.

2007-01-12 16:43:08 · 4 answers · asked by john 2 in Singles & Dating

I live with them and also with other people that are so lazy they expect me be the one doing everything what can I do ? help :-(
and i feel like I cant say anything ? I feel like Iam in hell......
also Iam 7months pregnant.....I feel sorry for my husband because I go to him whining.....poor honey...... we cant afford being onour own !!!!

2007-01-12 16:43:04 · 4 answers · asked by married_n_love 1 in Friends

2007-01-12 16:42:49 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok my sister wants to beat up my bff and my bff wants to beat up my sister. SO they used to be friends(that didnt last a week). Whos side should I be on.

2007-01-12 16:41:58 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-01-12 16:41:27 · 25 answers · asked by nina rachminiwati 1 in Singles & Dating

I have searching for these friends of mine whom I lost contact many years ago.

Allan Tulloch (met him in Sydney, Australia)
Last address: Derek Avenue
Hove 3
East Sussex BN3 4PF

Lisa Tan Siew Yek (formerly from Johor, Malaysia)
Last address: 242 Rowley Gardens
Manor House
London
N4 1HW
Anyone can help?

2007-01-12 16:40:24 · 5 answers · asked by WhiskeyRose 2 in Friends

Im 12, i look 16, act 16...Okay, i had this boyfriend, we went out for over a year and then around september the time had to come i had to break up with him because i couldnt keep on hurting him. While we were going out i would mess around with other guys and some how he'd always end up finding out? But then after we broke up i dated a 16 year old.. and he got really mad, and he started calling me names all the time, he would tell me i look like a tramp, he calls me a **** because of me cheating on him and my thong always hangs out.. and he would always have something to say about that. But deep down i still have a soft spot for him but now i just kinda ignore him calling me names, but it still hurts a lot. I am kinda labled as a tramp though. Good advice please!

2007-01-12 16:40:11 · 18 answers · asked by Rebecca 1 in Singles & Dating

have you ignored the guy or girl that you liked and suddenly they come to you saying that they miss you? or have made someone admit that they like you by playing this game? does this game work for everyone?

2007-01-12 16:39:41 · 11 answers · asked by Gel G 2 in Singles & Dating

My wife and I were married almost 5 years. We simply got married too young and went in different directions as we grew into the world. We get along fine and have no bad feelings for each other. Any comments?

2007-01-12 16:38:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-01-12 16:37:33 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 16:37:16 · 18 answers · asked by momoftwo 3 in Family

my friend and i were seeing each for a brief time but shes too independent and only seems to achnowledge me whenever she wants...she calls me more when we arent dating. she also knows alot of dudes and im not a big fan of that, so i decided to walk away. now when we are together she hits on me but i cant do anything and its awkward between us...what is the best thing i can do now, i feel i walked away b/c she doesnt seem to want to compromise even thou i do..help?!

2007-01-12 16:37:15 · 6 answers · asked by wizzpack 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

This guy I've liked for three years thinks I'm a joke and I hate him but I don't want to how do I get over him?

2007-01-12 16:37:11 · 8 answers · asked by Sexy Diva 101 2 in Singles & Dating

I'm a 5'9 asian in Los Angeles subrub and I like short caucasian lady. But my friends and my relatives want me to marry an asian girl. I want to have sex with caucasian but I am afraid that I might break their hearts if I don't marry them. I am thinking too much, am I?

2007-01-12 16:36:54 · 8 answers · asked by imissu8 1 in Singles & Dating

I've had quite a few ladies trying to flirt and show me love, but I find it fairly odd obviously for the reason that I just don't go for girls... Who knows if your drunk, you don't know what things you'll end up doing *yikes*. All my lesbot gf's tell me that I should be flattered, but the whole idea just confuses me even more ;P . Just curious to know how any of you feel about having someone of the same sex finding you attractive?

2007-01-12 16:36:52 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im thinking of getting my girlfriend a massager to help her with the stress she's under, but I don't want her to get the Idea that we can use it in bed. I'm not against using it in bed, but that's not the reasoning for the gift. She means more to me than an orgasm.

2007-01-12 16:36:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what should i do he is so cute. I feel like hes flriting with me but i do't no? We play BS together, he laughs at my jokes and me to his. when im around he seems to show off but i think he knows i like him and hes so so. Do you think he likes me and if he does what should i do?

2007-01-12 16:36:36 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 16:36:13 · 3 answers · asked by MAGUETTE S 1 in Singles & Dating

My Mom was my best friend, and everthing I had. She died suddenly overnight, and I had to find her the next morning alone. I just feel like I havent even scratched the surface on grieving, and I have no one who truly understands. The pain and desperation is so much to bear.. Just want to know if there is anyone out there that is or has gone through the loss of a Mother, and wouldnt mind talking to me. Thanks so much for everyones time.

2007-01-12 16:36:01 · 14 answers · asked by N 3 in Family

do ya'll think this is wrong or think he is to old for her

2007-01-12 16:35:25 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i am 15 and there is a girl who i think is really beautiful.about a month i introduced myself and started to speak to her like for two minutes once every three days . i cant really explain how she is but she doesnt talk that much but it isnt like she doesnt talk at all since then all i could think about was her and everytime i spoke to her she smiled and was very friendly. but now i feel like i am loosing her she is getting bored of me she doesnt smile that much around me .is not that i said anything dumb or stupid but i want her to like me , make her laugh and make feel more comfotable around me and i want to get closer to her and be her friend first and guys like me dont usually get girls like her.im not ready to tell her how i feel just yet but i do wanna get close to her. help what should i say to her and do

2007-01-12 16:33:27 · 3 answers · asked by Josh j 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 16:33:07 · 28 answers · asked by gigi 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 16:32:47 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I know the person pretty well but we don't see each other very often, or even talk on the phone. This wouldn't be a sexually thing, just like seeing a movie or going to a theme park sometime.

2007-01-12 16:32:40 · 3 answers · asked by J-dawg 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-01-12 16:32:17 · 18 answers · asked by skidudecp 2 in Friends

After my ex and i broke up, we decided to be friends. It was extremely hard for me during the split but now we're ok. The thing is that we were already friends before we became a couple. So now we're still friends and i'm wondering if we can be together again. I still love her and miss her alot. I've been acting fine ever since the breakup and have been waiting for her to come back.So my question, Is it possible for friends-turn-to-couple-turn-to-ex-turn-to-friends to turn to be couples again?

2007-01-12 16:31:30 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends